Kubonakala ngathi ukuba udade weenkwenkwezi kuhle. Isalamane esidumileyo siya kunika ubomi obukhululekile, siya kuthenga izindlu ezibiza kakhulu kwaye siza kuzisa ngeengubo zoboya kunye neadayimane. Kuhlala kuphela ukuhlala kwintlalo kwaye ujabulele izipho zexesha elizayo.
Kodwa enyanisweni, bonke ubomi basemthunzini womnye umntu kunokuba uvavanyo olunzima, njengoko kuboniswe yimpumelelo yama heroines ethu.
UJamie Lynn Spears - udadewabo kaBritney Spears
Ngesinye isikhathi, uBrithney Spears nodadewabo bahlazisa unina. ULynn Spears wabhala incwadi ngeengcebiso malunga nokukhulisa abantwana kwaye wayekulungele ukuphumla kwiindawo zakhe zokulahla. Sekunjalo, nabani na owaziyo ngemfundo yinto yonke: ULynn uye wakhulisa intombi enhle kangaka, umntwana wangempela!
Nangona kunjalo, izicwangciso zoomama onobugovu azizange zihlose ukuzenza izinto ezibonakalayo: le ncwadi yayiza kuphuma ukushicilelwa, ukuba iingxaki zaqala njani. Ekuqaleni, intombi endala, u-Britney, wayenqatshelwe ukugcinwa koonyana bakhe waza wafaka kwikliniki yezembali, kwaye umncinane, uJamie Lynn, owayeneminyaka eli-16 ubudala, wakhulelwa isoka lakhe. Xa yaziwa kuluntu, uLynn Spears wagxeka kakhulu ngokuvumela uJamie Lynn ukuba achithe ubusuku emakhaya abo kwaye akazange ahlawule ngokwaneleyo intombi yakhe endala. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iindlela zokukhuliswa kwakhe zibonakaliswe ukungaphumeleli, kwaye le ncwadi yayiza kuhlehliswa.
Okwangoku, umfana uJamie Lynn wanquma ukugcina umntwana, kwaye ngoJuni 19, 2008, wazala intombi kaMaddie. Ngoyise wentombazana leyo, umama omncinci waphula waza watshata no-Jamie Watson. Kubonakala ukuba, wayejamelana kakuhle nemisebenzi yakhe yomama, ebiza intombi yakhe ingumhlobo wakhe omhle.
Ngomhla kaFebruwari 5, 2017 kwakukho umonakalo. U-Maddie oneminyaka engu-8 ubudala wahamba noyise wakhe kwi-ATV xa ngokukhawuleza bawela echibini. Umntwana wachitha imizuzu embalwa phantsi kwamanzi. Ngoku unesimo esibalulekileyo esibhedlele. Iinkcukacha zentsapho azichazi, kodwa kwi-Instagram Britney Spears kwakukho irekhodi:
"Umsane wam ufuna yonke imithandazo yakho"
UAshley Kaufman - Udade uLindsay Lohan
Ngokuphathelele udade wakhe omncinci uLindsay Lohan wafunda sele ekhulile. Kucacile ukuba uyise wayenomngcingo ofihlakeleyo, apho intombazana okuthiwa ngu-Ashley yazalwa. Ukufunda malunga nesi sihlobo, uLindsay uthe akayi kugcina ubuhlobo naye.
Kodwa u-Ashley uhlambalaza ngokuphathelele udade wakhe odumile. Sele sele echithe amashumi amawaka eedola ukuba abe ngamaconsi amabini amanzi njengoLindsay. Intombazana eneminyaka engama-21 iyenze i-rhinoplasty, kunye namahlathi aseplastiki kunye ne-chin. Ngethamsanqa, ezama ukufana noLohan ngaphandle, akazange athathe imikhwa emibi: U-Ashley ugweba amaqela anomsindo, akayaphuzi kwaye akasebenzisi iziyobisi.
Solange Knowles - Udade uBeyonce
Udade omncinci kaBeyoncé unomona kakhulu ngempumelelo yakhe. USolange naye ungumculi, kodwa akakwazi ukufikelela kwinqanaba elifanayo kunye nomyeni wakhe. Intombazana ixhala kakhulu.
