Uthando aluhlali luhlala lunye, kwaye uthando olungathandabuzekiyo luhlala luvivinywa ngamandla othando lomntu ovakalelwa yimvakalelo yakhe. Ukuba uthando lwakho luyinyaniso, uya kuthanda ukususela kude kwaye ujabule ngenxa yolonwabo lwenu uthando lwakho, nokuba akukho ndlela edibene nawe. Uthando olungagqithwanga ngumnqamlezo owanikezelwa kuphela kwabo bangakwazi ukukuthwala.
Ukuba kunzima kuwe ukuba uphile ngeemvakalelo ezinzima kakhulu, funda amagama omthandazo ekuthandweni okungafunyanwa. Okokuqala, kufuneka uthandazele umntu omthandayo:
"Nkosi, ncedisa umkhonzi wakho (igama)"
"Nkosi, yomeleza kwaye uyithuthuzele umkhonzi wakho (igama)"
"Nkosi, gcina, ulondoloze kwaye unenceba kumkhonzi wakho (igama)."
Okanye kunjalo:
"Nkosi, ndiza kuwe kunye nesicelo somhlobo wam. Uyazi ukuba iingxaki zakhe ziphi, oko akufunayo (unokwazi ngokubanzi ukuba uyayazi ngokuyimfuneko imfuneko), ncedise kule meko, ndiyakholwa ukuba unokwenza konke, ngokuba akukho nto inokwenzeka, uncede, ndikucela, amen "
Umqondiso wokwenene uthando ngumnikelo wokuzidela. Ungamceli uThixo ukuba uyithandane, mcele ukuba unomdla kumntu oyintanda.
Ngokuthandana
Ngamazwi emithandazo yokuthandana, umntu akakwazi ukucela uthando lomntu oxakekileyo. Ukuba isifundo sakho
Imithandazo enceda kwiinkathazo zothando ifundwa phambi kwemifanekiso yeTrust, Hope and Love:
"Ngaphambi kwakho, uMama, onguMama kaThixo, ndiyamnqula, kwaye kuphela ngaphambi kokuba Ndivule intliziyo yam. Uyazi, Mama kaThixo, yonke into endiyifunayo, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), kuba intliziyo yam ikhululekile, ayinalutho, ayikwazi ukuba ngaphandle kwothando olushushu. Ndiyathandaza kwaye ndibuze, ndinike i-ambulensi kumntu oyedwa onokukukhanyisa ubomi bam bonke ngokukhanya kwaye uvule intliziyo yam ukuba ndidibane kunye nokudibanisa kwexesha elide kunye nokufumana umphefumlo omnye kubini. Amen. "