Emva kokuba bethu basekhaya bafumana ithuba lokuhamba malunga nehlabathi, kwaye imida ivulekele iindwendwe zangaphandle, imitshato phakathi kwabameli belizwe ezahlukeneyo iyaba yinto eyaziwayo.
Izibalo zemitshato ye-interethnic ibonisa ukuba abafazi bangena kubo ubuncinane kabini ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengamadoda, kwaye ukuba inani labo likhula ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, isimo sengqondo kwimitshato ye-interethnic isilumkiso, ibangela ukwesaba okukhulu kunye nokugwetywa kwabanye. Masizame ukubona ukuba imitshato evuyayo kunye nabantu basemzini ingenzeka, kwaye baqhelane nezinto eziphambili zobhaliso lwabo.
Izinto zokutshata
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umtshato weentlanga ezahlukeneyo ngowokuqala, umanyano weenkcubeko ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Aba bantu bakhuliswa kwiimeko ezahlukileyo, banemikhwa eyahlukileyo, imbono ngobomi kunye nesimo sengqondo kwimibandela ebalulekileyo yobomi. Ngokomzekelo, kunye nabameli beenkcubeko zaseYurophu ulwimi oluqhelekileyo alunzima ukulufumana, kodwa abameleli bezizwe zasempumalanga, abaseningizimu nabantlabathi bahluke kakhulu. Kwaye ezinye iintlanga zasendulo zivelisa abantwana ngokuhlonela ngokwabo.
Ukungena kumtshato wamazwe ngamazwe, khumbula ukuba kuya kufuneka ujongane nehlabathi elihluke ngokupheleleyo, kungekhona ukuhlala uvakalisi. Kwintsapho yakho inokungahambisani nembono yokulima, ukukhulisa abantwana, izimo zengqondo ngezihlobo, iiholide, njl. Ngoko ulungele izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye nokunyaniseka okuqhubekayo: umonde, ukuqonda kunye nothando kuya kunceda ukukhawuleza nayiphi na ingxabano. Ukuba abafazi bahlala kumazwe ahlukeneyo, ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukubhaliswa komtshato kunye nomfokazi kungaqinisekanga ukuba kufakwe omnye wabo. Emva koko uza kufuneka abhekane nobunzima bokuhlala ubemi, izimo zokuphila ezahlukileyo, iingqondo ezahlukeneyo kunye, mhlawumbi, ukunqoba umqobo weelwimi.
Indlela yokulungisa umtshato nomfokazi?
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukubhalisa umtshato kunye nomfokazi ezweni oza kuphila emva koko, kuba umtshato owenziwe ngokwemiqathango yombuso omnye awunakuthi uhlonze kwenye.
Ukuze uqonde indlela yokwenza umtshato kunye nomfokazi ukuze kungabangeli ukungaqiniseki nakweliphi na ilizwe ehlabathini, ufunde ngokucophelela umthetho kwaye uqokelele onke amaxwebhu afanelekileyo. Nceda uqaphele ukuba kufuneka ziguqulelwe ngolwimi lwelizwe apho uya kubhalisa umtshato kwaye usemthethweni. Uludwe lweemviwo eziyimfuneko luhluke kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuneka ipasipoti, isatifikethi sokuzalwa, isatifikethi sokubhalisa indawo yokuhlala kunye nesatifiketi sokuqhawula umtshato ukuba ube yilungu layo ngaphambili.
Qaphela kakhulu ukuba uya kubhalisa umtshato phesheya, ngakumbi kumazwe anzima
Ngaloo ndlela, imitshato yenzalo, le nto ibonakalisa. Kodwa akungabazeki ukuba ukuvisisana kwintsapho akuxhomekeke kubuzwe bomtshato, kodwa ngokunyaniseka nokufudumala ubudlelwane, ukuhlonipha, ukuzithemba kunye nezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo zobudlelwane obuvuthiweyo.