Ukuzithoba kukukwazi ukuthatha inyathelo kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngumnqweno kunye nomoya womntu. Cinga indlela esinokuyenza ngayo kunye nokufezekisa ngokusebenzisa imigaqo yokuziququzelela kunye nokuzimelela kwimicimbi yemihla ngemihla. Yithi, umzekelo, ufuna ukulahla iikhilogram ezimbalwa uze uthi emzimbeni wakho: "Lahla iikhilogram ezi-5, kwaye ke into oyilinganisayo kakhulu." Ngaba oku kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokuzimela? Akunjalo!
Ukuzimeya ngenye yezixhobo ezilula kwaye zifikeleleke kakhulu zophuhliso lwabantu. Ingakunika amandla kwaye uncede unqobe ukuxhomekeke kwimiba ethile, utshabalalise imichimo emibi , kubandakanya ingxaki ekhoyo kuwo wonke umntu-umkhwa wokubakhohlisa umsebenzi ngomso. Ukuxazulula iingxaki, ukuzithiba akunalo.
Indlela yokuhlakulela ukuzimela?
Ukuhlakulela ukuzimela, le mithetho ilandelayo kufuneka ilandelwe:
1. Funda ukwenza nantoni na. Lo mgaqo uquka ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Phila namhlanje. Ixesha elidlulileyo nelixa elizayo lingaphaya kwamandla ethu, kodwa sinokutshintsha okwangoku, ngoko ukuyisebenzisa;
- zibandakanya izimvo. Ungesabi, enye, nangona ingazaliseki ngokupheleleyo, ingcinga ihlala ilunge ngakumbi kunezikhulu zeengcamango ezintle;
- yenza okungakumbi, kodwa uthetha ngaphantsi. Musa ukuxelela umntu malunga nezicwangciso zakho. Xoxa kuphela into oyenzile;
- isenzo, ungavumeli uloyiko luphumelele. Njengoko bethetha: amehlo ayika, kodwa izandla zabo zenza. Kwaye oku kulungile, inyathelo lonyango elona lihle kunxamnye noloyiko kunye nokungaqiniseki;
- Musa ukuyeka kude kube ngumso onokukwenza namhlanje. Khumbula, kufuneka usebenze apha kwaye ngoku, kwaye "kungekudala, ngolunye usuku"!
2. Vala iimvakalelo xa kuyimfuneko. Kubomi bethu kukho inani elikhulu leemeko ezizimeleyo kuthi. Ngokomzekelo: sifikile kwisiganeko sendlela, saqala ukuna, saziphosa uqeqesho, zonke iimeko azixhomekeke kuthi, ngoko kwenzeka kwaye ngoncedo lweemvakalelo awukwazi ukutshintsha nantoni na, ngoko unqamle. Kutheni uchitha impilo yakho kunye neentsholongwane xa unamandla? Kwaye ukuba unokutshintsha iimeko, kwakhona kwakhona, kutheni uchithe imizwa? Thatha uyenze!
3. Ukulandelela ixesha lakho, likhokele ngexesha. Oku mhlawumbi yindlela efanelekileyo yokugxininisa . Yintoni eya kunceda lo msebenzi ocebisayo? Okungakumbi ukuba ufunda ukukhumbula, yintoni ochitha ixesha lakho elixabisekileyo, ukugqiba ixesha elifunekayo lentsapho, umsebenzi, ukuphumla, ngokukhawuleza ukulahla "abadliwayo bexesha" abangadingekile kwaye uthathe ixesha elifutshane ukugcina ibhizinisi lakho eliyintandokazi.
Ukuzimela ngokwezemali kuyindlela echanekileyo yokuziphatha ngokuphathelele kwimicimbi enxulumene nemali. Ichaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu, kuba into esiyichithayo yonke imali esiyifumana ixhomekeke kuphela kwisimo sengqondo sangaphakathi, imigaqo kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzimela.
Kutheni sifuna ukuzimela ngokwezimali?
- Ukuze kulawulo lonke ukuhamba kwemali kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uqinisekise ukuzinza kwezemali ezizinzileyo kunye nabathandekayo babo.
- Ukuze uqokelele imali ngokulula, ungazithethi nantoni na. Nanku kubalulekile ukukhumbula: Abatyebi ababa yibo abafumana imali eninzi, kodwa abo bachitha imali ngokuhlakanipha!
- Ukuze uphile ubomi obuqaqambileyo, kungakhathaliseki
ubuninzi obufumanayo, apho uhlala khona kunye nabani osebenzelayo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukudibanisa kwinqanaba lokuzimela, ukuthabatha konke uvuyo lobomi, akunjalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo unako ukubambelela ixesha elide kweli lizwe. Kulungile ukuguqula ukuzithobela ukuzinyamekela. Indlela yokufunda ukuzimela? Qala ngezinto ezilula: ulale ngexesha, uchithe ixesha elithile kumsebenzi onzima okanye ohlala kuyo, yenza umzimba kwaye uhambe rhoqo ngosuku emoyeni omtsha. Ngokubanzi, qulunqa ixesha lokuzonwabisa, uze ufike emsebenzini.