Imiqondiso endala igubungele isibuko nge-halo engummangaliso: amandla angathathwa, kwaye ubuhle kunye nabafileyo basenokungena kwihlabathi lethu (akusiyo into yokuba isibuko sihlala sixhomeke kwindlu apho umfelwa esanda kuxoshwa), kwaye i-betrothed iya kuboniswa. Kodwa kulo lonke uluhlu kuya kuba nomnye, osibangalisa. Xa ngokukhawuleza iphula ngokungalindelekanga.
Ukuba isibuko siphukile - oku kubi. Ithembisa iminyaka eyisixhenxe elukhuni, eya kuzaliseka. "Iminyaka eyisixhenxe yentlekele" - ngokuqinisekileyo uvile isigqibo esinjalo. Yiba njengoko kunjalo, nangona singenakunyamekela kwienkolelo, ukuzicwangcisa ngokwexesha leminyaka eyisixhenxe yokuhluleka kulula kunanini ngaphambili.
Yintoni endiyenzayo?
Okokuqala, qinisa. Ukuba ucinga malunga noko abantu bathetha ntoni, uyaqonda ukuba abaninzi babo basekelwe ekungazini. Xa ihlabathi libonakala ngathi liyimfihlakalo epheleleyo, abantu bavame ukwenza izinto kunye neengxaki zamandla. Nangona kunjalo, ngezibuko, kunye nenyaniso, kufuneka uqaphele. Ngoko, ukuba uyaphule isibuko:
- nangayiphi na imeko abajongi kwiingxube. Nangona isibuko esiqhekekileyo, ngokweengcamango, sinokuhlukanisa isigxina sakho kwaye sikhuphe ezinye zamandla;
- bayibophe ngobumnene i-shards kwidikiki uze ubaphosele emlanjeni okanye kumfudlana. Kubalulekile ukuba ungabathinteli ngezandla zakho, ubeke iiglavu;
- Unokupenda iinqununu ngopende olumnyama (i-nail polish) kwaye uzibeke ixesha elithile emanzini;
- Emva kokukrazula isibuko esibulekileyo, qiniseka ukuba umomotheka kwi-mirror yakho yonke.
Ngendlela, ukuba uyaphule iglasi, ungayixhuma kunye nesibonakaliso sesibuko esaphukileyo. Khumbula into engcono enye, malunga nezitya (ezinokuba yiglasi) - inenhlanhla!
Esinye "imiramo" iinkolelo
Masifunde ukuba yintoni enye imimiselo ekhethekileyo yabasetyhini edibaniswe nesibuko phakathi kwabantu:
- I-omen kakhulu yamandulo ayimvume ukujonga kwisibuko kubhinqa abakhulelweyo. Ngethuba leenyanga, ukuzincoma kwacetyiswa kwakhona ukuba kunqunywe;
- Ungakhangeli kwamehlo akho ixesha elide - unokuqala ubudala;
- ukhetha indawo apho ukuxhoma isibuko, khumbula ukuba ubukrini bombilini akufanele kubonakalise ukuhlamba (kwindawo yokuhlambela) okanye abantu abalele. Oku kunokukhokelela ekuguleni okanye ekukholweni ;
- i-sotsseti namhlanje izele iifoto zabangani abaye bathabatha ingcamango yabo kwisibuko esisodwa. Okwangoku, oogogo babekholelwa ukuba ngexesha elifanayo bajonga abahlobo kwisibuko akudingekile - unokuxabana nomyeni;
- uphawu lwekhaya oluhambelana nesibuko - ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuhlamba. Emva koko, isibuko sigcina ulwazi;
- ukhetha isibuko, zama ukuthenga enye iya kuba kwisakhelo - oku kukuthintela ingxakeko yenkalo yamandla ;
- ngamaxesha onke, jonga izibuko;
- Ukulahleka kwesibuko kufuneka kuthathwe njengesibonakaliso, isilumkiso sokulahlekelwa okukhulu. Qaphela, jonga izinto zakho;
- kungakhathaliseki ukuba lukhulu kangakanani isilingo somtshakazi esizayo ukuba agqoke isambatho esipheleleyo aze azibuke kwisibuko-oku akufanele kwenziwe. Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, ungazami kwiinkcukacha ze-wardrobe;
- ukunika isibuko ayamkelekanga, kuthathwa njengento engcono. Ukuba unikwe isipho esinjalo, susula isibuko sendawo ngendwangu ehambelana namanzi angcwele.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba izibuko azigcinanga ulwazi ngokukhetha. Zibamba zombini ububi kunye novuyo olukhulu. Ngako oko, zama ukunyamezela ngokuphindaphindiweyo xa ucinga kwaye unganqikazi ukumxelela ukuba "Ndiyakuthanda!".