Ukubonakala komntwana okhethekileyo kwintsapho yolu vavanyo lwangempela loluntu kunye nokunyamezela, kwaye ukukhuliswa komntwana onjalo ngumsebenzi omkhulu ofuna imimoya engakholwanga yokomoya.
Abantwana balezi nkwenkwezi bazalwa ngeengxaki ezithile zophuhliso, kodwa abazali abazenzi iimfihlelo, kodwa bathetha ngokunyanisekileyo ngamava abo, bebeka umzekelo kubantu abaninzi.
Evelyn Bledans noSemyon
Ngomhla ka-Apreli 1, 2012, umdlali we-actress nombonisi uEvelina Bledans waba ngumama weMbewu iMbewu. Ngaloo nto, kumntwana wakhe isifo se-Down, u-Evelina ufunde okanye ufumene ngeveki eyi-14 yokukhulelwa. Oogqirha bamcebisa ukuba akhuphe isisu, kodwa inkwenkwezi yenqaba. Kwaye andizange ndizisole. Ngoku uSeme usele minyaka engama-5 ubudala, ngumntwana okhutheleyo, ovuyokileyo kwaye oqaqambileyo. I-Star mama ichitha ixesha elide ekukhuliseni nasekuphuhlisweni kwengane yakhe. Ngokomzekelo, kwiminyaka engama-3.5 le nkwenkwe ifundile ukufunda ukuba akuyiyo yonke into enempilo enomntwana onakho. Umdlali weqhawe ukhuluma ngokuphumelela kwonyana wakhe kwiintanethi zentlalo, ithemba elikhuthazayo kunye nethemba kwabanye abantu abavelisa abantwana abakhethekileyo:
"Sibonisa ngomzekelo wethu ukuba abantwana abanjalo banokuthi bathande kwaye bathandeke, ukuba bahle, banengqiqo kwaye bavuya"
U-Irina Khakamada no-Masha
Umpolitiki ophumelelayo kunye nomfazi weshishini u-Irina Khakamada ixesha elide wafihla ukuba intombi yakhe uMasha, eyalelwa ngo-1997, ibe ne-Down syndrome. UMas ungumntwana osemva; U-Irina wamzalela eneminyaka engama-42 ubudala kumfazi wesithathu, uVladimir Sirotinsky:
"Esi siqhamo esinexesha elide, samkelekileyo sothando lwethu"
Ngoku uMasha uneminyaka engama-20 ubudala. Ufunda kwiikherikhi kwikholeji, uyayithanda imidlalo. Intombazana iyakuthanda ukudansa kwaye ikwazi ukwenza izinto ezintle. Kutshanje uMaria unesithandwa. Okhethiweyo wakhe nguVlad Sitdikov, owayenayo i-Down's syndrome. Naphezu kwesi sifo, le nsizwa yafumana impumelelo ebonakalayo kwimidlalo: ingumdlali wehlabathi kwi-bench press ephakathi kwamantombazana.
UAnna Netrebko noTeago
Unyana wakhe kuphela uThoago, inkwenkwezi ye-opera yehlabathi, wazala ngo-2008. Ekuqaleni kwabonakala ngathi wayenempilo kwaye ekhula ngendlela efanayo nabantwana abaqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, xa uneminyaka engathathu umntwana engazange afunde ukuvakalisa amagama angundoqo, abazali bagqiba ukuyibonisa ugqirha. Uthi uTexago wafunyaniswa ngesimo esincinci se-autism. I-opera inkwenkwezi ayizange iphelelwe yithemba; wafumana oogqirha bokuqala abanobuchule obuninzi kunye nabantwana bama-autistic, waza wahlela unyana wakhe kwelinye lezona zikolo ezizodwa ezizodwa eNew York.
Ngoku uThoago uneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala; kwaye wenza inkqubela phambili. Kwakukho ithemba lokuba le nkwenkwe iya kupheliswa. Emoyeni womboniso weentetho "Baye bathethe" u-Anna Netrebko wabhekisela kubo bonke oomama bezingane ezizimele:
"Ndikholelwe: oku akukho isigwebo! Kukho iindlela eziphuhlisa abantwana abanjalo kwimigangatho eqhelekileyo "
UColin Farrell noYakobi
Unyana omdala kaColin Farrell, uYakobi, uyagula kunye ne-Angelmann syndrome, eyaziwa ngokuba "yintliziyo evuyayo ye-doll". Iimpawu zakhe: ukulahla ekuphuhliseni, iincampu, ukuphazamiseka kokungonwabi. NgokukaYakobi, amanzi akhe axabisekileyo. UColin Farrell uthi:
"Uthanda yonke into enxulumene namanzi. Ukuba uyacaphukisa ngento ethile, ndiyifaka nje isitya samanzi. "
Nangona iFarrell sele ehlukaniswe nomama wakhe uYakobi, uhlawula ixesha eliphakamisa unyana wakhe:
"Ndiyamdumisa uYakobi, ndiyaduka ngaye. Unceda sonke ukuba sibe ngcono, sinyanisekile, sinobubele ... "
UYakobi wathatha amanyathelo akhe okuqala kwiminyaka emi-4, ngo-7-waqala ukuthetha kwaye kuphela 13 waqala ukutya eyedwa. Nangona kunjalo, uFarrell uxela ukuba unyana "uyamdonsa ezandleni zakhe."
