Ukufa komntu othandekayo ngumzuzwana onzima kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umntu. Ngexesha elinjalo thina ngokwethu sifuna uncedo kwaye siyathuthuzele, kwaye ngokwenene kufuneka sithathe ngesandla size sisize lowo izandla zakhe zingasayi kuxhomekeka kuye, oshonile. Ngethuba nje siphila, isithuba sethu esilandelayo sigqitywe ngezenzo ezilungileyo, iingcamango nemithandazo, xa sife, lonke ithemba lokusindiswa kwethu lihlala kumahlombe abo bathandekayo.
Xa siqaphela ukuba kufuneka simncede uhambe ukuze ahlawulele izono zakhe, silungiselela umngcwabo wamangcwaba, silungiselele ilitye lokungcwaba elibizayo, umthendeleko womngcwabo ococekileyo, ukulila nokulila - kodwa konke oku, siyenzela ukuthuthuzelwa kwethu. Ukuze asincede ngokwenene, sinokukhumbuza umthandazo, izipho kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezenzo ezilungileyo ezenzelwe egameni lomfi.
Umthandazo kwisidlo sesikhumbuzo
Iimpazamo zilungiswa ngamaKristu ukususela kwangaphambili, ukuhlonipha imemori yomfikazi nokucela iNkosi ukuxolelwa kwezono zakhe. Uvulo luhlelwe ngosuku lwesithathu emva kokufa (umngcwabo), umhla we-9 kunye nosuku lwama-40. Zibanjwe nakweminye, iintsuku ezikhunjulwayo zomntu oshonile-umhla wokuzalwa, usuku lwengelosi, ukukhumbula iminyaka yokufa. Ewe, into ebalulekileyo ekudleni okunjalo akufanele ibe yitheyibhile eluhlaza kunye nemifula yotywala, kodwa imithandazo yesikhumbuzo somntu oshonile.
Ekuvukeni wonke umntu onokuza owaziyo umfi. Kukho nesiko sasendulo sokumema nokuseta itafile kwintswelo yokuqala. Emva koko umthandazo wama-Orthodox kunye nomthandazo wesikhumbuzo waba ngumsondlo, kuba abantu abahluphekayo nabanqongophala banikezwa ukutya, izinto, konke abakunokufuna. Ngokuqinisekileyo, konke oku kufuneka kwenziwe egameni lomntu okhunjulwayo kunye naso sonke ixesha esinika izipho, esithi "Thatha le mivuzo evela eNkosini ...".
Ngaphambi kokuqala kwesidlo sifunda i-Kafism kwi-Psalter. Kufuneka kwenziwe ngumntu osondeleyo. Emva koko, ngaphambi kokuba sidle, "uBawo wethu" ufundwa, kwaye emva kokuphela kwesidlo, umthandazo wokubulela uthi "Siyabonga, uKristu wethu uThixo" kwaye "Ufanelwe ukutya."
Phakathi kwesidlo ngasinye, endaweni yokuthi "masibe phantsi komhlaba," kufuneka ufunde umthandazo omfutshane wesikhumbuzo, onokusetyenziswa kwisiganeko sokufa, kwaye nangaliphi na imini xa sifuna ukuthandazela umfi - "UThixo uphumle, Nkosi, umphefumlo wekhoboka lakho elitsha ( igama), kwaye umxolele zonke iziphambeko zokukhululeka kunye nokungafuni kwaye umnike uBukumkani bamaZulwini. "
Iintsuku ezingama-40 zokukhunjulwa
Inyondelelo kukuba ufunde imithandazo yesikhumbuzo iintsuku ezingama-40. INkosi inemfesane ngakumbi kuloo mi phefumlo, ngokuba kukho umntu onokuyithandazela, ithetha ukuba ubomi babo bungeyona ize, kwaye bakwazi ukuvusa nokushiya uthando entliziyweni yabo, ubuncinane ngentliziyo enye.
Ukuba sithandazela aboni, uThixo uya kubaxolela izono zabo aze abakhulule ekuhluphekeni. Ukuba sifunda imithandazo yesikhumbuzo sabalungisa, baya kubulela uThixo ngokucamagushela izono zethu ngokubulela.
Kwimithandazo yasekhaya, unokukhumbula abo ongazikwazi ukuthandaza kwicawa-ezi zizibulala kunye nabantu abangakholelwa ebomini kwaye abangabhaptizwanga. Umthandazo wekhaya ubizwa ngokuba yiseli (eyenziwa ngokwemigaqo), kwaye abadala ba-Optina bavumelekile ukuba bathandaze ngale ndlela ngenxa yokuzibulala nabangakholwayo.
Imithandazo yeSikhumbuzo emangcwabeni
Xa ufika emangcwabeni, kufuneka ufunde umthandazo wesikhumbuzo iintsuku ezili-9. Kubizwa ngokuba yi-lithium, ngokubhekiselele kwintsimi yeyona nto ithetha ukunyuka komthandazo. Kufuneka ukhanyise ikhandlela, thandaza, unokumema umbingeleli kwisikhundla somthandazo, kufuneka uhlambulule engcwabeni, vele uvale kwaye ukhumbule umfi.
I-Orthodoxy ayiwamukeli amasiko okutya, ukusela, ukushiya ingilazi ye-vodka kunye nesiqwenga sesonka engcwabeni. Zonke ezi zithethe zobuhedeni, akufanele zithathwe. Kwakhona, ungafaki idivaysi etafileni kumngcwaba, ungayidlili, nangona ngexesha lokuphila kwakhe wayenomdla wokusela utywala.
