Amandla amaninzi angaphakathi asetyenziswa kwizinto ezininzi zemihla ngemihla kunye namava ahlukahlukeneyo. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, kunye nokubhubhisa kwamandla okugcina amandla, ukuqala ukungenakunceda kuqala, kwaye umntu akanakuqonda ukuba kutheni umbi kakhulu emphefumlweni wakhe. Kwiimpawu zokuqala zeso simo kufuneka uzame ukuzinceda, ngaphandle koko kunokudakumba okude kunokukhubaza ixesha elide.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa umphefumlo unzima kakhulu?
Xa kunzima emphefumlweni, umntu uziva ecinezelekile, engonwabile, ebuthathaka, engenamsebenzi. Ukuze ufumane amandla okukrazula le meko, kufuneka uzingcungcuthele, umsindo uya kushukumisela kwisenzo ngokubuthathaka kunye nokungazi kakuhle. Ukuba umnqweno wokuthatha isenzo uvele, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuyixhoma, kufuneka ulayishe umzimba wakho ngokwenyama-hamba ukuhamba, ukudanisa, ukulungiselela ukucoca kwentsuku, njl njl.
Iimeko ezihluphekileyo zomphefumlo zihlala zikhokelela ekuxhaseni iimvakalelo, kwaye ukugcinwa kwezinto ezimbi kuyingozi kakhulu. Ukuze uphumele ngaphandle, ungakhwaza ngokukhawuleza (ngokukhethekileyo kwindawo efihliweyo kwindalo), shaya umququ okanye ipayipi. Ukuphucula okunjalo kunceda ngendlela entsha yokujonga iingxaki kwaye ufumane indlela yokuphuma kwimeko yokuphila.
Umnqweno wokuhlala wedwa kwimeko embi yomphefumlo ngumnqweno wendalo, onokuthelekiswa nomnqweno we-tortle ukufihla kwiigobolondo. Nangona kunjalo, ukurhoxisa okunjalo akukhokelela kwisisombululo seengxaki, kodwa kubangela ukuba zikhuphe. Ukuphucula imeko yakho, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nabahlobo, qhubeka uhamba, uhambo.
Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu - xa kukubi kakhulu entliziyweni, awukwazi ukucinga ukuba oku kuphakade. Ixesha elinzima aliyi kuhlala ngonaphakade, kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kuza ukuphuculwa. Ukusuka kwiingxaki ozifunayo ukuze ufunde isifundo, zivavanye ngokwakho ngokucacileyo, kwaye iingxaki ezizayo ziya kuba lula kakhulu.