Tony Braxton kunye noDesel
Xa uDesel, unyana kaTony Braxton, uneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, oogqirha bafumanisa ukuba yi-autism. Kwimeko yokugula kwenkwenkwe, umculi wazitsho; wayekholelwa ukuba ngale ndlela uThixo wamsola ngokukhipha isisu okwenziwa ngo-2001. Ekuqaleni, uTony wawela enxinxeni waza wangena enetyala. Kodwa ngenxa ye-Diesel, wazibamba waza wabuyela kwiingcali ezigqwesileyo eziye zanceda le nkwenkwe kakhulu. Ngo-2016, uTony wathi indodana yakhe eneminyaka engama-13 yayiphiliswa ngokupheleleyo.
USylvester Stallone noSergio
USergio, unyana omncinane kaSylvester Stallone, wazalwa ngowe-1979. Xa le nkwenkwe yayineminyaka engama-3 ubudala, abazali bagqiba ukuyibonisa ugqirha, njengoko babenenkxalabo yokuzihlukanisa komntwana kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuthetha. Kwavela ukuba le nkwenkwe yayineendlela ezinzima ze-autism. Kuba nguStallone nomkakhe, oku kwakubangalisa. Odokotela bacetyisa ukuba bafake uSergio kwiziko elikhethekileyo, kodwa abazali abazange bafune ukuva malunga nalo. Ubunzima bomzabalazo wendodana yakhe belele kumahlombe kamama. U-Stallone wayengabonakali ekhaya, esebenza ukugqoka kunye nokufumana imali ngoSergio unyango.
Okwangoku, uSergio uneminyaka engama-38 ubudala. Uhlala kwilizwe lakhe elikhethekileyo, apho engashiyi khona. Utata uhlala kumtyelela, kodwa, ngamazwi akhe, akakwazi ukunceda unyana wakhe.
UJenny McCarthy no-Evan
Umzekelo uJenny McCarthy wabonisa ihlabathi ukuba nge-autism kwaye inokulwa. Ubonise oku ngomzekelo wonyana wakhe u-Evan, owayefunyanwe nesifo esi saqala umntwana.
Ukususela ebuntwaneni bokuqala kunye no-Evan bezona ngcaphephe zengcali ezibandakanyekileyo, kwaye umdlali we-actress unika ixesha elide kumntwana. Ngenxa yoko, wafunda ukwenza abahlobo waza waya kwisikolo esiphezulu. Le nkqubela enkulu, ecinga ukuba le nkwenkwe yayingenakukwazi ukuqhagamshelana nesiso esilula.
UJenny ukholelwa ukuba imbangela yokugula yayisigonyi (nangona iyeza lwanamhlanje aliqinisekisi ukuba ukugonywa kubangela ukuphazamiseka kwe-autistic spectrum).
Ngamava akhe, uJenny uchazwe kwincwadi ethi "Louder than words." Ukongezelela, ulungiselele i-fund ekhethekileyo, ejongene neengxaki ze-autistics.
UJohn Travolta noJett
Ngo-2009, intsapho kaJohn Travolta yaxhwaleka kakhulu: unyana oneminyaka engama-16 ubudala we-actor uJett wabulawa ngenxa yesifo sokuhluthwa. Emva kokufa kwalowo mfana, uluntu luye lwafunda ukuba une-autism, kunye ne-asthma kunye nesifo. Emva kokulahlekelwa yindodana yakhe, uJohn Travolta waxineka kakhulu:
"Ukufa kwakhe kwakuvavanyo olubi kakhulu ebomini bam. Andizange ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kusinda "
UDanko noAgatha
U-Agatha oneminyaka engama-3, intombi encinci yomculi uDanko, ekubeni ukuzalwa kwafumanisa ukuba isifo esibi kakhulu-isifo sengqondo sokukhubazeka kwengqondo. Isizathu sesi sifo sibuhlungu obukhulu.
Oogqirha kunye nezihlobo zancenga umculi ukuba azibonele umntwana kwiziko elikhethekileyo okanye azilahle ngokupheleleyo, ekholelwa ukuba yena nomkakhe babengenako ukubonelela loo nto ntombazana ngokunyamekela. Nangona kunjalo, uDanko akazange afune ukuva malunga nokunika intombi yakhe kwabanye abantu. Ngoku intombazana ijikelezwe ngothando kunye nokunakekelwa kwabathandekayo; kunye naye umsebenzi omningi, kwaye sele sele sele sele iqalile ukuthatha amanyathelo okuqala.
