Ungaphinda uthandane njani nomyeni wakhe?

Ukuba ukholelwa umlobi waseFrentshi uFrederick Begbeder, thandani ubomi iminyaka emithathu. Abasetyhini bokwenene abavumi ukukholelwa kuyo, kodwa bavuma ukuba ngexesha lexesha iimvakalelo ezibini ziguqulwa, okanye ziphela.

Ngokumalunga nendlela yokuwa nomyeni wakhe kwakhona unokunika iingcebiso ngokungapheliyo, kodwa siza kugxininisa kwiingongoma eziphambili, ngaphandle kokuba luphi uthando olungayi kulawula ekhaya lakho, nokuba ngumnyaka we-10.

Ungaphinda uthandane njani nomyeni wakhe?

  1. Okokuqala, indoda kufuneka ihlawule ngokwaneleyo. Ungalibali ukudibana naye kwimibandela ebalulekileyo kuwe nakwintsapho yakho, qi niseka ukucela uncedo, nokuba uyazi ukuba uya kuzilawula. Amadoda ngokwemveli ayinqobi kuphela, kodwa nabo bahlangulayo, ngoko ke nihlale ninamandla ngenxa yenkqubela, kwaye makamnandiphe ukunqoba, nokuba ngaba iisilumko sinamathele eludongeni.
  2. Okwesibini, ibhinqa akufanele libe lusizi kumntu wayo. Kumele akwazi ukuxhasa incoko nayiphi na isihloko, unike iingcebiso, unikezele ngoncedo lwengqondo ukuba umyeni wakhe unenkinga. Funda ubuxoki, mamela umculo omhle, ungene kwimidlalo, funda into entsha - ngegama elinye, phuhlisa! Kwaye ingxaki, ukuba kwakhona ukuthanda nomyeni wakhe, iya kushiya.
  3. Okwesithathu, yibani nomnene nobumnene nomntu wakho. Kwaye akukhona nje ngesondo soxilongo, okungafanelekile ukuba lube yinto eqhelekileyo, kodwa nangomqondiso wemihla ngemihla. Thatha umyeni ngobumnene kwisitorethi, ngelixa umgca uhamba ngokukhawuleza kwi-checkout. Okanye unqanyuliwe ngokungathi ngengozi umlenze wakhe kwi-traffic jam jam. Ewe, ukumanga ehlathini, ukudlula kwiqela elomsindo, kuyinkqubo enyanzelekileyo yabasetyhini abangakwaziyo ukuba bathandane nomyeni kwakhona.

Ngelishwa, akuqhelekanga kwiimeko xa ezinye zeemeko ezingenakunqotshwa kwiimeko zingabakho kwiintsapho, ukungaqondani kunye nezikhalazo, kunokuba zithande, zibekwa phambili. Ininzi idla ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kodwa ukuba unesiqinisekiso sokuthi uthando lusaphila, kwaye le ndoda iyisiqingatha sesibini, yenza ngoko!

Indlela yokuwa ngothando nomyeni wangaphambili uza kukuxelela intliziyo. Mkhumbuze indoda yakhe, kodwa i-unobtrusively. Makhe abone indlela oye wayenza ngayo xa wayesekho. Ukuba kukho ithuba lokumema umyeni ongaphambili ukuba atyelele, uze ushiye iindidi zeentyantyambo etafileni. Mxelele ukuba unomdla kwamanye amadoda. Kodwa ininzi yazo yonke into, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubulili obuqinileyo buxabisa ukunyaniseka nokunyaniseka, ngoko ungagqithisi ngomona. Yiba nethemba ngakumbi kuwe kwaye yonke into iya kuvela!