Umzali ngamnye uzama ukudlulisela abantwana bakhe inyaniso elula - umntwana kufuneka abe noxanduva lwamagama kunye nezenzo zakhe. Nangona kunjalo, abavame abazali bawuthatha uxanduva lwabo kubantwana kubafundisi okanye kubantwana ngokwabo. Baphikisana nale meko ngomsebenzi emsebenzini okanye ukungabikho kwexesha. Akunjalo wonke umntu uyaqonda ukuba uxanduva lwabazali luyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yentsapho ebonisa ukuba umntwana akayi kuba ngumlutha weziyobisi okanye utywala.
Yintoni inqaku elithi "Uxanduva lomzali kwimfundo" luquka:
- Imfundo yabantwana . Nanku kufuneka ukuba kuqaphele ngokukhethekileyo uxanduva lwabazali ngokuziphatha kwabantwana, kuba indlela abaphakamisa ngayo abantwana babo kwikamva iza kubonakalisa indlela abaziphatha ngayo.
- Ukunyamekela ukukhula kwengqondo, kwengqondo, yokuziphatha kunye nokomoya kwabantwana. Abazali banembopheleleko kubantwana, kwaye banyanzelekile ukuba banikele umntwana ngemfundo jikelele. Wonke umntwana makaye kwiziko lemfundo.
- Ukukhusela iimfuno zabantwana. Ekubeni abazali bebameli bezomthetho zabantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka, banelungelo lokuqinisekisa amalungelo abo kunye neminqweno malunga nabo bobabini bomthetho nabendalo.
- Ukubonelela ukhuseleko. Uxanduva lwabazali ngenxa yokhuseleko lwabantwana alukhutshwanga, oku kuthetha ukuba abazali abanalo ilungelo lokulimaza impilo yengqondo, yomzimba nokuziphatha kwabo.
- Ukugcinwa kwabantwana ngaphambi kokuba badala. Abazali abanelungelo lokutyhila umntwana emnyango ngaphambi kokuba bafikelele kwixesha elininzi.
Umthetho woxanduva lomzali
INgqungquthela yamaLungelo omntwana ayamemezela ukuba abazali banembopheleleko eyintloko ekukhulisweni nasekuphuculweni komntwana onomdla onomdla wokuba ngumxhalabalulekileyo ngabazali.
Ukungaphumeleli ukwenza okanye ukungafanelekanga ukusebenza kwemisebenzi yokukhuliswa kwabantwana, abazali bangafakwa kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zomthetho:
- Ulawulo (Isiqendu 5.35 seKhowudi yezoTyala zoLawulo lweRussia Federation "Ukungaphumeleli ngabazali okanye abanye abameli bezomthetho abancinci ukugcinwa kunye nokukhuliswa kwabantwana");
- Umthetho-wabantu (Amanqaku ayi-1073 - 1075 weNkcukacha zoLuntu)
ikhowudi ye-Russian Federation); - intsapho-yomthetho (Isiqendu 69 ("Ukunyuswa kwamaLungelo omzali"), 73 ("Ukunciphisa amaLungelo omzali") yeNkcazo yoLuntu yaseRussia Federation);
- Ulwaphulo-mthetho (Isiqendu 156 seKhowudi yoLwaphulo-mthetho yaseRussia Federation ("Ukungaphumeleli ukufezekisa imisebenzi yokukhuliswa kwengane")).
Uxanduva lwabazali kubantwana lugqitywe ngumsebenzi wokufundisa abantwana babo, ukunyamekela impilo yabo yengqondo nangokwengqondo , kwakunye nokuphuhliswa kokuziphatha.