UCathy Price noHarvey
Umzekelo waseBritani uCathy Price ngumama omkhulu, unabantwana abahlanu. UHarvey oneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala, unyana wakhe omdala, uyimpumputhe ekuzalweni; Ngaphandle koko, uye wafumanisa ukuba une-autism kunye ne Prader-Willi syndrome-isifo esingaqhelekanga sesifo sofuzo, esinye isibonakaliso saso sisidingo esingalawulekiyo sokutya kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukukhuluphala. Inkwenkwe engonwabanga isele ibuhlungu obukhulu: uyise, umdlali webhola lebhola uDwight York wenqaba ukumbona, kwaye kamva umntwana wayexhomekeke kwi-intanethi.
UDan Marino noMichael
UMichael, unyana womdlali wasebhola waseMelika uDan Marino, eneminyaka emibili ubudala, wafunyaniswa nge-autism. Ndiyabulela unyango olufanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunye nokuphumelela, uMichael, oneminyaka engama-29 ubudala, uhlala ubomi obuzeleyo, kwaye abazali bakhe bamisela isikhwama sokunceda abantwana abane-disistic disorder disorder.
Konstantin Meladze no Valery
Unyana womvelisi womculo uKonstantin Meladze uhluphekile nge-autism. Kwangexesha elide, abazali beenkwenkwe bazifihla ebantwini, kodwa emva kokuqhawula kwabo ngo-2013, lowo owayengumfazi uMaladze wanikeza ingxoxo engqongqo apho watsho ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuphakamisa umntwana we-autistic. Wabuye wacebisa bonke abazali bezingane ezizodwa ukuba baqhagamshelane noogqirha ngokukhawuleza, ekubeni ukuxilongwa kwangaphambili kuthatha indima ebalulekileyo ekunyilweni ngempumelelo kwe-autism.
UJohn McGinley noMax
I-Down syndrome iphinda ixilongwe kuMax oneminyaka engama-20 ubudala, unyana omdala womdlali uJohn McGinley. Nangona inkwenkwezi yeKlinikhi isele yahlukanisa umama kamntwana, uqhubeka ethatha inxaxheba ebomini bonyana wakhe. Enye yodliwano-ndlebe u-McGinley wabhenela bonke abazali abanabantwana abane-Down's syndrome.
"Awuzange wenze into engalunganga. Oku akusiyo isohlwayo ngenxa yeephosiso zobutsha bakho. Umntwana unama-chromosomes angama-21. Akunabo kuphela abo uThixo awathumela kulo mqondiso. Nothando. Uthando lu sebenza "
UMichael Douglas noDylan
UDylan, unyana omdala kaMichael Douglas kunye noCatherine Catherine Zeta-Jones uneengxaki ezithile zophuhliso, kodwa abazali abachazi kakuhle ukuxilongwa. UMichael wayekhankanya ngokufutshane ngempilo yengane yakhe ngo-2010, evuma ukuba iDylan "unesidingo esikhethekileyo".
Neil Young kunye nabantwana bakhe
Ngomsebenzi ongaqhelekanga wexesha elizayo, oonyana bobabini bomtshato womculo waseCanada bahlupheke ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwe-cerebral palsy. Esi sifo asizulifa, ngoko kubonakala kwintsapho enye yabantwana ababini abanalo ukuxilongwa kuyinto engavamile kakhulu.
Ukwazi iingxaki zabantu abakhubazekile ngokwabo, oselula kunye nomkakhe uPeggy wasungula isikolo sabantwana abakhethekileyo.
URobert de Niro no-Elliott
Umdlali odumileyo unabantwana abathandathu. Ngo-2012, kwingqungquthela yenkomfa kwi-premiere yefilimu "I-Guy My Psycho," uDeroro wavuma ukuba unyana wakhe u-Elliott, owazalelwa ngo-1997, u-autism.
Fedor Bondarchuk kunye noVarya
URarya, intombi kaFedor noSvetlana Bondarchuk, wazalwa ngo-2001, ngaphambi kwexesha. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, le ntombazana yincinci emva kokuphuhliswa. Abazali abakucongi ukuba intombi yabo igula, bakhetha ukuyibiza ngokuthi "eyodwa." Umama Vari uyavuya naye:
"Umntwana omnandi, omhle kwaye othanda kakhulu. Kwanakwenzeka ukuba ungamthandi. Kukhanya kakhulu ยป
Ininzi yexesha, uVarya uhlala kude nabazali bakhe, phesheya kwelinye ilizwe, apho ufumene unyango lwezempilo oluphezulu kunye nemfundo.
USergey Belogolovtsev noZhenya
Abantwana abancinci be-actor uSergei Belogolovtsev, amawele kaSasha noZhenya, bazalwa ngaphambi kokudala. UZhenya wafumanisa iintsilelo ezine zeentliziyo, ngoko kufuneka asebenze kakubi ebusaneni, emva koko umntwana wakhula ukukhubazeka kwe-cerebral palsy. Ekuqaleni, abazali bafihla ukuxilongwa kwabanye baze baze banamahloni ngonyana wabo. Kodwa kungekudala baqonda ukuba sele bexelele ngengxaki yabo baza baxelela amava abo, banokunceda abantu abaninzi.
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