Ngelishwa, akukho mntu ukhuselwe ekuhlanganisaneni nabantu ababi abangakwazi ukulimaza nje kuphela amagama, kodwa kunye nezenzo. Umthandazo weK Kiprianu uya kunceda ukukhusela kwimimandla eyahlukileyo. Kukho izibhalo ezininzi ezingcwele ezijoliswe kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
Ngendlela efanelekileyo ukufunda umthandazo kwiSaint Cyprian?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umthandazo uyisibheno kuThixo kunye nabangcwele, okumele kuvela entliziyweni ecocekileyo. I-Kiprian inganyangwa ukuba iphilise kwaye ikhusele ekukhuselweni kunye neliso elibi, ukuzikhusela yena kunye nentsapho yakhe kumandla amnyama kunye nezenzo zeentshaba. Ababingeleli baqinisekisa ukuba akukho masiko kunye nomlingo kuya kulingana namandla omthandazo kunye nokholo eNkosini. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthandaza, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uye ecaweni uze ufake ikhandlela kufuphi nomfanekiso weNtombikazi, uYesu Kristu kunye noCyprian. Kwiintsuku ezintathu kufuneka ulahle ukutshaya nokupheka, kwaye uzimisele ukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza.
Ukusebenzisa uncedo lomoya ongcwele kuyimfuneko xa umntu efuna ukulimaza okanye ukuthanda zonke iintlobo ezimbi. Ukuthandaza ngokufanelekileyo kwiCyprian kunokufunda nanini na nanini na ixesha. Inani lokuphindaphinda alikhawulelwanga, into ephambili kukuba ikholwa liziva likhululekile. Umbhalo oyingcwele unokuthiwa ngamanzi, ohlawulwa ngamandla amnandi, kwaye unokunxila njengeyeza. Umthandazo onamandla kunabantwana baseCyprian kufuneka ufundwe ngabazali abafanele bajonge entloko yomntwana.
Umthandazo kuCyprian ukugqwetha nobuthakathi
Ngoku kutshanje, kuye kwafashisa ukusebenzisa imilingo yamasiko eyahlukeneyo ukuphucula ubomi bakho kwaye ulimaze iintshaba zakho. Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo, ukuhlaselwa kunye nezinye iindlela ezifanayo zinokudambisa ngakumbi ubomi bomntu. Kuya kunceda ukujamelana neengxaki ezingenakwenzeka kwaye ukhusele kumlingo umthandazo waseCyprian ukususela ekuhlaselweni kunye neliso elibi. Kukho imigaqo embalwa ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqwalasele:
- Akuyimfuneko ukunqwenela ububi ngokuphendula umntu, kuba imilayezo yokuthandaza ingabandakanyi inzondo neengcinga ezimbi. Kubalulekile ukuxolela iintshaba ngenhliziyo ecocekileyo kwaye unqwenela ukuba uvuyo.
- Umthandazo kaCyprian wokutshatyalaliswa kufuneka uthethwe ngokuzeleyo, ukwenzela ukuba izinto ezimbi zikhoyo zingapheleli kwabanye abantu.
- Ukudibana nomthandazo, kucetyiswa ukuba usebenzise amakhandlela, amalamlilo anceda ukufezekisa isimo esifanelekileyo sengqondo noxolo. Khanyisa ikhandlela kwaye ukhangela ilangatye ixesha elithile ukuze udibanise kumgca ongezantsi.
- Unokubeka isitya kunye namanzi angcwele kufuphi nawe kwaye emva kokuyiphuza kwaye uyinike amanye amalungu omndeni.
- Umthandazo kuCyprian kufuneka uphindwe kaninzi, kungenjalo akunakukunceda.
Umthandazo waseKikrian ngomona
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, umona uyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanomsindo banqwenela into engalunganga baze bavelise umonakalo. Ukuba yonke into ayisebenzanga ebomini, iziganeko zentsapho zivela kumanqanaba alinganayo kwaye akukho nto eyenzekayo, ngoko ke kufuneka uqikelele ukuba iintshaba ziye zenza isenzo esisebenzayo. Umthandazo onamandla kunazo zonke waseCyprian uya kunceda ukuhlambulula kwizinto ezimbi kwaye uphucule ubomi bakho. Emva kokuba isicatshulwa sifundekile, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uxolele iinjongo zakho ngengqondo kwaye uvumeleke ukuba uhambe kuloo meko.
Umthandazo kuCyprian kwiintshaba
Ukuzikhusela kwimibonakalo eyahlukeneyo yokungabi nantoni kwiintshaba, unokusebenzisa umthandazo ongekho kuphela kuCyprian, kodwa noJustine. Inceda ukulwa nemiphumo yemilingo kwaye idale inkqubela engabonakaliyo eya kuyenza yonke imihla. Umthandazo kuSt. Cyprian noJineine kufuneka uphindwe ngokuphindwe kasikhombisa ngosuku ngalunye. Ukuba ngemini kwakukho intlanganiso nabantu abangathandekiyo okanye umntu ekhangele ngomsindo, ngoko unokuphinda uphinde uphinde ubhale umbhalo oyingcwele.
Imithandazo kubaThofeti uTfonf neCyprian
Ukwandisa impembelelo yemithandazo echazwe ngasentla kwaye ibhekiswe kuSt. Cyprian, kucetyiswa ukuba ufunde ngokuthethelelwa kwimixholo yomthandazo eyalelwe kuMartyr Trifon. Wayekhusela abantu ngethuba lobomi bakhe, kwaye emva kokufa, uyaqhubeka ephendula kwimithandazo yabantu. Ukuze ukwazi ukujamelana nomonakalo, omnye umonakalo, umthandazo kufuneka uqale ufundwe kuMartyr Great Great Cyprian, kwaye ke, umbhalo owenziwe.