Oomama beenkwenkwezi ezili-10 abaguqula ubomi babantwana babo esihogweni esiphilayo

Kuyimpazamo ukucinga ukuba ubomi babantwana be-stellar luvuyo olupheleleyo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Bahlala behlushwa ngabadumi babo kubazali.

Abanye besetyhini baba ngumama onobuhle, kodwa ukuzalwa komntwana akubangazivelele iimvakalelo ezikhethekileyo. Phakathi kwabo kukho nabaninzi abaqeqeshiweyo, abafumana kunzima ukudibanisa umntwana kunye nokuphumelela ngempumelelo.

1. Nicole Kidman

Emtshatweni kunye noTom Cruise, uNicole wamkela ngokufanelekileyo ukuba abe ngumama wabantwana ababini - intombazana u-Isabel kunye nenkwenkwe uConor. Emva kokuqhawula umtshato wayenegalelo ekuthiwa bahlala kunye noyise. U-Kidman wayevuyiswa kakhulu malunga nokuphuhliswa kweziganeko kunye nodliwano-ndlebe udlalwa, ubiza umninawa wabo omdala. U-Isabelle uhlala nomnye umfazi owayengumfazi kaTro Cruise, uKati Holmes, kunye noConnor - bakhetha uqeqesho lwe-DJ yena kwaye baphumelela kuyo. UNicole wavuma:

"Azange ndibize umama"

2. ULududla Gurchenko

Ubudlelwane noGurchenko noBoris Andronikashvili bahlala iminyaka emibini kuphela, ngoko waqala ukutshintsha umfazi wakhe. Intombi ezelweyo yathunyelwa kwangoko ku-ugogo, eKharkov. Emva kwexesha elithile, unina kaLyudmila wazama ukumnika umntwana, kodwa uGurchenko ngokwakhe wavuma ukuba unina wayengekho: wayefuna ukuya kwiihotele kunye namaqela, kwaye ukuphakamisa intombi yakhe yayiza kubopha izandla kunye neenyawo. Unina onothando kaLily washintsha uMaria kunye nonina, ongakhange afumane amandla okuyeka amanani angenakubalwa ngentombazana yakhe.

3. UBrigitte Bardot

Abambalwa beentatheli kunye nabalandeli bayazi ukuba uBridget ngokuvamile unendodana. Ngomnyaka we-1958, wakhulelwa umlingisi uJacques Charya, kodwa wayengafuni ukuba ngumama. Ngelo xesha, ukukhipha isisu eFransi kwavalwa, kwaye akukho mntu wayefuna ukudibanisa umdlali odumile. Wazama ukulahla umntwana, ukugwinya iipilisi, kodwa ayizange incede. UBrigitte wabhala encwadini yakhe ethi:

"Wayengumkhuhlane owawudlile umzimba wam ngeenyanga ezithoba."

Wayemthiyile unyana wexesha elizayo ngenxa yokuba wayelula amanqaku kunye nobunzima obukhulu. Emva kokubeletha, uBardot wamyeka umntwana wakhe ngokuthanda uyise, owamkhupha.

4. UBarbara Streisand

UBarbara unabantwana ababini - owomthonyama kunye nomnye owamukelwayo, kodwa akukho namnye kubo owaye wenzelwe ukufumana uthando lomama. Ukuzalwa kwakhe uJason Goodl kwafakwa kwisikolo sokubhankanya, okwakunokuba uninzi lwayo. Unyana owamkelayo waseStreisand noJacob Brolin uye wahlala ezitratweni zaseLos Angeles iminyaka emininzi kwaye uyadla ukutya ekulahleni kwemfucuza. Kulowo nalowo uBarbara unesizathu esicacileyo: ukuba uJason wayengenako ukuvelisa ngenxa yomsebenzi, ke uJess Brolin wenqaba nje uncedo lwakhe, njengoko ekuthiwa.

5. Madonna

Umculi owaziwayo kwihlabathi uye wahlala eyaziwa ngento yakhe yokukhetha amadoda ayegubungela umona wakhe aze aphakamise isandla sakhe. Ephazamisekile ngobomi obunobundlobongela, akazange abone indlela abantwana bakhe bekhula ngayo. UNyana uRocco, waba ngumntu omdala, wabonisa ngokukhawuleza umnqweno wokuhlala noyise, ukuze angamlandeli unina kwindwendwe yamazwe ngamazwe. Indodakazi kaLourdes ayikwazi ukuhlukana noMadonna, kodwa ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi yi-psychically stability: itywala kakubi kunye neziyobisi kwaye izama ukukhangela njengothusayo kunokwenzeka. ULourdes uyavuma ukuba uyenzela ukufumana ingqalelo yomama.

