Kukho imfihlo, indlela yokwenza umfana acinge ngawe onke amaxesha. Kuyithakazelisa kuye, kuluhlobo olulula kangaka, kodwa njani lokuluphumeza?
Kule nto kufuneka ube nomdla kuwe. Fumana iiklasi ekuthandeni kwakho, udibana nabahlobo, ncokola, uye kwiivenkile zentlalo, ube ngumdlali weqonga kwisiganeko somdlalo okanye uhlele umboniso wezithombe zakho zokusebenza. Ndikholelwe, oku kusebenza ngakumbi kunokuba uhlale ekhaya kwaye ucinge, "indlela yokwenza umfana acinge ngam," kodwa ungenzi nto.
Kukho nawuphi na, ngoku uya kuba nethuba lokumhlangabeza kaninzi, ukuthetha. Yaye ukuba ngokukhawuleza uyabiza aze abuze: "Wenzani na?", Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana into yokuphendula, kwaye akayi kuthetha into engacacanga kwi-tube.
Ungasebenzisa i-charm charm. Ukuba ufunda ukuwusebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo, indoda encinane iya kuma phambi kwayo.
Indlela yokwenza umfana acinge ngawe?
- Udlala naye . Ngokuqinisekileyo, intonga ayifuni ukulungiswa, nangona kunjalo, ukucacisa ukuba uyamhle kuye, akuyi kuba yingozi. Ewe, mnandi ukumomotheka xa ebamba isohlwayo.
- Mnike iincoma . Mdumise ngento ethile, uthi "mbulela" ngqalelo yakho okanye uncedo. Musa nje ukudibanisa nokuthoba.
- Yenza ishishini naye . Enyanisweni, akunzima njengoko kubonakala. Umfana, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuba mnandi ukuhlela umboniso weefoto zakho okanye ukulungisa i- laptop ephukile, okanye enye into.
- Yiba yimfihlakalo . Musa ukukhawuleza ukuba wabelane naye ngombono wobubele kuye. Ukuba uyazi zonke izinto ngawe, unokukhathazeka. Ngokuchaseneyo, zama ukubuza imibuzo emalunga naye kwaye uphulaphule.
Indlela yokwenza umntu wangaphambili ucinga ntoni ngawe?
Kwaye kuthekani ukuba umntu owayesakuba ngumntu wokuqala, waqhekeka naye, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba uyancokola naye? Ungayilungisa njani ingcamango yakhe? Kwaye kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zendlela:
- uhlale ukhumbuza ngokwakho, njengokungathi ngengozi - itye lelitye libukhali;
- mnike enye ingubo yezinto zokuzicaka. Ukumjonga kuye, uya kukukhumbula, kwaye ngenxa yoko, zonke izinto ezilungileyo unayo;
- umenze abe nomona (nje ungayithandi, kungenjalo isiphumo singenakulinganiswa).
Indlela yokwenza umfana acinge ngawe ngomlingo?
Ukuba uzame zonke iindlela kwaye uquke yonke imobo yakho, kodwa ayizange incede, unokwenza uncedo kumlingo .
Ukwenza oku, udinga umfanekiso womntu kunye nentambo ebomvu enealiti. Bhala amagama akho kwisithombe, gcoba intliziyo yomfana ngomtya kwaye uthi: "Intliziyo yakho iboshwe ngentambo ebomvu. Ndithande (igama lomfana), cinga ngam . "
Ukuba oku akuncedi, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba. Ndikholelwe, kufuneka kubekho umntu ongayi kunomdla kuphela, kodwa nawe uya kuthi!