Waphila iminyaka emihlanu yokuhlala kunye nabantu ababizwa ngomtshato wemithi. Sekutsha ngokukhunjulwa kwezikhumbuzo zalo mcimbi ophawulekayo, ngoko ngamnye umfazi ufuna ukubonisa isicatshulwa sesibini naluphi na umdla okanye isipho kumxholo wosuku. Abanye abantu bathanda ukumema abahlobo abangcono kakhulu kwieholide zentsapho, kwaye omnye umntu ucinga ngendlela oya kubhiyozela ngayo umkhosi womtshato weminyaka emihlanu kunye.
Ukubhiyozela umtshato womthi?
Akukho mkhosi ongenakwenza ngaphandle kwezipho . Unokunika omnye igolide okanye isilivere, kodwa i-bauble yamatye kufuneka ibe yinyaniso enyanzelekileyo kwizinto zokugqoka. Kukho ukhetho olukhulu lwezinto zokhuni. Ubukeka obuhle kakhulu busebenza kwimbhali yomsebenzi. Unokunika intandokazi okanye othandekayo ipayipi yecwecwe, i-spoon, i-set of candlesticks, i- casket okanye ipaneli enhle. Ukukwabelana ngokusetyenziswa kwebhokisi lezonkwa zeenkuni, iziqhamo, umququzeleli okanye ukuma kwekhekhe. Into echaphazelekayo iya kuba yimeko yeselula okanye ithebhulethi.
Ukuba awukwazi ukugubha isiganeko somtshato weminyaka emi-5, unokuxhasa le ngcamango ukubhiyozela kwimvelo. Abaninzi batyala umthi kwi-dacha yabo okanye nje epakini, kwaye baqwalasele indlela ekhula ngayo. Uza kuvuyela kakhulu xa uxhoma umthi weentaka, onokuzenza okanye uthenge esitolo. Ukutya iintaka, uya kuhlala ukhumbula isikhumbuzo sakho sokuqala.
Umzekelo omdala wokubhiyozela isikhumbuzo siyihambo ukuya kwi-cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Ngenxa yokuthanda nokuthandwa ngumntu othandekayo, unommangalisa ngesipho-mpawu. Nika umfazi okanye umyeni wakho uhambo oluya kwesinye isixeko okanye kwelinye ilizwe, ukuxilisa, iklasi yokufundisa, ukugibela ihashe okanye enye yezemidlalo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba le mihla idlulile, ukuba uyathandana, kuya kukhunjulwa kuwe ngobomi.