Impembelelo kumntu ayikwazi nje kuphela ngokomzimba, kodwa nangokwengqondo. Shayela ukungakwazi kwakhe, iimvakalelo, ukuphatha kunye nokubandakanyeka kwisiluleko. Enyanisweni, oku kukuhlaselwa kwengqondo kumntu.
Kuvela phi na kutheni?
Ngubani na onokuzuzisa ukuthonya abantu ngale ndlela? Njengomthetho, unolwazi olubi, abantu abangafundanga abaqhuba iinjongo ezithile. Esikhundleni seengqiniso, "bacinezela" kwiimvakalelo. Ukufumana isipho 'sokudlala' kwiimvakalelo, bangela ukwesaba, umsindo, intlungu, ngaloo ndlela kubangele umntu enze izenzo ezithile ezizuzisa kubo. Aba bantu banamakhono abasebenzisi. Wonke umntu angena kwinethiwekhi yabo. Endaweni yengozi:
- abantu abanengqondo;
- abo baye baxinezeleka kakhulu (ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, isifo esibi);
- bantliziyo nabangenangqondo;
- ukungonelanga abantu abahluphekayo, umzekelo, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo;
- abantwana nabaselula.
Kuyatshisa kakhulu xa omnye wabatshatileyo kwiindawo zokuhlala kwiintsapho ziza kule ndlela yokuchaphazela amalungu entsapho. Ngobudlelwane kunye nesiqingatha sakhe sesibini, lo mbonakaliso unokuguqula amehlo akhe kumtyholi kunye neengxaki, ezihlala ziphazamisa iintsholongwane. Umoya olawulayo kwintsapho enjalo ishiya into enqwenelekayo.
Ukuba nempembelelo yengqondo kubantwana babo, abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba konke kulungile ngokumodareyitha. Musa "ukugqithisa intonga" kwaye nakuphi na umzekelo ungadlala kubantwana besaba. Amanyathelo athile emfundo kwixesha elizayo uya kuba nefuthe elibi kumntwana wengqondo.
Ukuzikhusela
Kubalulekile ukwazi oko ukukhusela khona. Nayiphi na impembelelo kumntu, ekhokela ekuphumleni kwengqondo, ukuphazamiseka kwaye kukho ukuhlaselwa kwengqondo. Enye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zempembelelo enjalo kukuhlaselwa kwengqondo komntu. Iqulethwe kwingcinezelo yolwazi kumntu, ijolise ukumnciphisa ithuba lokucinga ngokucacileyo. Inkulumo enokukhawuleza kakhulu, izakhiwo zentetho eziyinkimbinkimbi, imiqathango, umnxibelelwano wenza konke umntu angenalo ixesha lokungena kulo mbandela. Unokuhlangabezana nokuziphatha okunjalo, umzekelo, kwimarike. Kulapho, abathengisi abavuthayo bezinye iincwadi okanye i-shawls
Ngoku kumbuzo wokuzikhusela ekuhlaselweni kwengqondo. Ukuba uziva ungathandeki xa usebenzisana nomntu, uzive uxinzelelo, ukhathazeka kunye nokuxhalabisa - ngokukhawuleza kwaye phantsi kweyiphi na into eyisiqhelo ukushiya inkampani yakhe. Ukuba awukwazi ukuphendula ngeengcinezelo ezifanelekileyo, sebenzisa ngeendlela zakho, kungcono ukuphepha ukunxibelelana nomntu onjalo.
Hlonipha engqondweni yakho, ungabonakali umvakalelo ogqithiseleyo kwaye uhlale unethemba.