Iphupha ngenye yezinto ezikhoyo ukujonga kwikamva. Ngoncedo lokutolika, umntu unethuba lokufunda ngeziganeko zexesha elizayo, okuya kwenza ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukulungiselela iingxaki kunye neemvavanyo.
Yintoni itanki iphupha ngayo?
Kukho ulwazi lokuba olo phupha libikezela uhambo olude, oluya kunzima. Ukuba ephupheni ulandelwa itanki - lo ngumqondiso ongathandekiyo othembisa ukuvela kweengxaki ezahlukeneyo kwishishini. Umbono ebusuku, apho usebenza khona itanki, ibonisa ukuba uza kwenza impazamo eya kuba nemiphumo emibi. Ingcaciso yephupha ikhuthaza ukuba uqaphele kwaye uqaphele ngokunokwenzeka. Kwakhona, loo mbono ebusuku ubonisa ukuba unokukwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo. Kukho nolwazi lokuba iphupha, apho itanki libonakala khona, lifuzisela ukuvela kobunkokheli obutsha ngesimo esibukhali.
Enye yeencwadi zephupha inikeza ngolunye ulwazi, ngenxa yoko, itanki isimboli sokufuna ngokweqile kubantu abakujikelezile. Ukubona ikholomu yamathangi kuthetha ukuba unengxaki kunye nabalingane bakho okanye amaqabane oshishino phambi kwakho. Iphupha apho itanki likhupha libonisa ukuba ngokukhawuleza ube ngumbonisi ongabandakanyekanga wokulwa phakathi kwabahlobo. Ukuphupha kwetanki ehamba phambili kuwe, kuthetha ukuba uya kukwazi ukuza kudibanisa neentshaba. Ukuba unesitenki - esi sisilumkiso sokuba ubhekene neengxabano ezinkulu kwiintsapho.
Iphupha enidla kuyo itanki libonakalisa ukuba ekuxazululeni iingxaki odla ngokusebenzisa amandla, ingakhathazeki. Kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba, ngenxa yokuthanda kwakho, uya kukwazi ukujamelana nayo yonke imiqobo. Ukuphupha itanki elisondela kuwe kwaye ngokoyika, ngoko kuya kuba neengxaki ebomini bakho.