Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, ngolwazi lwesimo sesondo, unako ukudibanisa kuyo yonke indawo: kwiTV, kumabhayisikobho okanye kwintengiso yezitalato. Kwaye uhleli phantsi, ungamxeleli umntwana wakho, kungekudala emva koko omnye umntu uya kukwenza. Abazali abaninzi bayesaba ukuqala lo msebenzi, bengayazi indlela yokuqalisa kunye noko bathethayo. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ngokucacileyo ukuba ukuxelela umntwana kuyadingeka ngokunyanisekileyo nangokulula. Into ephambili kukuba uqhube incoko ngendlela engokwemvelo kwaye uzame ukwenza ngaphandle kweemfundiso ezide zokufundisa ngemfundo yesondo yabantwana.
Imfundo yentsholongwane yabaselula kukunika ingxelo malunga:
- utshintsho olwenzeka emzimbeni womntwana ngexesha lokukhulelwa;
- iindlela zokuziphatha ngokwesondo;
- ngokwesini kunye nokuqhelaniswa (homo, hetero, bi);
- izifo ze-venereal;
- iindlela zokukhulelwa;
- iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa.
Imfundo yabasetyhini
Imfundo yesondo kufuneka ibe yinxalenye yenkqubo yemfundo jikelele eqinisekisa ukuphuhliswa kakuhle kobuntu benkwenkwe njengommeli wesini esomeleleyo. Abazali bafuna ukunceda umntwana ukuba aqonde imigangatho yolwalamano oluhle kunye namalungu esini esahlukileyo, kunye nemigangatho yokuziphatha kuluntu, ukufaka kuye inkolelo yokuba ngumvikeli wexesha elizayo kunye nentloko yentsapho. Kubalulekile ukuba le nkwenkwe inombono ochanekileyo wokuba ngumntwana, ubuchule bezempilo kunye nokulungele ukuveliswa kwezinto ezingcolileyo. Kwakhona, ngexesha lokuphuhliswa ngokwesondo, umntu kufuneka azame ukukhusela abafana ukuba bavuswe ngokukhawuleza.
Imfundo yabasetyhini
Ukufundisa ibhinqa elulungele ubomi bentsapho ngumsebenzi oyintloko wemfundo yesondo kwintombazana. Kufuneka ukuba azibone ngexesha elifanelekileyo njengommeli wesini esibuthakathaka, ujongane nezakhono zokucoceka, kwaye akwazi ukuziphatha kakuhle nabafana. Amantombazana, njengoko akhula, kufuneka afake ingqiqo yobuntombi, ukucoceka, isithunzi, udumo kunye nehlazo. Iphuzu elibalulekileyo kwimfundo yesondo le ntombazana kukuzisa ulwazi olufanelekileyo malunga nokuya esikhathini, kwaye xa bevela, unina kufuneka anike ulwazi oluqala malunga nobomi besondo kunye nemiphumo engathandekiyo.