Ngamnye wethu unengxaki yokwesaba . Enye yeempembelelo zokubonakala kwakhe inkoyiko. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokukodwa xa kwenzeka ebuntwaneni, ushiya umshicilelo onzima: ukugubha, ukwesaba kunantoni, ukubonakala kwe-phobia, ukuxhalaba nokungalingani kwemvakalelo. Konke oku kufuneka kukhutshwe, kwaye kwangaphambili, kungcono.
Oogogo kunye nogogo-bekazi bayazi indlela yokwenza oku ngaphandle kweyeza, ngaphandle kokuthatha imithi yengqondo, ukuzolisa kunye nokuxinzelela, okukuthi, ngendlela, ayinayo imiphumo embi emzimbeni wethu kunemiphumo yokwesaba. Iqhinga lokusongela ngenye yezindlela eziphambili zokususa naluphi uloyiko.
Iingxowa kunye nemithandazo yokwesaba kuyahluka kakhulu, zininzi zazo, kwaye xa zisetyenziswe ngokuchanekileyo, zonke ziyasebenza. Siza kukunika uninzi owaziwayo kwaye olula, oya kukuvumela ukuba kanye nokuphelisa uloyiko olufunyenwe kanye.
Iqhinga lokulwa noyiko
Ukuba ukhe ukwesaba into eninzi kangangokuthi uhlwayelwa yilo loyiko, sebenzisa icebo elilula kunye nelona lifanelekileyo. Umele uthethe ngaphambi kokuba ulale, okanye emva kokuvuka. Yithetha la magama alandelayo:
"Ndihlala kweli hlabathi kunye noThixo emphefumlweni wam, emzimbeni wam, entloko yam, undikhokela. Yaye ngubani ohamba noThixo, ukuba uloyiko alunamathelisi. Ndihamba kunye naye kuzo zonke iimeko. Amen. "
Ngokuphathelele abo bangakholelwa kuThixo, kungcono ukuba basebenzise into engaxhunyiwe naluphi na indlela kunye nokubandakanyeka kobuthixo bombutho, basebenzise inceba yokwenza amanzi. Thela kwisitya okanye indebe yamanzi kwaye, ngaphandle kokuthatha amanzi emehlweni, uthele emhlabathini, uthi:
"Njengoko amanzi ewela emhlabathini, njengoko ehla, amanzi aphantsi, ngoko ukuloyika kwam emhlabeni kuyachithwa."
Uqheliselo oluvela kwesoyiko lomntwana
Ukwesaba kwabantwana kubakho ngokukhawuleza, emva kokwesaba okukhulu, kwaye ukwesaba umntwana kunzima ukususa, kodwa usenako. Hlanganisa ikhandlela, ubukhulu bekhandlela buya kubaluleka. I-Wax kufuneka ifakwe kwisitya semanzi, ngaphambi kokuyifaka entloko yentsana. Yithi la mazwi:
"Poloni, Thixo, wam umntwana, ukwesaba ngombutho ongaziwa, vumela inkunzi engabonakaliyo iphume kwintlekele yakhe. Amen. "
Emva kokuba konke kwenziwe, gxotha amanzi nge-wax.