Amakholwa amaninzi afuna ulwazi malunga nendlela yokufumanisa ukuba ngubani oyingcwele yintando yam, ukuze ukwazi ukubuyela kuye uncedo kunye nokubonga kwimithandazo. Abancedisi abakhulu ukuba wonke umntu unabalondolozi belosi ezihamba nabantu ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya ekufeni. Ukuze uthole inkxaso evela kummeli, kufuneka udibanise naye. Unokwenza oku ngamagama alula okanye ufunde umthandazo obhekiswe kwingelosi.
Uyazi njani umncedisi wakho?
Umntu unokufumana abancedisi abaninzi kuye abanokucela uncedo. Indlela elula yokufumana ukuba ngubani ongcwele wakho ongcolisayo kukumfumanisa ngegama elibhaptizwa ngalo. Ngokomzekelo, uCatherine uya kuncedwa nguCatherine waseAlexandriya. Ngomhla wongcwele wakhe, kuyisiko lokubhiyozela imini yengelosi. Ukuba umntu unegama elingahambelani neengcwele zeOthodox, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukhethe amagama angama-consonant, umzekelo, u-Olesya unokucinga ngo-Alexandre wakhe, njl.
Ukuthetha ngendlela yokufumanisa ukuba ngubani ongu-ntanethi oyi-patron, kubalulekile ukuxelela ngenye indlela inye iyakwamukela icawa. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde amabali ebomi bentliziyo abanokubhiyozelwa imemori kufuphi nosuku lwakho lokuzalwa. Umphathiswa wakhe ukukhetha ongcwele onobubele bakhe obunomdla kakhulu.
Enye inketho kukuba ukhethe ungcolisi ongcolisayo onceda kwimicimbi eyahlukileyo. Kwicawa nganye, unokufumana uluhlu lwabangcwele abancedayo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, amantombazana afuna ukuba nomntwana kufuneka afune uncedo ku- Xenia wasePetersburg okanye uMatonaona Moskovskaya. Ukuba kukho injongo - ukuqhubela phambili kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kufuneka ukwazi umphathi wendawo ethile. Ngokomzekelo, abantu abanomsebenzi onxulumene nokubhala kufuneka babhekisele kuJohn Chrysostom.