Ngamaphupha, umntu unokubona izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye enze izenzo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nganye yeempawu ezibonwayo zinenani elithile, unike ithuba lokufunda ngekamva. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba iincwadi ezahlukeneyo zephupha zihlala zinikeza ukutolika okuhlukeneyo, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuthelekisa le mibhalo kunye neemeko zangempela.
Kutheni ufuna ukuphupha ibhasi?
Ukuhamba ngebhasi nabanye abantu, kuthetha, kubalulekile ukuba ulindele ukufika kweendwendwe. Sekunjalo kunokuthi ukuvela kwemizamo emininzi. Iphupha, apho kwakufuneka ukuba lihambe kunye nabanye abantu, lubonisa ukuba kukho ukungahambi kakuhle kwemfihlo phakathi kwabahlobo abakhulu. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha, apho ndakufuneka ndihambe khona ngebhasi, kuxhomekeke ekubeni ngubani owabonileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba icebo elinjalo liphupha intombazana encinci, ngoko kufuneka ilindele ukuthetha nabantu abangathandekiyo. Unokulindela iingxaki emsebenzini okanye kwishishini. Kuba umfazi otshatileyo uphupha, apho ndafuneka ndihambe ngebhasi, ndithembisa iingxaki zempilo. Ukuba liphupha, ukuhamba ngebhasi kumntu, ngoko unokuthembela kwenkxaso yabalingane kwishishini kunye nomsebenzi.
Kweminye yeencwadi zokuphupha, umbono wobusuku, apho umphuphi wayekhwele ibhasi, uthembisa impumelelo kwishishini elingabikho mntu ubala ngalo mzuzu. Ukuba ubungenayo indlela efanelekileyo, ke kukho umngcipheko wokuthatha isigqibo esingenakuthathazeka. Ingcaciso yephupha icebisa kwikamva elikufutshane ukuqwalasela isinyathelo ngasinye. Enye iphupha lingabonisa ukhetho olubi ebomini. Ukulala, apho ndifanele ndihambe ngebhasi epheleleyo, ndixwayiswe ngomsebenzi ovela kumncintiswano oya kwenza imizamo eyahlukileyo yokuvimba umendo. Kanti oko kuthetha ukuba abantu abangasemzini abasandul 'ukungahambi bangabangela ingxaki enkulu. Kukho ulwazi lokuba iphupha, apho ufanele uhambe khona ngebhasi, lisebenza njengesalathiso sokuthi uhlala kwindawo ethile kwaye uloyiko lokwenza iphutha.