Ukwahlula, ukuqhinga, ukuchazwa kwamaphupha - oku kuyindawo ebangalisa abantu abaninzi abafuna ukwazi iinjongo zabo, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo banamantombazana. Emva koko baqala ukukhangela iimpendulo zemibuzo - ngaba unokufumana ikusasa kunye nendlela yokubona indoda ezayo ephupheni.
Iqhinga lokulala ukuze libone ikusasa kunye neqabane
Uqhelwano - lo luhlobo olukhethekileyo, olwenzelwe ukuvusa amandla okugungqiswa kwe-subconscious kwaye ibonise okufihliweyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulandela ngokuthe ngqo imimiselo enqunywe yimizi-yamandla angaphezulu ayikwazi ukuxolela ukunganakwa nokunyaniseka.
Eyona nto ifanelekileyo yokubhula ingumhla ngaphambi kweKrisimesi, ubusuku ukususela ngoLwesine kuya kuLwesihlanu kunye nexesha lokuphela kwenyanga. Ngeli xesha, amandla angamazwe aphakanyayo, kwaye impendulo yombuzo iya kuba yinto echanekileyo. Enye imeko efunekayo - emva komkhosi ongenakukudla, ukusela nokuthetha.
Ukubona iphupha lomyeni wesikhathi esizayo kukunceda udibaniso kunye nekhefu. Lo luhlobo oluqinileyo, oluthi, kodwa, lufanelekile kuphela ubuhle obude obude. Ngokuhlwa, ngaphambi kokuqala komcimbi, kufuneka ugube i-nightgown ende kwaye uhlale ebhedini. Emva koko, ukhangela ngaphandle kwefestile kwenyanga, qalisa ukudibanisa iinwele zakho ngekhefu lomthi uze uziphindaphindile: "Unomxholo obunzima, uze kum umzila wenyanga, udibanise i-braids kwaye ubonise ubuso bam . " Emva koko, ufanele ulale ngokulala kunye neenwele zakho, ufake uboya bentloko entloko okanye phantsi komlotha.
Izindlela ezilula zokubona indoda ezayo ephupheni
NgoLwesine ngaphambi kokulala, kufuneka uthabathe umshanelo, uphume amahlumela ambalwa, uvale ibhuloho ngaphandle kwabo uze uyibeke etafileni entloko yombhede. Ngaphantsi kwebhulophu kufuneka ubeke iplate yamanzi. Emva koko kuyimfuneko ukulala, ukuhlekisana ngaphambi kokuba ulale: "Umngqingili-mummer, woza, ungithumelele kwibhuloho".
Ukuba intombazana ifuna ukufunda indlela yokubona umyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo ephupheni, kodwa engafuni ukugcina imimiselo eyinkimbinkimbi, kufuneka athenge ipakethi yamakhadi, akhethe ookumkani abine kuye kwaye uwabeke phantsi komqulo ngaphambi kokulala. Kwaye nangona umfanekiso ophuphayo ungacacile, intombazana iya kukwazi ukubona umbala weenwele zomyeni, ngenxa yokuba Uya kubonakala ngendlela yookumkani.