Kukho iingongoma ezibini ezibalulekileyo: ngokutsho komnye wabo, umntu wakha ikusasa lakhe, ngokutsho kwesinye - zonke iziganeko zichongiwe. Kukho okwesithathu, okuphakathi: iziganeko ezithile zichazwe ngaphambili, kodwa indlela umntu angayi kufumana ngayo ayiyi kukhankanywa ngaphambili. Umbuzo wokuba unako ukutshintsha isigqibo, uluntu luxhalabele ngeenkulungwane ezininzi.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha isigwebo somntu?
Imizekelo yenyaniso yokuba unokutshintsha isithuba, ngaphezu koko, nangaliphi na ubudala, unokufumana ezininzi. Ngokomzekelo, phakathi kwezinto ezidumiweyo zabantu abadumileyo abazalwa ebuhlwemputheni, kwaye bahlala behlwempuzekileyo kwaye bengazi - kodwa bona, ngaphandle kokufumana, banokufumana ngokukhawuleza ishishini labo apho baphumelela khona.
Umzekelo olula kukuba wonke umntu uyaqiniseka ukuba abantu abakhule kwimimfesane kunye neentsapho ezizinzileyo abanakufumana umsebenzi ebomini. UNorma uJean, naye u-Marilyn Monroe, unobuntwana obunjalo, kwaye waqala ngomsebenzi njengomgcini we-waitress. Kodwa kwixesha elizayo waba yinkwenkwezi enkulu ye-movie kunye nenjongo yokuxelisa izizukulwana ezininzi zabasetyhini. Ukuba ukhangele kwiifoto zakhe zakuqala, wayengenayo imbonakalo engenakwenzeka, kodwa oko akuzange kumyeke.
Okomnye, umzekelo, uSanders, umkhosi wasemhlala-phantsi osemhlala-phantsi, umhlala-phantsi oneminyaka engama-65 ubudala ophethe i-carpim-up and one recipe yenkukhu. Wayenokuhlala kwimhlala-phantsi, kodwa wakhetha indlela eyahlukileyo, kwaye, emva kokufumana okungaphezu kwe-1 000 ukwenqaba kwabaphathi bezonka zokudlela, wayesathengisa iresiphi yakhe. Kwaye kukho impumelelo engaphezulu, kwaye kungekudala waba ngumgidi-mali. Ngoku iimveliso zayo zidibene nenethiwekhi yeKFC.
Le mizekelo ibonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba utshintshe ikusasa, kuyimfuneko kuphela ukuba wenze imizamo.
Ungayitshintsha njani i-destin ibe ngcono?
Ngoko, ngokulandela imizekelo yamagorha ethu, abazange bahlale kwaye babengalindelanga inhlanhla, kodwa basebenza kwaye benza, kungakhathaliseki nantoni na. Ukuqhubela phambili kulo, umntu unokucinga
- Beka iinjongo kuwe. Kumele ibe yikhonkrithi, iyalinganiswa kwaye ifumaneke.
- Cinga ngawaphi amanyathelo okufuneka uyithathe kule njongo , kwaye bhetele - ubhale phantsi.
- Cinga ngezinto onokuyenza ngoku ngoku?
- Qala ukwenza.
- Musa ukuyeka, nokuba izinto azizange zenyuka kwenyuka.
Awukwazi ukutshintsha i-destiny xa unesithakazelo, okanye emva kokungaphumeleli kokuqala, shiya izandla zakho. Into ephambili ukuphikelela nokuzama phambili. Kule meko, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufezekisa injongo yakho kwaye utshintshe i-destiny yakho.