Uthando lomama aluba nemida, ngoko xa umntwana egula, nawuphi na umama ulungele ukwenza nantoni na ukunciphisa ubunzima bakhe. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ibhinqa licela uncedo kwiiNkundla eziPhakamileyo. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokumemezela umthandazo ngempilo yengane ngumoya ococekileyo womama, okholelwa ngokupheleleyo kwizenzo zakhe. Ukuba unesono kuwe, kufuneka ucele. Ukuze wenze oku, kufuneka uhambe ecaweni, apho umbingeleli uya kunceda ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi impawu ofuna ukuyithandaza kule meko.
Unokunikela umthandazo kwi-Angel Angel, kuba wonke umntu unomkhuseli ekuzalweni kwakhe, ngubani oya kuhlala encedisa iwadi yakhe. Kule meko, umthandazo uzwakala ngathi:
"Ingelosi Engcwele kumgcini wabantwana bam (amagama), uwagubungele ngesigqubuthelo sakho kwiintolo zedemon, kwamehlo enkohliso, kwaye ugcine iintliziyo zabo ngobungcwele bengelosi. Amen. "
Yithetha la magama nsuku zonke. Enye yemithandazo eminingi eyaziwayo kumaKristu akholwayo. Musa ukulibala malunga neyeza, umthandazo unokunceda kuphela ukutsala ugqirha olungileyo kwisigulane kwaye unike amandla angaphakathi ukulwa.
Umthandazo uMatrona
Uncedo oluceliwe kubangcwele lufunekayo ukukhusela umphefumlo ongenatyala kwiingxaki, kunye nomzimba kwizifo. Ukuba ukukhanya komama, umthandazo ongathandekiyo ngempilo yomntwana uhamba kunye neinyembezi, uthi umphefumlo uvule ngokupheleleyo kuThixo.
Lo mthandazo uMatrona ufundwa rhoqo ekuseni. Kuya kunceda ukuphucula impilo yomntwana:
Kuyaziwa ukuba isifo sivivinyo sokholo, ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba sidlule kulo mvavanyo ngaphandle kokucima. Mngqonge umntwana wakho ngothando olungakumbi, kwaye bonke abangcwele baya kukuhlangula. Ukukhulisa umntwana wakho ngokuhlonela nokuthanda kakhulu, kwimeko enjalo, akukho zifo kunye neengxaki ezimoyikayo.
Umthandazo kwiNtombikazi kaMariya
Umthandazo kaMama ngenxa yempilo yomntwana ebhekiswe kwiNtombikazi kaMariya ngesicelo sokukhuselwa kunye nokuncedwa kuya kunceda ukukhusela umntwana wakho kuzo zonke iingxaki. Kuya kunika ithemba kunye namandla ukuze kubuye kuphinde kube nokholo nokuthula. Amandla aphakamileyo akayi kuvumela izifo ukuba zifike kumntu ongenacala, indalo kaThixo engenasono. Ngokuthandaza, ufumana ukholo ekuphulukisweni, ithemba kwixesha elizayo kwaye udlulisele isimo sakho sengqondo kumntwana ogulayo. Umthandazo kwiNtombikazi uMariya uzwakala ngathi:
Umthandazo wezempilo yomntwana ogulayo
Kubazali, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana wabo uyavuya, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo. Ukukhusela umntwana ngexesha lokugula, abazali bazimisele kakhulu. Ukunika amandla umntwana ukulwa nesifo, unokufunda lo mthandazo:
Amandla omthandazo mkhulu kakhulu, ngoko unokuwufunda naphi na, umzekelo, ngqo kwicawa, ekhaya okanye kufuphi nomntwana. Abaninzi bathi ukuba ngaba kukho amawaka eekhilomitha phakathi kwakho, cela kwaye uya kuviwa. Ukukunceda uthandaze, inkonzo yesonto yempilo yakho ingongezwa.
Umthandazo wePelimimon
Kwi-Orthodoxy, kukho imithandazo eyahlukileyo kwimpilo. I-St Panteleimon ithathwa ngokuba ngumpilisi oyintloko kwizifo. Xa ehamba esitratweni, wabona umntwana ofile, waqala ukuthandaza kuKrestu aze acele ukuvusa umntwana. Wathi xa umntwana efika ebomini, uya kuba ngumlandeli kaKristu. Amazwi akhe avakala kwaye umntwana wavuselelwa. Ukususela ngeli xesha, amakholwa afake isicelo kwiPelemimon ukuze abuyele.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, funda umthandazo uze umntwana abuye aphinde abuye. Emva koko, qiniseka ukubulela oyiNgcwele ukuze uncede kwaye uthandaze kwakhona.
Umthandazo wabazali kuba impilo yabantwana inamandla amakhulu, njengoko bebeka ngamazwi abo bonke uthando lwabo, ukholo kunye nokunyamekela. Ngoko ukuba iingxaki kunye nezifo ziya kuguqula wena nomntwana, gcina umphefumlo ucocekile. Fundisa umntwana ngokuhlonela uThixo nokuthanda abanye, kwaye impilo yakhe iya kuba namandla kwaye inganakunqandwa. Thandazela umntwana wakho ekuzalweni, kodwa ungaceli impilo nempilo. Okokuqala, thandazela ulondolozo lomphefumlo, kuba nguThixo kuphela owaziyo umendo oyalelwe ekuzalweni.