Ukhohlakele aluyi kusombulula iingxaki ezikhoyo kulwalamano. Ivakalelo elibuhlungu lomsulwa emva koko luyandisa imeko. Ivakalelo lecala, ngendlela, liqhelekileyo kubasetyhini kwiimeko ezininzi. Umbuzo kukuba, kutheni le nto yenze?
Amagama ambalwa malunga nezizathu
Ukuthobela umfazi kulawulwa yimithetho ethile. I-sexologists ithi umfazi akaze ashintshe ngaphandle kwesizathu, ngokungafani nendoda. Ekungcatshweni kwebhinqa efuna into ethile, ukungabikho kwintsebenziswano kunye neqabane lomthetho. Amadoda ngokuyinhloko agxile kwizesondo, ngelixa umfazi efuna ukuthanda, intlonipho. Ufuna ukuthandwa.
Umfazi oqhekeza ukukrexeza, njengomthetho, uzama ukubuyisela kwakhona amandla okuthanda indoda, ukuziva umnqweno kunye nokukhanga. Ukuba ibhinqa liphela liyaneliswa ngumtshato, naye unelisekile ngocansi. Emva koko, makhe sithethe ngeempawu zokukrexeza.
Ukushiya imizila
Amadoda nangona ayinayo intuition, kodwa ke bayakwazi ukuqonda. Iqabane liza kuzikhupha. Impawu zokuqala zokungcatsha umfazi zingabonakala lula:
- ngokukhawuleza uqala ukuvelela ukubonakala kwakho. Qaphela, umyeni wakho akanakukubona ngokukhawuleza;
- ukubuyela ekhaya kunye ne-bouquet elandelayo, cinga into ethile yangaphambili kusesikweni, okanye uyishiye emnyango. Musa ukucima iintyatyambo, abayi kunceda, kodwa uya kuphelisa uphando;
- Musa ukunyuswa ebusuku ubiza umnxeba kwindawo yokuhlambela okanye ekhitshini, ungalibali ukususa ii-call kunye ne-sms;
- Ukungafuni kwakho ukwenza umsebenzi we-conjugal ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuphakamisa izikhalazo;
- ukutyelela rhoqo kubahlobo, amaqela, apho "amantombazana kuphela", asebenze ngokukhawuleza - yonke le nto umyeni wakho angakujonga lula, khumbula oku.
Imiqondiso enjalo yobhinqileyo njengempahla emitsha kunye neendyebhile ezixabisekileyo, iphunga le-cologne yamadoda, ububele obugqithiseleyo, ukufihlakele, ukungabikho kwamagama omthandayo kumlingane kuya kuphawuleka.
Ukuba umfazi unomthandi unomphela, uba ngumyeni wakhe kunye nabantwana. Ulungele ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe ejikeleze indlu, ukuba lube luhlelekile kumsebenzi wakhe. Olu tshintsho luvela phantsi kwefuthe lento aziva ngayo. Umlingane uzama ngale ndlela ukuhlawula okanye ukulungisa iphutha lakhe. Indoda inokuvakalelwa kukuba "uhlukile", kodwa akayiqondi isizathu esiyinyaniso.
Iimpawu zokungcatsha kwentombazana, nabasetyhini bahlala bekhankanywe rhoqo kunye nomhlobo, umhlobo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uhlala ucinga ngomthandi wakho ukuba awunakuqaphela ingxoxo rhoqo ngaye. Qaphela, ngokuba iqabane lakho liya kuqaphela oku. Amadoda asabela ngokukhawuleza ukuba athengwe, kunabesifazane, nangona bobabini banzima. Abafazi banokwakheka ngokwengqondo ukuba banokungcatshiswa ngumlingane. Ngombono woluntu, ukungathembeki kubonakala kunokuba i-prank yindoda. Abasetyhini baphathwa ngokuzimisela ukuxolela ukutshutshiswa. Uxolelo lunikezelwa kowesifazane ngokulula xa engazange abe nemvakalelo yokukhohlisa.
Kwinqanaba elincinane, amadoda aphatha abafazi njengepropati, ngoko kuba buhlungu gqitha ukuba bazive ukuba umntu "uphethe" kwizinto zakhe. Amadoda athambekele ekubeni ngowokuqala ebudlelwaneni nomfazi. Uloyiko oluqinileyo kukuba i-rival ingaba nekhono lokulala.
Iingcali zengqondo zinika iingcebiso ezisebenzayo: ukuba akukho bungqina bobugwenxa, ke "umguquli" akakho na ukuvuma isono sakhe. Abanye bayayivuma ngexesha lokuzisola okanye phantsi kwengcinezelo. Kuphela akuyiyo nto kodwa intlungu eyongezelelweyo, icala elikhohlisiweyo aliyi kuzisa.