Ngokuqhelekileyo ininzi enkulu yeendwendwe ezivuya kunye nezobuhlungu zihlanganiselwa usuku lokuzalwa, kwaye ukuba zingabi zibuhlungu ngexesha lokubhiyozela, kubalulekile ukuhlela iintambo zokuqala kunye nezomdlalo kubo.
Imisombululo eyenziwe kwangaphambili, ehlelwe kakuhle kwaye ehlekisayo yokuzalwa, ukutshintsha ingxoxo etywalayo, iya kwenza iholide ingalibaleki kwaye ihambe imbonakalo emihle kunyaka wonke.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiholide ezinjalo kwinkampani enye bobabini abasondelene nabo, abangaqhelekanga kunye nezinye iindwendwe, kungenzeka ukuba abanye baya kudibana okokuqala. Unxibelelwano olungalululwanga, oluququzelelwe ngoncedo lokuthatha inxaxheba ngokubanzi kwimincintiswano, luya kunceda abantu ukuba bafumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo, ukuba basondele, oko kuthetha ukuba impumelelo yomcimbi iya kuqinisekiswa.
Imizekelo embalwa yentlangano yeholide yabantu abadala kunye nabantwana
Abantu abadala, ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwabo abathandekayo, bathanda ukuzonwabisa, kunye nabantwana, ngoko imincintiswano emnandi kwimibhiyozo iya kubakho kwaye iyimfuneko. Ukugcina umoya ukhululekile, kulula kwaye ujabule, kunye neemvakalelo - zivuya kwaye zilungile, kufuneka ucinge kwaye uzilungiselele inkqubo yokuzonwabisa.
Umncintiswano olandelayo unomdla kwaye uyamnandi:
"Bite okanye ubambe." Abathathi-nxaxheba balayinisa kumgca omnye, kodwa unako ukubamba umncintiswano kwaye ungashiyi itafile. Ngesicelo somququzeleli, zonke iindwendwe ezithatha inxaxheba ziguqula igama lokuba inxalenye yomzimba, umntu othanda kakhulu kummelwane kunye nabo bonke abathandanga. Emva kokuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba baveze oko bekuceliwe, umbonisi "wenza isigqibo". Yintoni ummelwane athanda ngayo - kufuneka ufune, kwaye oko ungakuthandi kukuluma. Olu khuphiswano lunokubangela ukuba uvuyo kunye neentloni ngexesha elifanayo, kodwa kuhlala kumnandi kwaye kunomdla, kunye namazwana amaninzi kunye namahlaya.
Into ephambili kukuba ukhuphiswano alucaphuki naluphi na abathathi-nxaxheba, abaququzekanga into yobuncwane. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kuzo kufuneka ulungiselele iintengo ezingabalulekanga, zangaphambili, ngoko kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kubo, kuba oku kuya kukhunjulwa.
Akukho imfuneko yokubhiyozela usuku lwakho lokuzalwa ekhaya, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, iiholide ezinjalo, ngokukodwa kwixesha elifudumeleyo, zilungelelwe ngendalo , inkululeko kunye nomoya ococekileyo ngokwabo kwenza ukuba ungabonisi kwaye uhlekise, kwaye imincintiswano emnandi, imincinci iya kwenza ukuba ukubhiyozela kube nokudala nokukhumbula.
Sinokululeka ukuba ubambe iqela elipholileyo, elilula kummandla, ongenakuyilungiselelo oluninzi:
"Ukulwa nemithetho." Umntu ngamnye uthatha ibhaluni ehlonyelweyo, iqhosha lokubhala kunye neplastiki. Umdlali ubopha ibhola esikhweni sakhe, inkokheli izisa ukuqala kwemfazwe. Kubalulekile ukubetha ibhola yomdlali kunye neqhosha, ngelixa uvale ibhola ngeplastiki ephethe njengekhuselo. Ophumeleleyo uya kuba ngumthatha inxaxheba oza kusindisa ibhola lokugqibela.
Ukuthatha ukhuphiswano oluhlukeneyo, asifanele sikhohlwe malunga ne minyaka yabathathi-nxaxheba, akucebisi ukuba kulungele ukuzonwabisa okungekho nto inomdla okanye engaqondakaliyo kwiindwendwe. Imincintiswano yamantombazana enhle ngexesha lokuzalwa kwabo ihluke kakhulu kubantu abadala. Kungcono ukhethe imincintiswano enjalo apho bonke abantwana banokuthatha inxaxheba, bafumane iibhaso, ukuze kungabikho namnye kwiindwendwe ezincinci kwiqela elikhubekileyo. Umncintiswano omnandi wabantwana ubizwa ngokuba:
«Iigogo». Kulo khuphiswano, kufuneka ulungiselele uphatho olungenasiphelo, umzekelo, i- jelly . Abantwana abathatha inxaxheba kwintcintiswano kufuneka bayidle ngokusebenzisa imifuno okanye amazinyo, onokulifumana ngokukhawuleza kunokuba abanye bawine.
Ukukhethwa kunye nentlangano yemincintiswano kufuneka kukhangele umntwana, kuba nguye kuphela oya kukwazi ukufumana oko kuza kuba mnandi kubontanga bakhe.