Kukho abantu abafuna ukulungelelanisa nayiphina inxaxheba ngokubanzi, izixhobo zomlilo, iqela leendwendwe. Abanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bakhetha ukugubha iiholide ngokuzithoba ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba elincinane kunazo zonke, kunye neendleko eziphantsi kohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Hayi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kufike ixesha apho wonke umntu kufuneka alondoloze imali yokugcina imali, ukuqokelela imali enkulu yokuthenga, unyango, ukufundisisa, ukuphumla kwamanye amazwe, nakweminye imicimbi. Kule meko, kwimeko enjalo, wonke umntu ufuna ukufumana indawo apho ukubhiyozela khona ukuzalwa kwabo, isithandane, engavamile, engabizi kwaye okokuba isiganeko esibalulekileyo sagxininiswa ixesha elide. Kuyabonakala ukuba nakwiimeko ezinomdla kunamacebo amangalisayo anokukhokelela kwiziphumo ezilungileyo.
Ndingayibhiyozela njani umhla wokuzalwa ongenamsebenzi ongenasiphelo nangokwakhethi?
- Indlela ethobekileyo kakhulu yokubhiyozela nayiphi na iholide ukuqhuba amaqela ekhaya. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuchithwa kwele ndlela iintaba zeesitya kunye nesidingo sokulungiselela ukutya, kodwa ukuba ikhaya kunye nabahlobo belulungele ukukunceda, umnini-mhlaba uza kuhlangabezana nalo msebenzi. Ukuze ungayiguquleli umbhiyozo kumthendeleko oqhelekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuzonwabisa ngabantu abamenywe kwinkqubo engaqhelekanga ngendlela yemincintiswano, imibuzo, isicwangciso esihle somculo. Kuyinkwenkwezi kakhulu ngoku ukubamba ii-discos ezicacileyo. Ukuba ukhangele indlela, njani uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali kwaye unqabileyo ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa , uze uluqule kwiqela leqela elidumile, i-pirate okanye i-retro style.
- Olunye uhlobo oluthile oluqhelekileyo lweziganeko ezingabonakaliyo kwaye ezijabulisayo - uhambo kunye nenkampani ukuya ehlathini elisondeleyo, kumlambo okanye kwi-dacha yakho. Iipiksiki emoyeni zisoloko ziyindlela epholileyo yokuphumula kwidolophu epholileyo kwaye enezothuli, ingakumbi xa iimeko zemozulu zifanelekile kwaye ilanga ngokwayo litsala abantu kufuphi nemvelo.
- Ukuba unendawo yokuhlambela okanye i-sauna enhle, ke leziko liba ngumviwa ongcono kakhulu apho kubonakala khona ukubhiyozela ukuza kubakho ukuhlawula umhla wokuzalwa kwaye kulunge. Uza kuchitha imali encinci kuneyona cafe okanye kwindawo yokutyela kunye nomculo kunye nombonisi othobelayo. Ukongezelela, kwi-sauna kukho ithuba lokuqhuba ezininzi iimpikiswano ezipholileyo kunye ezikhunjulwayo ezingadibanisa ukuzonwabisa.