Ukutshintshwa ezininzi kweengxabano kwiphupha kubonisa ukuba kungekudala umntu angagula. Nceda uqaphele ukuba ukuba kukho isigama esingaqhelekanga kwiphupha, oku kwandisa kakhulu ingozi yesifo. Ukuba uphupha ukuba uhlwayelwa, ufuzisela ukuhamba okukhulu kokungabikho komthetho kwinqanaba lakho, kodwa zonke izinto ezimbi ziza kuphinda zibuyele ngokuzithandela. Xa ubukele ukusetyenziswa kakubi kwabantu abangaziwa, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kuya kuba neengxaki ezintsha ezingayi kukukhathalela. Umele uzame nje ukuba ungagqithisi ukungabikho komsebenzi kunye nokudandatheka. Ukufungela ephupheni kuthetha ukuba umntu unokuphumelela impumelelo enkulu, kwaye lowo umgxekayo ephupheni uya kufumana ingxaki enkulu.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukuxoxisana nomyeni wakhe?
Iimvumba kunye nomlingane okanye ezinye izalamane zihlala zibonisa ukuba ulindele iingxaki zemali, kwaye iimeko ziya kuphelelwa. Ukugqithisa ukuxabana kwiphupha - uphawu lolonwabe, uvuyo kunye nempumelelo, mhlawumbi ngokukhawuleza uza kukhuthazwa emsebenzini okanye unikezele intsebenziswano kwiimeko ezilungileyo. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba abo banomdla kumbuzo wento yokuphupha malunga nokufunga kufanele bazi - umbala weemvakalelo wephupha kubaluleke kakhulu kule meko.
Iphupha, apho uxabana nomama wakho, ubonisa indlela yokujongana neengxaki kunye nezilingo oza kufuneka unqobe ngazo. Kwakhona, iphupha elinjalo lichazwa njengotyalo-mali olubi kunye nokusetyenziswa kakubi kwemikhosi yomntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kufanekisela umnqweno kumama kunye nesidingo seengcebiso kuye. Mhlawumbi unomzabalazo oza kusombulula ngokukhawuleza. Ukufunga ephupheni nomhlobo uthi malunga neengxaki zentsapho, ingakumbi kubafazi abatshatileyo. Kwaye kukho ukuphakama okuphezulu ukuba akunakukwazi ukulungisa le ngxabano.
Ukufunga ephupheni kunye nodade wakhe kufanekisela intlanganiso enhle, eya ku khunjulwa ixesha elide.
Xa umntu ebona iphupha, apho ephikisana nentanda yakhe, oku kuthetha ukuba ebomini bakhe kukho into emkhathazayo kakhulu, kaninzi kunye nezihlobo okanye izalamane. Kungaba ngumqondiso wokubonakalisa kwisisombululo somcimbi othile onzima. Umntu akakwazi ukwenza isigqibo aze ahlale ecinga ngako. Mhlawumbi, ngokukhawuleza uya kulindela ukulahlekelwa, kodwa ungakhathazeki, ngokuqhelekileyo kuyisilumkiso, oko kuthetha ukuba iimeko ziyakunqandwa kwaye zixazululwe ngaphambi kokuba kuvele umonakalo omkhulu.