Umda wobomi obumnandi, obizwa ngokuba ngumhla weshumi elinesibhozo, kufuneka uqatshelwe ukwenzela ukuba iinkumbulo zamhla zihlale iminyaka emininzi. Oku kubandakanyeka kubafana abanobuchule kwaye abanenkathalo yendalo.
Iintlobo zokubhiyozela: njani kwaye kuphi ukubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwe-18 yomfana?
Ngokuxhomekeka kwithuba lonyaka, kunokungena kwi-parachute, i-snowboarding, i-rafting kumlambo weentaba okanye kwi-party ye-beach. Kuba amakhwenkwe amancinci akakwazi ukuvuma. Imibutho ekhawulezileyo yamakhaya okanye yevenkile - le yinkalo yabameli abakhulu bokuzolalisa ngesondo.
Ewe, kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwisabelo-mali. Hlela into ebalulekileyo kule minyaka, mhlawumbi, ngoncedo lwemali lwabazali. Nangona umfundi ulungele ukuhamba uhambo olulula kunye nabahlobo bezemvelo okanye isidlo se-buffet kwihostele.
Enye indlela ehamba ngayo kunye nabahlobo kwi-konsathi yamatye, kwi-movie yeshashalazi okanye kwibhar, xa bonke abantu baya kuzihlawula. Okanye umbutho weqela elithile, ukuze iholide ingabi yimibutho ebuthathaka.
Ungayisebenzisa njani ixesha lokuzalwa kwe-18 lomfana kunye nentombi?
Ukuba ukhetho kunye nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo aluhambisani nawe, kwaye ufuna ukuchitha loo mini kuphela ngothandekayo wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuvumba komtshato. Kule meko, kukulungele ukunyuka phezu kophahla lwezakhiwo zendawo kunye nokulungelelanisa itafile kubini kuphela ababini ngamakhandlela kunye ne-champagne. Oku, kunoko, kufuneka uyinyamekele intombazana, ilungiselele inkwenkwe yokuzalwa emangalisayo .
Enye inketho, indlela yokugubha usuku lokuzalwa kwe-18 lomfana - ukuya kunye nomphefumlo wakho kwiqabane. Masibe nemini enye kwaye singekho phesheya, kodwa nje kwindawo enhle. Mhlawumbi isibini esele sineendawo ezinqwenelekayo, ezidibene nomhlangano wokuqala okanye esinye isiganeko esingalibalekiyo.
Kwaye ungaqala kunye kunye nokuzonwabisa, ukuqhubezela ukuxhuma okufanayo kunye neparachute okanye ukuhamba ngebhola. Into ephambili kukuba nonke niyifunayo kwaye nilungele ukuzonwabisa okunjalo.