Ukunyusa iholide yinto engavamile kakhulu, ehambelana ne-sacrament yecawa, kwaye ngoko ke iyamangalisa kwaye inentsingiselo ebomini babo bonke abakhona. Kule nkalo, umbuzo uvela ukuba kuyisiko lokunikela kwi- christenings . Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi bakhumbula ngeemfundiso zamandulo, kodwa ngokugqithiseleyo bafumana into ebalulekileyo.
Yintoni abayinike ngayo i-godson okanye i-goddown for christenings?
Ukuba ungumwendwendwe oqhelekileyo, ngoko unokukhetha isipho saluphi na uhlobo, kodwa umbuzo wukuthi unkulunkulukazi unika ntoni kwi-christenings ulawulwa yimithetho yesonto. Nangona kunjalo, zikho iindlela ezinokwenzeka:
- Oomama banikela umnqamlezo oyingcwatshi oza kugqithiselwa umntwana ngexesha le-sakramente. Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka kube ngumnqamlezo ofanayo oya kudlula nomntu bonke ubomi bakhe. Yingakho abazali abaninzi, ukuze banganyanzeli u-godfather kwixesha elibizayo, bafumana i-cross cross. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umnqamlezo uyadingeka isilivere okanye umthi, unokusondeza ngokusesikweni kumzali ongokomoya. Into efunekayo ukuyikhumbula kuyimfuneko yokuxoxisana nesipho eso kunye nosapho lwentsapho kusengaphambili.
- Isipho somdabu esivela kubantwana boothixo sinqabileyo. Ingumtya wendabuko wengubo ekhonza njenge-diaper nje emva komcimbi.
- Yintoni ekhethekileyo ngokunikela i-crystal kwintombazana? Gqoka! Le nkwenkwe iya kunikwa isitifiketi. Ngokufanelekileyo, kufanele kube yinto ehlala ekhaya, kodwa ukuba imisebenzi yezandla ezibunzima - ungathenga isipho kwisitoreji.
- Esinye isithethe kukunika isiliva yesilivere. Esi sinyithi sibaluleke kakhulu kwi-Orthodoxy, ngoko isipho esinjalo sihlala sigcinwa bonke ubomi.
Into ephambili kukuba kugxininise kumgangatho nokuzinza. Nantoni na onika ngayo, umKristu osemtsha uza kuthwala naye ubomi. Kwaye umkhusane, apho umntwana ehlanganiswe khona, ehlambulukileyo emanzini angcwele, uthathwa njengophiliso, ngokubhekiselele kwinto efunekayo ebomini bomntu.
Ngaba banika imali ye-christenings?
Njengomthetho, iindwendwe ziyakunomdla ngaphambili kwangaphambili kwabazali babo, yintoni umnikelo okwenzelwe umntwana ngoku ngokufanelekileyo. Omnye ufumana i-jumpsuit, iimpahla ezifudumalayo okanye izicathulo, omnye umntu-amathoyizi, zonke iintlobo zezinto ezincinci ezifunekayo.
Ukuba, umzekelo, abazali bomntwana baxhobisa umntwana, kuyafaneleka ukuba wazi ukuba kungcono ukunika isipho ngokulingana nemali. Makuvumelekile ukuba oku kungabi yindlela yendabuko, kodwa kunokoqobo.
Ziziphi iindwendwe ezinika intombazana engumKristu?
Abazali (okanye ubuncinane omnye wabo) kunye noodadewabo kufuneka babe ngamaKristu oOthodoki, kodwa ngeendleko zezinye iindwendwe icawa ayenzi iimfuno. Yingakho kudla ukuba kwenzeke ukuba abahlobo kunye nezihlobo ezifuphiweyo zihlanganisene kule sakramente ukuzabelana nalo mzuzwana osisigxina nabo. Ukuba ngaba abazali bebanokuthobeka, kwaye "abayilanga" izipho ezithile, kubalulekile ukuba banikeze iinketho zabo, bethetha ukuba ufuna ukwenza okulungileyo.
Ngoko, ungayinikela:
- Zonke iintlobo zokuzonwabisa. Ziyimfuneko kumntwana phantse nawuphi na umdala, into ephambili kukuba ukhethe into enomdla ngokwenene.
- Incwadi kunye neengcebiso malunga nemfundo yabantwana. Akunabo bonke oomama abakhuphula abantwana nge-intuitively - abanye bazama ukwenza "kwisayensi". Isikhokelo esibalabala siya kuba isipho esihle kakhulu kwintsapho enjalo.
- IBhayibhile yabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunikwa ootatomkhulu,
ngoko uzama ukufumana kubazali bentsana, akakho umntu owabathembisa ukuba unjalo isipho njengesipho. - Izipho ezilungileyo kakhulu - isiqhumiso nesithonjana somntu ongcwele. Ezi zipho ziya kuxabiswa ngokukhethekileyo kwintsapho ehlonipha imithetho yecawa ngokuthembeka.
- Izambatho zebhokhwe ngenye yezipho eziqhelekileyo neziqhelekileyo. Abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye iintsapho ezininzi ziya kuthanda izixhobo zabo. Ukugqoka kunye nokugqoka, kunye nee-overalls.
Ukongezelela, abazali banikwe izipho : iintyatyambo zomama osemncinci, izikhumbuzo, iifom, ii-albhamu ezithombeni kunye nezinye i-trivia-kuba upapa.