Kwilizwe lethu, ingxaki yokuzibulala inzima kakhulu. Ehlabathini, ngemizuzu emibini umntu othile uzama ukuzama ukuzibulala, kwaye ngemizuzwana engama-20 umntu ufezekisa injongo yakhe ephazamisayo. Abantu abayi-1,100,000 ngonyaka bafa ngokuthe ngqo ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukuhlala baze bazibeke izandla. Kuyinto engaqhelekanga, kodwa inani labantu abaye bafa ngokuzibulala lingaphezu kwenani elibulewe kwiimfazwe. Nangona yonke imisebenzi yentlalo ekuthintela ukuzibulala, de kube kuncinci ukunciphisa kwezi zikhombisi.
Izizathu zokuzibulala
Ngokwezibalo zelizwe ezisemthethweni, izizathu zokuzibulala zibandakanya izinto ezili-800 ezihlukeneyo. Ukubiza umninzi kunabo, sifumana amanani alandelayo:
- 41% - isizathu esingaziwa;
- 19% - ukuzibulala kuye kwafa ngenxa yokwesaba isijeziso;
- I-18% - abantu abazibulalayo abagula ngengqondo;
- 18% - abantu abaye bazibulala kwilizwe lomhlaba;
- 6% - abantu abazibulala ngenxa yazo zonke iintlobo zeentlonipho;
- 3% - abantu abangenakukwazi ukusinda ekulahlekelweni kwemali okanye impahla;
- 1.4% ngabantu abondliwa ubomi;
- 1,2% - abantu abafunde ngesifo esibalulekileyo (ingculazi, umhlaza).
Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu ababaziyo ukuba kutheni bathetha ukushiya ubomi babo, kungenxa yoko ukuba inxalenye enkulu yezizathu zihlala zingabonakalwanga.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuba i-80% yokuzibulala ihamba phambili ngenye indlela okanye inika abanye ukuba bayayiqonda injongo yabo, nangona kwindlela efihliweyo. Kodwa i-20% yabantu bayishiya ubomi ngokukhawuleza. Okuthakazelisayo kukuba, ama-80% abantu abazibulala bazama ukuzibulala.
Uthando nokuzibulala
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuthambekela kokuzibulala kunokudibaniswa ngokungathandabuzekiyo nothando olungathandekiyo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo ngokwenene. Kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zeminyaka, izimbangela ziyahluka kakhulu. Umzekelo, ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-16 engabonakaliyo uthando bayenza malunga nesiqingatha sazo zonke izizathu zokuzibulala, ngoko abantu abangaphezu kwe-25 kwesi sizathu sinye.
Kusemncinci, xa abantwana bephupha ngothando, kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokungaqhubeki phambili. Ingakumbi oku kusebenza kulabo bafana kunye namantombazana abo ukuzibulala kubonakala njengenye yeendlela zokubonisa into kubazali, ngabahlobo okanye into enothando.
Ngesizathu esithile, xa useneminyaka engama-10 ubudala, uvakalelo lokuqala lwabafikisayo lubonwa nje kuphela, kwaye ungayithobeli ingqalelo yokuba kwiimeko ezininzi uthando lokuqala luphelelwa yimpumelelo. Kule nto, abantu abaselula kunye namantombazana baqala ukukholelwa ukuba kwixesha elizayo balindele ukuhlupheka, nangona enyanisweni, uthando lokuqala lulibalekile ngokukhawuleza: ludla ngokuqhubeka ngexesha le sikolo, kunye nobuninzi beziganeko ezilandelayo, ezifana nemfundo ephezulu kunye nokukhangela umsebenzi, ukuhluleka kwangaphambili.
Ngubani ozimisele ukuzibulala?
Ingozi yokuzibulala ngokuyinhloko ibonakala kulabo baqhuba utshintsho ekulahlekelweni kwabo bangaphambili kwiimeko zentlalo okanye kwiimeko zokuphila, njl njl. Inani eliphezulu lokuzibulala lafunyanwa kumaqela alandelayo:
- magosa a
- majoni a selula;
- babanjwa;
- abahlala phantsi
- izilwanyana;
- abantu abakhubazekileyo;
- ugula ngengqondo;
- izidakwa ezingapheliyo (ngendlela, abadakwala bathetha malunga nesithathu kubo bonke abantu abazibulala).
Kubonakala ukuba ezi ntlobo zabantu zicinga ukuba emva kokuzibulala ziya kuba ngcono kunezo meko apho zikhoyo ngoku. Ukongeza, isimo somntu sibalulekile: isatshati kwaye isatshatile ayifuni ukuzibulala, engenakutsholwa ngalabo abasinda ekulahlekelweni kweqabane okanye abangazange bahlangane naye.
Ukongezelela, xa kuthelekiswa ukufana phakathi kwinqanaba lemfundo kunye nenqanaba lokuzibulala, kwacaca ukuba abo bafunde eyunivesithi babengenakwenzeka ukuba bazibulale. Kodwa abo banemfundo yesikolo kuphela engaphelelwanga, banomdla omkhulu kwizenzo zokuzilimaza.