Intombazana enonwabileyo nothando ibonakala kude. Nangona ungayazi naziphi izibonakaliso ezithile zomzimba zokuwa ngothando, uya kumnceda: amehlo akhe ashushu, unegama elivuyayo ebusweni bakhe, ukumncoma ngomlomo wakhe. Kuye kunye nokutsala, kubonakala kukukhupha. Uthando lubangela, kwaye kunzima ukudibanisa nenye into.
Impawu zokuqala zothando kumantombazana
Intombazana iyaqonda njani ukuba iqala ukuwa ngothando? Kulula kakhulu. Uthando luvame ngokuqala ngovelwano olunzulu, olukhula ngokukhawuleza. Impawu zokuqala zokuthandana nentombazana zidla ngokuba:
- Uthanda kakhulu into ayithethayo kwaye akwenzayo, kunye nendlela akwenza ngayo, naye.
- Ngaloo nto, uqala ukukhathazeka, ulahleke, ahlekise.
- Uyabona ukuba uyatshintsha ishedyuli okanye indlela, ukuze aphinde ahlangane naye.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba azi ukuba uluvo lwakhe.
- Ufuna ukwazi okungakumbi ngeminqweno yakhe.
- Uqaphele ukuba umchazela phakathi kwabanye, nokuba akukho sikhokelo esikhethekileyo sale nto.
- Ufuna ukwenza into emnandi kuye.
- Uqala ukuba nomona xa omnye wesifazane ebonakala ecaleni kwakhe.
- Uqala ukuziva ukuba nguye owona mhle kakhulu owaziyo. Iyakuthinta yonke into, kwaneentsilelo.
- Unomnqweno wokufowunelwa rhoqo okanye ukubhala kumthandi wakhe.
Impawu ezinjalo zothando lwabesetyhini zibonakala zikhona kwinqanaba lokuqala, kwaye uqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba uvakalelwa ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo ezintsha neemvakalelo. Njengomthetho, eli xesha lidibene nomoya wolonwabo lwangaphakathi kunye nokuthuthumela, konke kubonakala kunomdla kwaye kungavamile.
I-Psychology: iimpawu zothando lomfazi
Nangona kunjalo, kungekhona nje intombazana enokufuna ukwazi into enentliziyo yakhe. Ukuba uzibuza ukuba intombazana ithandana okanye ayikho, yanele ukumjonga. Izibonakaliso ezahlukeneyo zothando aziyi kumnika. Ngokomzekelo, ezi zilandelayo:
- Unentloni xa ebona into yokuba uvelwano lwakhe, uqala ukugubha, ukudideka ngamazwi, ukuziphatha ngokukhawuleza, ukuziphatha ngokungaqhelekanga. Abanye abantu abanobucayi banokubethana nakubonwabo babo.
- Uyakhathalela ngokunyanisekileyo into enothando lwakhe kwaye angachaza ngokuchanekileyo yonke into ebhekiswe kuyo kwintetho. Ngelo xesha, akanakunamkela kuyo yonke into, makube isifundo, umsebenzi okanye nayiphi imicimbi yemihla ngemihla.
- Uba mhle kakhulu: ugqoke kakuhle, ulungele ukulandela umquba kunye nenwele. Ukuhlanganisana ngokukodwa kubakho ngaphambi kokuba kubekho intlanganiso kunye naye, kodwa uqondiswe kwaye nje, enokucinga ukuba unokuyiphambuka ngengozi.
- Uhlala ekhuthele, onke amaxesha apho kwenzeka khona, uxoxisana nomntu, uyahlala evuyiswa kukunceda ngeengcebiso, ujonge.
- Uba nomsindo kakhulu: ngenxa yeso nasiphi na isithandwa angakhanda okanye ahlekise.
- Uhlala ehlala entle, evuya, evuya
ukuphazamiseka, ngenxa yento ekhangelekileyo ephefumlelweyo. - Uhlala ethe tye kwizenzo ezingafaniyo, amazwi kunye nezenzo, kuba akanakho ixesha lokucinga ngazo.
- Uhlakazeka, akakwazi ukufundiswa.
- Uqala ukuba nomdla kuma-horoscopes, ukuxoxwa ngenhlanhla kunye namanye ama-esotericism.
- Xa ebeka ingqalelo kuyo, iqhuma kwaye ilahlekile.
Intombazana ethandwayo ngumntu ojonge kakhulu ebomini. Akubaluleke kakhulu kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke, kuba kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu, kwaye le yimvakalelo yakhe. Ukunyamekela intombazana enjalo, ngaphandle kokuba uyintando yothando lwakhe, ayiqondi.