Ngelishwa, kwaye mhlawumbi, ngethamsanqa, asifi kwaye kungekudala okanye emva koko siya kuthabatha kwilizwe elithile. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ngenxa yokugula, ngenxa yengozi okanye ezinye izizathu, umntu osondeleyo kunye osondeleyo, indoda, amaqabunga. Indlela yokuphila emva kokufa komyeni wakhe nokuba ingaba nako ukuhlangabezana nale ntlupheko, iya kuxelwa kule nqaku.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo malunga nendlela yokuphila emva kokufa komyeni wakhe
Abafazi baya kutshatyalaliswa kamva okanye bakufumene into yokuba ngamnye wethu ulinganiswa ngethuba lakhe kunye nokufa akupheli. Unokulwa nentloko yakho eludongeni, ukhale kwaye ude, kodwa akusikho amandla ethu ukutshintsha oku. Kuya kufuneka siphila ngoku, kodwa asifanele sizivimbele ukuba sibuhlungu kwaye sibuhlungu. Ngokuchasene noko, intlungu kufuneka iphume ngendlela yezinyembezi nokulila. Emva kokufumana zonke iintlungu zokulahleka, unokukwazi ukumvumela ukuba ahambe aze aqale ukwakha ubomi obutsha. Mhlawumbi, ukusabela kokuqala kuya kuba kukuzihlukanisa nehlabathi elijikelezile, ukuba sihoxise ngaphakathi kwethu kwaye siyeke ukunqwenela nantoni na. Le ndlela yindlela engafanelekanga, ikhokelela kuphela ekuhlazeleni komntu kunye nokubhujiswa kwehlabathi elingaphakathi.
Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuphila ngakumbi emva kokufa komyeni wakho othandekayo, ungayikhohlwa ngoonyana, kuba banomama kuphela obafunayo kunanini ngaphambili. Kungcono ukuba ungazifihli, uqhubeke uxoxisana nabantu, uye emsebenzini, ubaleke kwiingcamango ezinzulu. Ukuba ufuna ukuthetha ngaphandle - kukufanele. Omnye uncedwa ngumthandazo kunye nobudlelwane kunye nommvumeli.
Akuyimfuneko ukucinga ukuba umthandayo uye wangena ekugqibeleni - usondele, kwaye unokuhlala ukhuluma naye, umthandazele. Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuphila ngakumbi emva kokufa ngokukhawuleza kwendoda yakhe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ngokuhamba kwexesha, ukubandezeleka kunye neenkumbulo kuya kuba yintlungu epholileyo kwaye ecocekileyo, kodwa oku kufuneka ukuba kulindeleke.
Unokufumana abo banzima kakhulu, kwaye bancede abantu abanjalo. Le yindlela ephela yokuhlala ngaphandle komyeni emva kokufa kwakhe, kwaye yintoni enye, kuba kuphela ngokubanceda abanye, sikhohlwa ngeengxaki zethu, sibafudukela kwimvelaphi.