Umsebenzi we-Psycho-corrective kunye nabantwana abaneengxaki zokuziphatha

Akusoloko inkqubo yokuba ngumntwana ihamba kakuhle. Iingxaki zinokuvela nangaliphi ixesha ngenxa yemozulu engathandekiyo kwintsapho, imfundo engafanelekanga okanye iimeko ezingaphaya kolawulo lwabazali: iziganeko eziphazamisayo, uxinzelelo, impembelelo yabangane kunye nabanye abantu abadala, njl. Kwiimeko ezinje, ukulungiswa kwengqondo kunye nabantwana abanophulaphulo ukuziphatha. Njengomthetho, kuqhutyelwa ngabafundi bezengqondo, kodwa oomama nooyise bafanele bazi nemigaqo-siseko yokusebenzisana nosana.

Yintoni echazwe ngentswelo yokuziphatha?

Ulwaphulo oluphambili lweendlela zokuziphatha kwabantwana luquka:

• Ukungakwazi ukuqhagamshelana ngokupheleleyo nootitshala, abazali, abanye abantu abadala, ukungabikho kokuphendula ngokwaneleyo kwizenzo zabo;
• ukuphikisana rhoqo noontanga;
• ukurhoxisa ngaphakathi, ukuvalelwa ngenxa yoluvo lwentlanzi yangaphakathi;
• ugonyamelo olungenakushukunyiswa okanye intukuthelo;
• ubunzima ekuqeqesheni (kubantwana beminyaka yobudala besikolweni, ukulungiswa kweengxaki zokuziphatha kubaluleke kakhulu, kungenjalo kuya kukwazi ukulibala ngesatifiketi esinamabanga amabakala);
• ukuzithoba, ukuxhomekeka kwabanye;
• ukukhangela inkululeko ngokuchaswa kwemigaqo yokuziphatha evumelekileyo;
• ulungelelaniso.

Ukuziphatha komntwana kulungiswe njani?

Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana kunye namazwi akhe kunye nezenzo ngokwakhe ucela uncedo kubantu abadala. Ukunyanga kwengqondo kubantwana abaneengxaki zokuziphatha kuquka:

1. Ukudala isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ekunxibelelaneni. Iintsana zidinga uthando nokuqonda, ngoko umsebenzi weengcali zeengqondo ukujonga iinkalo zakhe ezintle, oko uzinamandla, kwaye ufunde ukuphulaphula nokuva.
2. Ukuqhuba iimvavanyo kunye nokudliwano-ntanethi kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba nantoni na uncedo kubantwana abanenkinga yokuziphatha baya kusebenza ngolu hlobo.
3. Yenza imisebenzi ekhethekileyo ukuze isigulane eselula sifunde ukuqonda nokulungisa iingcamango zakhe neemvakalelo zakhe. Ngokomzekelo, oku: abathathi-nxaxheba bahlala kwisangqa kwaye ngamnye uthi: "Ukuba ndibe yincwadi, ndiza kuba ... (isichazamazwi, umagazini, njl.)", "Ukuba ndiphendule ukutya, ndiya kuba ...", njl. Iziphumo ezilungileyo zinikezwa ngumsebenzi "Wezobugcisa" , apho abathathi-nxaxheba boqeqesho, njengokuba kunjalo, batshintshana zabo iimpawu ezinoburhaxana ezifana nentukuthelo, ukucaphuka, ukukhawuleza kwizinto ezintle ezifana novelwano, umonde, ububele, njl.
4. Kuhle kakhulu ukulungelelanisa unyango lweengxaki zokuziphatha kubantwana basenkulaneni ngokuncedisa unyango lwangqondo, apho umntwana efumana ithuba lokuzibonakalisa nomntu ovela kubalinganiswa, okanye unyango lobugcisa, xa umntwana evula imizwa yakhe.