Awunaso ixesha lokuphuma kwiSuku sabathandi bonke, njengoko uFebhuwari 23 sele ufikile, kwaye kwakhona kwakhona ubuhlungu bokubaluleka kwesihloko esithi "Indlela yokukhetha kunye nesiphi isipho onokuyenza kubathandekayo wakho?". Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokugqiba isiphi isipho esiya kuba mnandi kumntu omthandayo ngoFebruwari 23, amaninzi amantombazana athile angathandabuzeki ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukunika into yeli holide, ukuba umfana uye wakwazi ukuphepha umkhosi. Kubonakala ngathi, kutheni ndiyathokoza intanda yakho ngoFebruwari 23, ukuba akazange azame ukufana nomkhosi? Enyanisweni, lo mbuzo osisidenge, ngokungaqinisekiyo "ngaba amadoda bathanda izipho?". Emva koko, akunako ukugcina umatshini ngesandla senza umntu onjalo, uyavuma? Yingakho kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuvuyisa othandekayo isipho kule holide kunye novuyo ngoFebhuwari 23, nangona engakwazi ukugqoka "ngelixa umdlalo uvutha".
Kodwa isiphi isipho esiza kukhetha yenye into. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndifuna ukuphepha i-banal colognes kunye ne-razors, kwaye ndenze umntu othandekayo ukuba abe nokudala, mhlawumbi isipho esisondelene naye, mhlawumbi unike into enqwenela ukuyifumana. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi koFebruwari 23, siquka ubunongo kunye nokucinga ngendlela epheleleyo kwaye sikhumbule izifundo, ezingenayo ngokwaneleyo ulonwabo ngokupheleleyo, utshilo kutshanje. Kwaye sikhumbula, malunga nantoni na ekugqibeleni iingxoxo ziyajikeleza, sikhetha isipho esifanelekileyo. Ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi zomnqweno, ngoko siyakuqwalasela umlingiswa wintanda. Umzekelo, wayefuna into ethile emotweni, kodwa akayi kukhanyela kokuzonwabisa. Ukuba uyithandana nomntu onothando, ungcono ukumnika into efanelekileyo, kwaye uya kufumana into eyimfuneko, kuba abantu belo garaji, ixesha elichithwa ngumfazi othandekayo lubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba zivezwe ngeemvakalelo.
Kuthekani kuthi xa umthandayo engazange agxilise nantoni na? Ewe, ukuba uzame ngephutha ukuba uthethe naye ngezinto ezithandwayo okanye ngeveki ezayo, ngokukhawuleza uyabetha malunga noko akufunayo. Kwaye nangona lo msebenzi ungaphumeleli, ngoko kuya kufuneka uthabathe isipho esingaboniyo, ngokuqhelekileyo uqwalasela izinto azikhethileyo kunye nezinto ezithandwayo.
Ukuzilibazisa
Amadoda amaninzi ayiphatha "amahashe esinyithi" awo athethekileyo, athile amaqonga amaninzi afanelekayo kubo. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba isipho kwimoto ngokuqinisekileyo siyakukholisa umthandayo. Ewe, ukuba umntu wakho unomdla wokuzonwabisa, ukuloba, iikhomputha, ezemidlalo, ngoko isipho esivela kulolu chungechunge kuya kufuneka ukuba uyithande.
Umntu
Njengokuba akukho mntu uyayazi uhlobo lomthandayo, ngoko ke kholisa ngesipho akusayi kuba nzima. Ungumthandi wesidlo esihlwaya? Emva koko isidlo sesidlo kunye nezitya ezizithandayo ziya kuyanconywa ngabo. Khawukhumbule nje ukuba imbono yokubona ibonisa indima ebalulekileyo ekunandiseni ukutya. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela ukuyila izitya, kwaye igumbi lilonke. Mhlawumbi umntu wakho uyakuthanda ukuchitha ixesha elonwabileyo kwincwadi yeencwadi, okanye ngexesha ngalinye ekufumaneni into entsha kwiifilimu zakho ezizithandayo, okanye akukho nto ihle kunokuba ulalele umculo owuthandayo?
Ukuzonwabisa
Kudala unqwenela ukuchitha iveki kunye kunye, ukuya kwenye indawo ngaphandle kwedolophu, okanye umxhasi ozithandayo wemisebenzi yangaphandle? Emva koko, uyazi kakuhle ukuba umnike ntoni. Kukho inketho ezininzi, ukusuka ekutyelelaneni ngokukodwa kwi-rink yokukhwela kwi-jumping parachute.
Isipho sesini kwisithandwa sakho
Enye indlela yokukholisa indoda yakho ngoFebruwari 23. Njengoko bethetha, into ephambili kwisipho ayikho into yayo, kodwa qwa lasela. Ngoko ke makhe umntu wakho ngaloo mini nje ahambile kwi-caress. Isiqalo sokuqala sesipho kwisithandwa sakho sifanele sibe yinto ebonakalayo ngayo, umzekelo, iingubo zangaphantsi ezinomtsalane okanye i-suit suit. Kwaye kuya kuba yintoni enye eya kubandakanya imenyu yakho yokubhiyozela, kulula ukuqiqa.