6. U-Angelina Jolie

Ngexesha lokuqhawula umlingisi kunye noBrad Pitt, kwacaca ukuba isimo somama weenkwenkwezi kunye nabantwana abaninzi asiqinisekisi ukuba umntwana usemnandi. Ukuxabana kunye nomntu owayengumlingani wangaphambili uholele u-Angie ukuba avalwe kwigumbi lokulala ngeentsuku eziliqela kwaye akazange avume ukutya, kunye nokuthetha nabantwana ababekhala ngenxa yamahlazo omama. Enye yeentombi uJolie ufuna ukuthetha nomama we-biological, enye-ukutshintsha isondo. Kodwa i-actress ngokwakhe ayikhathalele ngokwenene le ngxaki.

7. Christina Aguilera

Umculi u-Christina Aguilera akanalo ixesha elide lokuthetha nabantwana: unyana kaMax kunye nentombi yasehlobo, ubona kuphela phakathi kweetyelelo kunye neiseshoni zokurekhoda ze-albhamu. Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, u-Christina wayephakathi kweso sikratshi: abezindaba bahlala kunye, bethetha ukuba uchitha ixesha lakhe elikhululekile kwimibutho, ngokulibala ngokukhatyelwa ukunyamekela abantwana abahlala be-nanny. Enganeliseki ngongqungquthela lwengqondo ka-paparazzi, uKhristina wabonakala esidlangalaleni noMax, owayenomngqumbo phantsi kweliso lakhe. Umphathi kunye nommeli u-Aguilera wachaza ixesha elide kunye nejaji, ezama ukubonisa ukuba umntwana wenzakele ngengozi, ewela epakini.

8. UJennifer Lopez

Amawele uMax no-Emma ebuntwaneni babizwa ngokuthi ngumama, kuba uJay Law, njengoKristuina, wayexakeke ukutyelela kunye neeseshoni zesithombe. Inkwenkwezi yavuma ukuba yaba ngumama, kuba wayesaba ukuba akaze akwazi ukuzala. Ukuqhawula umtshato kuMark Anthony kunye nomnqweno wokukrazula umfanekiso womfazi owawuphoqelelwa kuye kwakhupha uJennifer ukuba alahleke iintsuku kwiihotele kunye namagumbi okunyamekela, engabakhathaleli ngokwenene iimvakalelo zabantwana.

9. UBritney Spears

Umyeni owayekade engumculi, uKevin Federline, ngelo xesha wabambisana kunye nomlindi wakhe wokukhanyela udumo lwamalungelo omzali. Iinyaniso zobunkohlakalo baseBrithani kunye nabantwana babonakaliswa - umzekelo, wabondla ngezilwanyana zaselwandle, echukumisa i-allergies kwaye wahamba ehamba phambi kwabo. Intetho yayivunyelwe okwesikhashana ukusondela kubantwana bayo - kwaye emva kokuba isigqibo senkundla sithathe indlela yokulungiswa.

10. I-Courtney Love

Umhlolokazi waseKurt Cobain, ukuzalwa kwentombi kaFrances, wathintela kuphela indlela yokuphila engavumelekanga. Wathatha i-heroin ngexesha lokukhulelwa, emva koko wakhawuleza ukuba angene kwi-rehab, apho waphathwa khona ngokukhawuleza kwiinkalo ezininzi. Le ntombazana yayisoloko ilawulwa ngonina kunye nogogo, xa iCapeney yaphinde yafumana ingxaki ngomthetho. Ngo-2009, uFrancis wamangalela umama wakhe, echaza ukuba wayebetha. Xa le ntombazana yaqala ukubiza inxalenye yelifa lakhe, iNkantolo yothando yamshiya esidlangalaleni.

Funda kwakhona

Ubomi benkwenkwezi buphazamisa ukukhathazeka kweentsapho, kwaye ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ngokuphathelele ukufowunelwa akuvumeli abazali ukuba bafunde kwaye baqonde abantwana babo. Ezi zinto kunye nezinye izinto zithintela oomama odumileyo ukuba banike abantwana babo ubumnandi buntwaneni.