Ngokutsho kweendlebe, kwakuyikhwele lakhe udadewabo okwakungenye yezizathu zesilwa esidumileyo uSolange kunye nomyeni wakhe uBeyonce - Jay Z. Ngokuqinisekileyo, wathembisa intombazana ukuba yayiza kwenza inkwenkwezi kuye, kodwa ayikhohlwa ngesithembiso sayo. Ukungaxolisi kukaSolange kwajika kwaba yintlanzi, waza wamkhwela umkhwenyana wakhe ngamanqindi akhe.
U-Alison Carey - udadewabo kaMariah Carey
UMariah Carey akayathethi nodadewabo omdala uAlison iminyaka engaphezu kwe-20. I-Cary ephakamileyo sele iphila ngokuziphatha kakubi: isebenza njenge "intombazana yintombazana", ithabatha iziyobisi kwaye ibambezela nge-HIV. Xa ngo-2015, u-Alison wahlaselwa ngabaphangi kwaye, xa enzakele kanobom, yayibubanzi beebhokhwe ekufeni, udade odumileyo akazange amtyelele esibhedlele kwaye akazange asebenzise i penny ekwenzeni unyango lwakhe.
UMzalwan 'uMariah Carey noAlison babethukuthele, wathi udade omncinci ungumntu ongenamdla ochitha izigidi zeedola kwizinja zakhe, kodwa akafuni ukuphakamisa umunwe ukuze alondoloze izihlobo. Kwintliziyo yakhe wambiza uMariahua umlumbi. Ummeli womculi wakhawuleza ukukhawuleza ukuba uMariah wazama ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukunceda udadewabo alahlekise ukutshaya iziyobisi, ngaphezu koko, iminyaka emininzi wayenalo u-Alison kunye nabantwana bakhe.
Zonke ezi zintlupheko azizange zibe nempembelelo kuhambo luka-Alison. Ukushiya isibhedlele, wathatha umdala. Ngentwasahlobo ka-2016, udade oneminyaka engama-55 ubudala we-superstar wabanjwa ebomvu waza wabanjwa ngenxa yokuhenyuza ubuhenyu.
UNancy Mouts - udade kaJulia Roberts
Kuzo zonke ii-heroines zoluhlu lwethu, ingozi enkulu, mhlawumbi, nguNancy Moots - odade bakaJulia Roberts. Ubomi bakhe obuneminyaka engama-37 ubudala obuneminyaka engama-37 ubudala buphazamisekile ngomsindo odadewabo udade odumile. Ngokutsho kukaNancy, uJulia wayehlala emhlekisayo ngokukhawuleza, ecinga ukuba ityebile. Ngenxa yezi ngcikivo, ama-Moots angamahlwempu agqibe ukuba asebenze ukunciphisa isisu. Nangona kunjalo, ubudlelwane phakathi koodade abuzange buphucule: UNancy wammangalela uJulia kuzo zonke iingxaki zakhe, wambiza ukuba akanamdla kunye noxhaphaza, wabiza abalandeli benkwenkwezi ye-movie ukuba "bavule amehlo abo" kwaye baqinisekise ukuba uJulia ngumntu "onobukrakra".
NgoFebruwari 2014, uNancy ufunyanwe efile ebhanjini elizaliswe ngamanzi, kunye neepilisi kunye neempendulo zokuzibulala ezifunyenwe kufutshane apho umntu ozibulala wamtyhola udadewabo omdala wokufa. Abantu abajwayelene noNancy bathi ukufa kwakhe wayefuna ukuphazamisa udumo lukaJulia. Ngokuqinisekileyo iMouts akazange azibulale ngephutha ngoFebruwari, kwiiveki ezimbini ngaphambi kwee-Oscars, kwiluhlu lwabakhethiweyo ababeyi-Julia. Ngenxa yokufa koodadewabo, umdlali wecala uyanyanzelekile ukushiya esi siganeko.