Ukuqala komnye umhla wokujikeleza kuminyaka yomntu ngamnye "unokumnika" umntu ohlala naye ongeyonwabileyo, kwaye ubiza inkathazo yobudala. Ngaphezu koko, kulo lonke ixesha lokuphila kwabo kunokubaninzi.
Inkathazo yobudala yobuntu
Uphawu oluphambili lwaluphi na ingxaki yolu hlobo lushintsho lwengqondo. Izizathu eziphambili ozifumanayo ziinguqu kwiimeko zoluntu oqhele ukuhlangana ngazo zonke iintsuku. Ukongezelela, kuvela xa wena, ngaphandle kokungazi, uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uhlaziywe.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, isisiseko senkqubela yeenkxalabo ezinxulumene neminyaka ebomini bomntu kukuxilongwa kwengqondo (into enqwenelayo ayiyi kuphunyezwa ngenxa yokungabikho kwamathuba adingekayo oku).
Into emangalisayo kukuba ukuba ibhinqa lisebenza kwizinto eziqhelekileyo zamadoda (ishishini, imibandela yezopolitiko), inkqubo yeminyaka yobudala iya kuba yinto efana neyabantu. Ngendlela, ezi zilandelayo ziphawu:
- ukuhlaziywa kwexabiso elixabisekileyo;
- utshintsho rhoqo kwi-career kunye nobomi.
Ubunzima obudala kubafazi
- Nge-20, okanye mhlawumbi kwiminyaka emibini ngaphambili, ubhekane neengxaki ezinxulumene ngqo nokuguquka komntu ekukhuleni. Ngenxa yoko, ngomzuzwana ubunzima obuninzi bubekwe kuye: ukukhangela umsebenzi ohlukeneyo nabazali bezindlu akukhatywanga kunye nokukhangela umyeni onokwenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba okulungileyo kulo xesha lobomi kukuba le nkathazo iyakunyamezela ngenyameko, kuba umphefumlo omncinci ugcwele amaphupha, ukugwenxa, kunye namaxesha amancinci.
- Inkathazo yeminyaka engama-30 kwabasetyhini ibonakaliswe kukuba iziphumo zokuqala zishwankathelwe. Njengeminyaka eyi-10 edlulileyo, akusoloko kubonakala kuwe ukuba uya kuphumelela, ubomi obusasa phambili, njl. Nangona kunjalo, kunokungaqhelekanga, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphila ubomi bakho bephupha okanye cha, awuyi kuvuyela iziphumo.
- Iminyaka engama-40 yintlupheko yobudala obude, ngamanye amaxesha izisa iziganeko ezidandathelweyo rhoqo. Ngokungafani namadoda, ubulili obufanelekileyo bubuhlungu kakhulu kuye, ngenxa yokuba ubudlelwane nabantu abasondeleyo babandezeleka. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo kubafazi ibonakala. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ngaphambi kokuba le minyaka ibhinqa linike amandla onke ekwakheni umsebenzi, xa uneminyaka engama-40, bambalwa abantu abakwazi ukuziqhayisa ngeentsapho ezonwabileyo.
- Xa uneminyaka engama-50, abaninzi banokuphumelela ukuzinza kwengqondo, kodwa bafumana iingcamango zokusondela ekuguga. Iingcali zengqondo zicebisa kule ngxaki ukuba zenzele ngokwazo iimeko ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ngeli xesha ungenalo inhlanhla ebomini bakho, akufanele ubeke isiphambano phezu kwayo.
Ubudala beminyaka emadodeni
- Inkxalabo yeminyaka engama-21-23 idibaniswe neenjongo zobomi, ezingasoloko zifaniswa namathuba atholakalayo. Ukongezelela, le nkwenkwe ifuna ukuzibonakalisa yena kunye nabanye ukuba uyindoda eyaneleyo.
- Iminyaka engama-28 ukuya kwe-30-ixesha lokutshintshwa kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo lokuphila. Le ndoda iyaqonda ukuba yonke into ayiphupha malunga neminyaka eyi-10 edlulileyo ayinakuphumelela. Akuphelelwanga ukuba ukhangele ukuxhaswa ngesondo kwicala ukwenzela ukuzisa ulwahlulo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla.
- Iiminyaka ezingama-38-40 zizisa ukuqonda kwindoda enengcamango embi malunga nokuguga. Indoda ifuna ukuhlala ixakeke ngezinto ezithandayo. Kwakhona kukho ukungaphumeleli kwe-hormonal edibene ne testosterone. Oku kunokubangela iingxaki ebomini obusondeleyo bentsapho yakhe. Ngeli xesha, amadoda, ngaphezu kwanini ngaphambili, adinga iingcebiso zalabo abathanda abafazi babo.