U-Xenia wasePetersburg ngexesha lobomi bakhe wayenokunyamezela iimvavanyo ezininzi kunye neziganeko ezimbi. Ukutshatyalaliswa okubalulekileyo, okutshintsha kakhulu ubomi bakhe, kwakukufa komyeni wakhe. Emva koko, lo mfazi wayinikela yonke inzuzo kwaye waqala ukunceda abantu abangenakho imbuyekezo. Wayephethe isipho sokuqikelela ikusasa, eyasinceda ukulondoloza abantu abaninzi. Ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, u- Xenia Petersburg akayeki ukunceda abantu abangena kuphela ethuneni lakhe, kodwa banokuthandaza kunye neefayile.
Yintoni enceda Xenia Petersburg?
Ngethuba lobomi bakhe, ongcwele wasiza bonke abantu abafuna inkxaso. U-Xenia wamnika izinto kumahlwempu, ngaphandle koyiko lokushiywa kungekho nto. Kuza kubekho, kukho ubungqina obuninzi obubongoza isanta bancede ukujamelana neengxaki kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi.
Yiyiphi incedo elisikelelweyo i-Xenia yasePetersburg:
- Ukususela ngethuba lokuphila kwakhe ingcwele yayingumqondiso wothando oluqinileyo nolunaphakade, namhlanje kwimithandazo yakhe yodwa imantombazana ephuphayo yokuhlangana nomhlobo ofanelekileyo wobomi. Inceda umfazi osikelelekileyo ukuba atshate amantombazana enokwenene.
- Kukho ubungqina bokuthi umntu othile u-Xenia Petersburg uncede ukukhulelwa. Namhlanje, ngelanga, izibini ezininzi zikhalaza ukuba abazange bakwazi ukuba nomntwana ixesha elide. Ukubhenela ngokuthe rhoqo kunye no-Xenia wasePetersburg kuncede ukusombulula le ngxaki kwaye ukhulelwe umntwana. Ukongezelela, ukukhulelwa kula mabhinqa, ngokwezingqinisiso, kwagqitywa ngaphandle kweengxaki, kwaye ukubeletha kwakulula.
- Izibini zentsapho ezithandaza kwiintsikelelo ziya kunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane kwintsapho, ukubuyisela intlonipho, okulungileyo kunye nothando. Ukuba kukho iingxabano phakathi kwabathandi kunye nayo yonke into ehambelana nomtshato, ukubhenela ngokunyanisekileyo kumaziko aphezulu kukunceda ukuseka imeko.
- Ukufumana oko umthandazo we-Xenia waseSt. Petersburg unceda, kuyafaneleka ukutsho ukuba insikelelo inceda kwakhona ukuba uphumelele kwimicimbi eyahlukeneyo kwaye uthande inhlanhla kuwe. Umzekelo, unokumnxibelelana naye ukuze uqhube phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, uphucule imeko yakho yezemali, njl. Kufuneka kuphela ukuba ingqalelo ukuba imali ayiyi kuvela esibhakabhakeni, Amandla amakhulu angenza kuphela iimeko eziphumelelayo zokufezekisa injongo, kodwa nokuba umntu uyisebenzise okanye cha, ibhizinisi lomntu wonke.
- Abantu abaninzi baqala ukufunda imithandazo kuphela xa bejamelene nezifo ezibi kakhulu, ngoko ke kukho ubungqina obuninzi bokuthi u-Xenia wasePetersburg uncedise ukuphilisa kwizifo ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye nokuxilongwa okubulalayo akunakuqinisekiswa.
- Ukujika kwi-icon imelela abantu abalahlekelwe ukholo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bafuna ukuguquka kwizono zabo baze bahlambulule imiphefumlo yabo engafaniyo.
- Kunconywa kwindlu yakho ukubeka uphawu lwe-Xenia yaseSt. Petersburg ukuba lube luhlobo oluthile oluya kugxotha zonke iintlobo ezimbi kunye nobubi.
Ukuthetha malunga nabani abancedisa u-Xenia Petersburg ukutshata, akhulelwe aze asombulule ezinye iingxaki, kubalulekile ukuqonda indlela yokujongana nayo. Indlela efanelekileyo kukutyelela ingcwaba lomntu ongcwele oseSt. Petersburg emangcwabeni eSmolensk. Kulapho kufuneka ubhale inqaku ngesicelo sakho uze ujikeleze i-chapel kathathu ngamaxesha. Emva koko, ileta yakho kufuneka ifakwe kwibhokisi ekhethekileyo, kwaye ke, uye kwi icon uze uphinde wenze isicelo sakho phambi kwayo. Kucetyiswa kwakhona ukubeka ikhandlela kufuphi nomfanekiso. Ukuba awunalo ithuba lokuya eSt. Petersburg, ke thandaza phambi kwekhonkco ecaweni okanye ekhaya. Umzobo ka-Xenia Petersburg kufuneka ubeke kwigumbi elikhulu kunazo zonke kunye neyona nto iphezulu kwikhoneni elingaphezulu kumnyango wokungena.