Abazali banakekele abantwana babo kungekhona ekuzalweni, kodwa kude kube ngumzuzu wokukhulelwa. Emva koko, zonke izono zethu nobuhle ziwumthwalo okanye intsikelelo kwixesha elizayo labantwana.
Kwiintsapho ezingamaKristu ezithandekayo, abazali ngaphambi kokuba bafumane umtshato kufuneka bafumane intsikelelo yomfundisi. Ngaphambi koku, kufuneka umntu avume kwaye aguquke ezonweni zakhe (emva koko, ukungabi nantlungu kudla ngokusoloko kuhlawuliswa ngenxa yobunqunu bobuhlobo bezesondo ). Kwaye ukwenza konke oku kusebenza kufuneka kube ngumlingani, kwaye kungekhona kuphela umfazi.
Yimiphi imithandazo efundwayo ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe?
Umthandazo wokukhulelwa komntwana akufanele ufundwe ethempelini ngaphambi kokuvuma okanye intsikelelo yombingeleli, kodwa nakwikhaya nangaliphi na ixesha, kwaye ingakumbi ngaphambi kwexesha lokukhulelwa.
Unokuqaphela rhoqo kwimithandazo efundwayo ngaphambi kokukhulelwa komntwana, amagama athi "Ukuthanda kwakho kwenziwe". Oku kubonisa ukuba umntu uzimisele ukuthobela ukuthanda kukaThixo ebomini bakhe, kwaye umntwana akayikho nto kodwa intando kaThixo.
Ukukhulelwa komntwana, imithandazo yaseSt. Xenia yaseSt. Petersburg, uMama Matrona, iTheotokos, uAlexander Svirsky kunye nabanye bafundwa. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, amaninzi abafazi bafunda imithandazo malunga nokukhulelwa komntwana kwiTheotokos. Umthandazo olandelayo kufuneka ufundwe phambi kwe icon "uMphilisi":
"Priimi, O Wonke-Usikelele kunye Nonke-uMninimandla onke, uMdaka weNtombikazi, Uzinikezele, lo mthandazo obuhlungu, ngezinyembezi Ulethwa kuthi, ungenakufaneleka kubakhonzi bakho, ngomfanekiso wakho onomnqophiso uhlabelela ukuthumela ngothando, Ngubani onguyo kunye nomthandazo wokuphulaphula kunye nokucela kwethu ukukholwa. Ngokuhambelana nesicengululo, ukuqhutyelwa kwenziwa, intlungu iqhutywe, abagulayo bayagula abagulayo, abagulayo kunye nabuthathaka, baphiliswa, besuka kwiidemon zikaMtyholi, bekhutshwe yiengxaki, abaqhenqa bahlambulukileyo kunye nabantwana abancinci, baze baye kwiNkosikazi kaMary kaMama kaThixo, inkululeko kunye nenkululeko yeentolongo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo I-passion vrachueshi: yonke into enokubakho ngokunyamezela kuNyana wakho, uKristu wethu uThixo. O, Unina osemazantsi, Unina oNgcwele kaThixo! Musa ukusikhulela, ungenakufanelekela abakhonzi bakho, ukuzukisa kunye nokukunqula, nokunqula ngomfanekiso wakho ococekileyo, nethemba labo abanayo, andiyi kubuya, kunye nokholo olungenalo kuwe, Intombi ekhethileyo kunye ne-Immaculate, ikuzukisa kwaye ikuzukise kwaye ikhale njalo ngonaphakade. Amen. "
Ziziphi iintsuku ongazithatha umntwana?
Umthandazo wamaOthodoki wokukhulelwa komntwana uya kusebenza, kuphela xa uhambelana neminye imithetho yobuKristu yokukhulelwa. Umgaqo obaluleke kakhulu umhla wokukhulelwa. Kwikhalenda yecawa kunemihla emininzi xa izenzo zesondo phakathi kwabatshatileyo zibhekwa njengesono:
- ngexesha lokuzila;
- ngokuhlwa kweeholide ezinkulu;
- ngeveki yeentsuku zokuzila ukudla - uLwesithathu noLwesihlanu (ngosuku ngaphambi kokuba lithetha ukuba awukwazi ukulala ngesine-4 ntambama NgoLwesibili kunye noLwesine, ngokulandelana);
- ngeCawa;
- ngomhla womtshato.
EbuKristwini (ngokungafani no-Islam) umntu akanako ukwenza uthando ngosuku lomtshato, ekubeni ukukhanya komtshato ngumbingeleli kuthathwa njengemfihlelo enokungahlambulukanga.
UMatrona oyiNgcwele
Ubungcwele uMatrona ngexesha lobomi bakhe banceda abaninzi abafazi ukuba balahle umthwalo wokungabi nantoni, waba ngumfazi onyanisekileyo. Emva kokufa kwakhe, abafazi baqala ukumbuza malunga nokukhulelwa umntwana kwimithandazo kaMatronushka.
"Owu-myokazi uMatrono, umphefumlo ezulwini ngaphambi kokuba itrone kaThixo ifike, kunye nomzimba ekuphumuleni komhlaba, kwaye lo
Namhlanje, ngesiso sakho esinomusa kuthi, aboni, kwiimbandezelo, izifo kunye nezilingo zamademoni, sinemihla yethu yokuphelelwa yithemba, siyathuthuzela, siyaphilisa, siphilisa izifo zethu, zivela kuThixo izono zethu zithunyelwa kuthi, zisisindise kwiintlungu ezininzi kunye neemeko kwaye sithandaze kwiNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, usixolele zonke izono zethu, ubugwenxa kunye nezono, ukususela ebusheni bethu kude kube nanamhla kunye neyure ngesono, nangemithandazo yakho, uwamkele inceba nenceba enkulu, sizukisa kubuthathu boThixo-uYise noNyana, noMoya oyiNgcwele, kunye ngoku kunye naphakade kunye neenkulungwane. Amen. "