Ekuqalekeni kubonakala ngathi kulula ukukhetha izipho zabasetyhini kunabesilisa. Kwaye inyani, iimpahla ezininzi zeentlobo zentengiso zithengiswa kwiivenkile, kwaye amadoda ethu, abazalwana kunye nabazali bahlala bebonakala bengekho emsebenzini. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo, kunjalo nje ukuba amadoda ahlale eqonda ngokucacileyo oko akuyidingayo, ngoko kukho izinto ezimbalwa zokusetyenziswa kwazo. Kodwa ukuba abantwana bayayazi kakuhle uyise kunye nokukhetha, ukuthenga isipho esifanele kumpapa ngosuku lokuzalwa okanye umhla wokuzalwa uya kuba lula.
Sisiphi isipho onokuyenza kubaba?
Amadoda athile ahluke kwizenzo zabo, ngoko kufuneka bakunike into ebalulekileyo, kodwa, ngexesha elifanayo, elihle. Xa ukhetha isipho somhla wokuzalwa kwakhe, ubudala bakhe bunendima ebalulekileyo, kunye nokuma kwakhe ubomi, umsebenzi kunye nezenzo zokuzilibazisa.
Kwimpapa eneminyaka emashumi mathathu aneminyaka emininzi ubudala, isipho esihle kakhulu sokuzalwa siya kuba yinqaku eyenziwa ngumntwana ngezandla zakhe. Le nto ingaba ikhadi leposi, umfuziselo weplastiki okanye inhlama, isetyenzisiweyo-mfutshane, nantoni na eya kubonisa ukunakekelwa kwengane kuyise. Indoda eneminyaka engama-40 ukuya kwengu-50 ubudala ibonakaliswe yindlela yokuphila. Kule minyaka, sele sele eneemali kwizinto ezithandwayo, kunye nexesha elingaphezulu kwexesha lomsebenzi. Ngako oko, isipho esihle kunazo zonke kuba utata siya kuba yinto enxulumene nezinto ezithandwayo: intente, iibinoculars, i-spinning, isibhamu, i-brazier, isethi ye-poker, ukuzaliswa kwemifanekiso yeemifanekiso okanye i-antiques. Kwizipho ezingabizi ngaphantsi kunokubizwa ngokuba yi-cufflinks, umtya, ibhande, isikhwama, amanzi angasese.
Utata oneminyaka engama-50-60 ubudala uya kukukholisa iDVR kwimoto okanye kwi- GPS-navigator . Unganika kwakhona ikhamera yekhamera okanye ikhamera, amadoda kule minyaka abe nemvakalelo, afana nokudubula abantwana kunye nabazukulwana kunye nokubukela izinto ezinokuzonwabisa. Abo bobawo abahlobo kunye nobuchwepheshe, kuya kuba mnandi ukufumana i-laptop okanye ithebulethi njengesipho. Unokuyihlaziya into esuka kwipaneli yasekhaya, umzekelo, iTV.
Emva kweminyaka engama-60, amadoda ahamba phambili kwipensheni, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ubomi obushukumisayo buyangena ekugqibeleni. Kuya kulungele ukukholisa uyise ngekitikithi kwi-resort, okona, kukulungele ukumthumela eholide nonina. Kwababalandeli be-dacha i-lawnmower, i-saw yombane iya kubaluleka. Kwakhona nakunoma yiphina iminyaka, amadoda akhathalelekanga kwi-accessory enjalo njengesiqwenga samakhwama. Isipho esihle esivela kubantwana bePapa siya kuba yifowuni elula ukuyisebenzisa.
Isipho esivela kwintombi kunye nendodana kubawo
Ngokuqhelekileyo ubudlelwane bobawo nentombi yakhe kunye nendodana ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye oku akuthethi amandla angalinganiyo othando lwakhe, nje kuba oonyana bakapapapa uhlala efuna kakhulu, kwaye intombi iyakwazi ukukhupha iimvakalelo ezininzi. Ngenxa yoko, izipho ezenziwe ngabantwana neentombi zihluke kakhulu.
Ngokomzekelo, intombi inokunika uyise itekiti ngokubhalwe "nguTata oPhezulu" kwaye ayibonakali enomdla ngexesha elifanayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uvunyelwe ukubonisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuzikhethela. Ngokomzekelo, ii-cufflinks zangasese, izitya zokukhangela ngesandla, iisokisi, iifowuni. UPapa uhlala evuyisa ukufumana izipho njengezipho,
Ngokuphathelele oonyana, bayakuvuyela ukufumana isipho sobugcisa (izithethi, iTV , i-laptop). Ungakhombisa kwakhona iiprojekti okanye i-chess kwimisebenzi yokuzilibazisa.
Nasiphi na isipho kufuneka sibonise uthando ngobawo kwaye sinyamekele. Kwaye akubalulekanga kakhulu ukuba kuya kuba yindleko kangakanani.