Ngubani ongenzekanga loo nto xa usondele malunga nomgomo kwaye-kwakhona! - yonke into iyaphula. "Njengaphantsi komthetho wobuthathaka!" - sizithuthuzela thina kwaye sizame ukuqonda oko kwenzekayo.
Umthetho wentsholongwane kwaye ngokubanzi, uvela phi - akunazi abaninzi. Ewe, ngubani okhathalelayo-funda.
Umlenze ukhula phi?
Iingqinisiso, malunga nomlando wokuvela komthetho, kukho inamba eninzi. Uninzi lwabaphandi banombono wokuthi ukufumanisa kwakhe kuwela ngexesha lama-Achilles. Isiqhelo esaziwayo "i-Achilles" isithende ", eqinisweni, sizathu sokufumanisa le ngqungquthela. Yonke into ephosakeleyo ibali lomfana osemncinci ongenakunqandeka, othe uhlangothi lwakhe olubuthakathaka luyintendeni yakhe. Ngomthetho wobunzima ukuba itolo ngexesha lokulwa elilandelayo lihlaba i-Achilles. Eli li bali.
Umthetho wokunyaniseka ubonisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi komnqweno womntu kunye nehleko elibi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba imozulu kunye nendawo, umthetho usebenza yonke indawo kwaye ukhula ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, akufanele uthuthuke.
Iziganeko ezingezehla
Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda ukunyamekela "imiqondiso" evela phezulu. Mhlawumbi akufanele uhambe kwindawo ethile, udibana nomntu kwaye ngenxa yeso sizathu oye ukhetha ayifaki. Bashiya indlu kuphela, baqhekeza izithende zabo, babuya, batshintsha izicathulo zabo, kodwa ukuhamba kwesokunxele, njengoko besithi, bephuma ngaphantsi kwempumlo. Nantsi into ephambili kukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle kwaye ukwazi ukuthobela iimeko. Yonke into eyenziwe - ngokubhetele, ke, ngaphezu kwempumlo!
Kukho iziganeko ezininzi ezingenangqiqo kunye neengcikivo apho umthetho wokubaluleka ungabonakaliswa. Ndicetyisa ukunyusa ubomi kunye nokuhleka okuncinane. Kule ngongoma kufuneka umntu afikelele kwiintsilelo ezincinci.
- yonke ishishini kufuna ixesha elingakumbi kunokuba ucebise;
- Iinto ezinokuthi zifike ebusuku;
- Ukuqhaqha ngokuqhelekileyo kuvame ukuhambela ubusuku boMgqibelo;
- ilahlekile ihlala ifunyanwa xa into ongayidingiyo;
- i sandwich iya kuwela ngeoli;
- ukuba imali yokugqibela isetyenzisiweyo ngosuku lomvuzo ngosuku lomvuzo, ngoko ke umvuzo uya kubanjwa ngokuqinisekileyo;
- xa uqhuba umqhubi wendlela, umgca osondelene nawo usoloko uhamba ngokukhawuleza. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukho nxu lumano;
- Geza imoto njengoko iya kuvula.
Imimiselo efana nayo yokunyaniseka kwemithetho kufuneka ibangele ukumomotheka kunye kuphela. Kutheni uxhalabele kwaye uchithe iingxaki zakho, ukuba imeko sele ivele. Ukumangaliswa kukungazi, ukuphefumula ngokupheleleyo kwaye uqhubeke.
Musa ukuphula imali
Indalo ihlala kwimithetho yayo. Oku kungavakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa sithumela nayiphi na umnqweno kuqala kuye. Kwaye xa sifuna into ethile, amandla ethu enqweno inkulu kangangokuba ihlabathi liqala ukwethuka. Njengoko nayiphi na inkqubo, kukho ibhalansi ethile kwindawo yonke. Ukuze ulungelelanise umnqweno kwaye ugcine lo mlinganiso, kufuneka enze ukuchasana. Khawucinge ngesikali, zombini izindebe ezimele zihlale kwinqanaba elinye. Ngenye indebe - umnqweno wakho, kwenye - yonke into evimbela ukubulawa kwayo. Unamandla ngakumbi umnqweno
Musa ukuphula i-balance kunye ne-insanity yakho. Ungagxininisi iingxaki kwaye ungagxininisi kwiimfuno zakho. Thumela iimpawu kwindawo yonke kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukhulule imeko. Njengoko enye inhlakanipho yathi, iphela indalo ininzi, yaneleyo yonke.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwakunjani, nayiphi na into engeyiyo ilahlekelwa yimandla phambi kokuzithemba kunye nesimo esihle sengqondo ebomini. Ukungaphumeleli kuphazamisa ababuthathaka kwaye "kunzima" omeleleyo. Ukuphuhlisa kwiimpawu ezinamandla ezinqwenelekayo kwaye musa ukuthethelela ukungaphumeleli kwakho ngesenzo esisoloko senziwa ngumthetho wentsingiselo.