Kungenxa yeenjongo ezinokuba kukho iindidi ezahlukeneyo kunye namacandelo abantwana kubantwana bokuqala ukuya kwintsholongwane.
Ukucela indlela yokukhetha icandelo lomntwana, okokuqala abazali bonke kufuneka baqwalasele iminqweno yomntwana, amakhono akhe kunye nobuchule bakhe, kunye nempilo yakhe kunye nobudala bakhe. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo sokuba yiliphi iqela lokunika umntwana, kuyimfuneko:
- qi ni sekise ukuba indoda encinane ifuna ukwenza into abazali bayinika yona;
- ukuba ukhetho luwela kwicandelo lezemidlalo, kufuneka udibane nodokotela ukuba kukho na ukuphikisana komntwana ukutyelela icandelo elithile kubantwana kwaye luhlobo luni lwemidlalo oluya kwamkeleka kuye;
- qwalasela indawo yecandelo elikhethiweyo okanye umgudu kubantwana. Ukuhamba kwexesha elide kunye elinomdla akunakwenzeka ukuzisa, kokubili kubazali nabantwana;
- ukubuza ngubani oza kuba ngumqeqeshi okanye intloko yesangqa. Ngulo titshala kunye nesimo sakhe sengqondo kubantwana abaya kugqiba imizwa kunye nomnqweno weemvumba ukuba baqhube izifundo zabo kunye nokuphuhlisa;
- Qinisekisa ukuba emva kokutyelela icandelo, umntwana uya kuba namandla kunye nokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nobudlelwane obuhle.
- Nangona kunjalo, umbandela ophezulu wokukhetha icandelo okanye isangqa ngumyinge womntwana.
Amacandelo abancinci abaneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala
Enyanisweni, kwiminyaka emi-2 ukuthetha malunga nawaphi na amakhono asekuqaleni, kodwa ngo-3 ubudala, abazali abaphulaphuleyo bangazibona izinto eziphambili kumntwana wabo. Ukongezelela, ukuba abantwana abazange baqalise ukuya kwiziko lokufundela okanye ezinye iziko eziphambi kweziko eliphakathi kweminyaka emithathu, bafuna icandelo lezemidlalo okanye isangqa seminqweno ukuze bahlawulele ukungabikho koqhagamshelwano kunye noontanga babo kwaye bahlakulele ngokupheleleyo.
Kwiminyaka eyi-3-4 ubudala abantwana banganikelwa:
- Icandelo lokubhukuda . Ingane iya kufunda ukuhlala emanzini nokulawula umzimba wakho. Ukongezelela, iiklasi kwisitenki se-pool-paddling ziza kuba negalelo elikhuselayo ekukhuseleni, ukubunjwa kwesithuba, ukuphucula ulungelelwano lwezinto, ukunyamezela nokuguquguquka.
- Isangqa sokudweba. Umnqweno wobuchule, njengomthetho, ubonakaliswe kakhulu kusasa kubantwana. Ngoko ke, abaculi abancinci bezo zifundo ziya kuzisa uncedo oluninzi kwaye bancedise ukubonakalisa iitalente.
Amacandelo abafundi abasesikolweni
Ngalo nyaka, ukhetho lubanzi:
- Isigaba sokubhukuda sisona si phambili.
- Ezinye iintlobo zobugcisa bokulwa, ezifana ne-aikido. Le nto ifilosofi ekhethekileyo efundisa abantwana ukuba bazuze ukuvisisana nehlabathi elibangqongileyo.
- I-Gymnastics (imidlalo kunye nobugcisa). Ubumba umfanekiso omhle, uhlakulela ukuguquguquka, ukulungelelanisa, iplastiki kunye nokunyakaza okulungileyo.
- Ukususela kwiminyaka engama-5, unomdla kumntwana ekudlala i-tennis enkulu okanye etafileni. Lo mdlalo awunakuphikiswa, uphucula umbono.
- Umzobo wokukrazula kunye nokweqa. Umsebenzi othakazelisayo nonomdla awuyi kushiya nawuphi na umntwana onganamdla. Kule meko, le midlalo iyayinceda kakhulu kwimpilo, ingakumbi ngomsebenzi wentliziyo.
- Umdlalo kunye nokudansa ibhola. Bakha inhlonipho ngesini esahlukileyo, ukuphuhlisa amandla okuba nomzimba wakho.
- Amacandelo amancinci mhlawumbi aya kuthanda isangqa se chess.
Amacandelo abantwana abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 ukuya ku-12 ubudala
Kwiminyaka engama-6-7, abantwana banako ukuqonda ngokufanelekileyo nokwenza imiyalelo, ukulawula umzimba kunye neemvakalelo. Ngoko ke, ukhetho lwamacandelo ezemidlalo kunye nezibonda luba luninzi: i-badminton, iHockey, ibhola lebhola , i-volleyball, ibhola lebhoksi. Kungekudala, amacandelo abantwana abadala kweminyaka engama-10-12 kwi-boxing yaseThailand baye bathandwa.
Ukongeza kwinqanaba lemidlalo, abazali banokukhetha isangqa esifanelekileyo kwiminyaka kunye nemithwalo, ngokomzekelo, ukubhala, ikhompyutheni, ubugcisa, imathematika, isangqa kunye nokunye.