Umtshato uyisithethe se-ecclesiastical aiming to connect the hearts "in heaven." Abantu abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa ngexesha lokufumana umvuzo bafumana ubomi obonwabileyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi kwangaphambili oko kufunekayo emtshatweni , kuba umkhosi udinga uhlobo oluthile lokulungiselela kwangaphambili. Kungcono ukudibanisa netempileni efanelekile kwangaphambili ukuze kucaciswe ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba u-nuances kwaye, okokuqala, iindleko zalo mthendeleko.
Yintoni oyifunayo kumtshato kunye nendlela yokuyilungiselela ngayo?
Okokuqala, abasandul 'ukutshata kufuneka bakhethe indawo kunye nexesha lesithethe. Namhlanje, iicawa ezininzi zinika ukurekhodwa kwangaphambili, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukucacisa le nto. Kufanelekile ukuthetha ukuba awukwazi ukwenza olo hlobo ngexesha lokuzila, iPasika, iKrisimesi, kunye neLwesibini, uLwesine kunye neMigqibelo. Kukho neminye imigaqo malunga nento yokwenza ngaphambi komtshato kwicawa, ngoko ke abasandul 'ukutshata kufuneka bafumane ukudibana kunye nokuvuma, kwaye kukhuthazwa ukuba ubambe ngokukhawuleza. Kwintetho yomntu, umbingeleli uya kuba nako ukuqonda ukuba ngaba isibini sinqume ukuba sithathe isigqibo sokutshata nokuba ngaba abatsha bakulungele isinyathelo esinzulu. Ngobusuku bomtshato, ukususela ngobusuku bo-12, akukhuthazwa ukuba badle, basele, bathe, okanye bayeke ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo.
Ukufumanisa oko kuyimfuneko yomtshato ebandleni, kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukufumana iimpawu eziyimfuneko, oko kukuthi isibini somtshato: uphawu lukaYesu kunye nobuso beNtombi. Umfanekiso wokuqala usetyenziselwa intsikelelo yendoda, kwaye yesibini yowesifazane. Siphinde silungiselele ukulungiselela intloko yomtshakazi (ukuba akukho zikhuselo kuwo), iibhandlela ezingcwalisiweyo, icawe kunye neentlawu. Kulo mboniso, kusetyenziswe amathuwa amabini, apho imilenze kunye neengalo zabasanda kutshata banamathele. Kubalulekile ukulungiselela iehokethi ezine: ezimbini - ezilungiselelwe abantu abatsha ukugcina ikhandlela,
Masifunde ngakumbi malunga nawaphi amacandane adingekayo kumtshato ebandleni . Kwixesha la mandulo, loo mbhangqwana kwakudingeka ithenge ikhava yesilivere negolide, eyona nto yayijoliswe kumfazi, kunye nenketho yesibini kumntu. Namhlanje kuyisiko ukuthenga izindandatho ezifanayo, nokuba zegolide, okanye zesiliva. Akukhuthazwa ukuba ukhethe iingubo ngamatye ahlukeneyo, nokuba zilula. Ngaphambi kokuqala komthendeleko, amakhondlo kufuneka anikwe umbingeleli.
Abaninzi banomdla kwiimpawu ezifunekayo kumtshato ebandleni, kwaye ke izibini ezithe zabonisa isatifiketi somtshato ziyavunyelwa kwi-rite. Kwimeko apho umtshato ungabhaliswa khona, ke ikopi yesicelo iyadingeka kwiofisi yokubhalisa.