Umbingeleli ungumqeqeshi endleleni efanelekileyo, isithunywa seMandla aPhakamileyo, njl. Amaphupha awabonakala ngayo, unxibelelwano kunye nehlabathi elingokomoya kwaye kaninzi usebenza njengesilumkiso sokuba kufanelekile ukuthatha indlela efanelekileyo, ngaphandle koko kulungele ukulinda isijeziso. Ukuze ufumane ingcaciso ecacileyo, kukufanelekile ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha.
Uphupha ntoni umbingeleli?
Iphupha elinjalo lingathembisa isifo. Ukuba uye waya kwinkonzo, kuyafaneleka ukulungiselela ixesha elinzima ebomini. Xa uvuma kwiphupha, ngoko kwixesha elizayo ngenxa yezenzo ezigqibeleleyo ziya kuba namava abasondeleyo. Inokuthi ibe yintambo yokuthotywa kunye nokuqala kwimeko enzima. Intsikelelo yephupha malunga nombingeleli incike ekubeni udibana naye okanye cha. Iphupha apho wabona umbingeleli, kodwa akazange adibanise naye, ngumngqongqo wenyaniso yokuba ngokwenene kuya kufuneka uthobele abanye abantu, ukubeka bucala uluvo lwakho. Ukuba uthe usathetha naye, ngekamva kufuneka silindele ukudumisa.
Umbono ebusuku, apho umbingeleli wayebuhlungu ngayo, isilumkiso malunga neengxaki. Ukubona umbingeleli ephupheni ofunda umthandazo , ke lixesha lokubona zonke izono ezenzileyo. Ukuba ungumfundisi, lo luphawu lokuba nomsebenzi onikwe yona, ukunceda abanye abantu. Xa kukho umtshato ephupheni kunye nomthandayo, ngoko ubomi bakho bentsapho buya kuvuyisa kwaye bude.
Iphupha oye lafumana intsikelelo yombingeleli uthembisa inkxaso yomntu onamandla okanye ukuhamba inhlanhla kuzo zonke izinto. Ngeli xesha kulungele ukuyeka konke ukungathandabuzeki kwaye uqale ukusebenza. Kubafazi, iphupha apho athanda khona umbingeleli, uqikelela ukukhohlisa kwintetho yomntu othandekayo. Ukuba umbingeleli ubonisa uvelwano, ngoko, ngokwenene, intombi ingenza isenzo, ngenxa yokuba uya kugwetywa ngabanye abantu.
Kutheni uphupha isambatho sombingeleli?
Ukuba isambatho sombingeleli sasingumgangatho oqhelekileyo, umzekelo, wegolide okanye omnye umbala ongaqhelekanga - lo isimboli esihle esithembisa iziganeko ezivuya. Iphupha apho umbingeleli ebonakala khona kumnyama omnyama kwaye zonke iimpawu zixwayisa ukuba kungekudala imeko iya kuba yingozi kwintsapho yonke. Ukuba wayenxibe iimpahla eziqhelekileyo, ufanele ulindele iimeko ezivuyayo. Ingubo yomnquba omnyama isilumkiso sokuba awudingi ukuzenza izithixo.