Kwimimandla yanamhlanje, umzalwana nodade abatshati, mhlawumbi umzala womzala unokugwetywa, kunokuba avunywe. Uthando lothando phakathi kobawo nentombi okanye unina kunye nonyana luqhina lobugebengu kunye nesono. Nangona kunjalo isihloko sobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nobudlelwane obuqhelekileyo lufanelekileyo.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuthandana?
Ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi inzala, kufuneka uguqulele kwi-etymology yegama. Eli gama livela kwi-Latin word incestus, oku kuthetha "isono, isenzo sobugebengu". Kwaye ukutshatyalaliswa kobudlelwane bezesondo phakathi kwezihlobo ezisondeleyo:
- abazali kunye nabantwana;
- ba zalwana noodade;
- oomalume / oomama kunye namantombazane / nabantwana.
Okokuthi, ukulalana nomtshato kubudlelwane bezesondo phakathi kwezihlobo, ezona zesono kunye nezobugebengu. Enyanisweni, itaboo kwi-incest iyinto yonke jikelele malunga nayo yonke indawo. Nangona kunjalo, umxholo wobuhlobo kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo ungahluka:
- ETaiwan, eChina, eMntla naseMzantsi Korea, imitshato phakathi kozala kunye noodade akuvumelekile.
- E-UK, umnqweno wamatholamane ukugqiba inyunyana yentsapho ayiyi kuhlangabezana neengxaki.
- AmaKazakh anomthetho owenqabela ukuthetha kunye nezihlobo ukuya kwisizwe sesixhenxe.
Ukungenayo - ingqondo
Kwiingcamango zengqondo ye-psychoanalysis, ukuphuhliswa ngokwesondo ngoonobantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ukuya kweyintlanu ibonakaliswa yiminqweno ebangelwa ngabazali besini esahlukileyo. USigmund Freud wanikela ezi zintsingiselo zengqondo zengqondo kwiingxaki zamandulo zamaGrike:
- Oedipus complex . Amakhwenkwe amancinci athatyathwa ngokwesini kunye noomama, abo bawabonayo njengabaphikisanayo, ubundlobongela. Ngokuqulunqwe kwengqondo ngokuqhelekileyo kobuntu, ukwesaba ukuphindiselelwa nguyise, othabatha uhlobo lokuxhalabisa, kubangela ukuba inkwenkwe ilahle iminqweno engavumelekanga.
- Electray Complex . Amantombazana asebancinci ayamtsala uyise, kwaye umama ubonwa njengengozi.
Izizathu zokubambisana
Enyanisweni eyenza abafazi baxhamle kunye nabayeni, abaninzi abanengqondo bezama ukuqonda. Bafunda iimbali zenkcubeko, inkcubeko, ukuziphatha kunye nezofuzo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwamaxesha kumaxesha amandulo kwakungekho njongo. Kwaye kwiYiputa yamandulo, ama -harahara axhumene kuphela noomama, odade kunye neentombi zokugcina "ubunyulu bentsapho."
Abantu abaninzi abadumileyo babenemitshato ehlobene:
- Umqambi uJohan Sebastian uBach wayetshata nomzala wakhe uMaria Barbara Bach.
- Umbhali wenkolelo eqhelekileyo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo uCharles Darwin watshata nomzala wakhe uEma Wedgwood.
- Umbhali uEdgar Allan Poe wathatha umzala wakhe oneminyaka engama-13 ubudala-uVirginia Klemm-kumkakhe.
Nangona kunjalo imbangela ebalulekileyo yentsholongwane yenzalo yenzalo yokuphazanyiswa ethile kwi-psyche kunye nophuhliso loluntu. Ukukhubazeka okuphuhlisayo akusinakusindisa abantwana kwi-Oedipus kunye ne -Electra complex . Nangona kaninzi abantwana baxhatshazwa ngobudlova ngabazali babo:
- Indoda inokungena ngesondo kunye nentombi yakhe xa umfazi exakeke kakhulu, unika ixesha elifutshane okanye zonke iinguqulelo, njengempindezelo. Umbuzo wukuthi, kutheni engaphumi nayo? Lapha kuza kudlala umdlalo ohlukeneyo wengqondo - umnqweno wokunqandula kwaye ungahlangabezane noxhathiso, okumane ukwanelise ngokudibana nomntwana.
- Umfazi usoloko eyika ukulahlekelwa yindodana yakhe, "mnike" omnye umfazi, owamqhubelayo ukuba abe nobudlelwane bezesondo naye. Kufana nendlela yokwenza ipropati.
Inzala yomtshato isenzeka ngenxa yokulinganisela okungalunganga kubuhlobo phakathi kwabazali, amalungu omndeni nabanye abantu. Ngokomzekelo, ukunqwenela koonyana baka-cousin komnye nomnye kuchazwa ngokwahlukana kwontanga ebuntwaneni kunye nokungafuni ukuvumela ukuba ubomi babo bube "into engafani".
Ezinye izazi zengqondo zihlukanisa izinto ezintathu ezibangela ukutshatyalaliswa komzimba:
- Ukungaphumeleli ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo.
- Umnqweno wokuphula izibambiso, eziye zihambelana ngokusondeleyo neengqondo.
- Umlenze wesondo. Ukudibanisa neengxaki zesini, ezifunyenwe ebusaneni.
Iintlobo zentsholongwane
Umtshato osenyongweni uhlala uhamba nobudlova, kodwa ukwahlula ukutshatyalaliswa komntu osenyongweni. Kukho ukutshata phakathi:
- abadala kunye nabantwana;
- phakathi kwabazalwana noodade;
- okazikazi / oomalume kunye nabantakwabo
Iyintoni ingozi yokutshata?
Enye yemisebenzi eyenzekayo yongxowankulu yenyango kukuba ukungavunyelwa kwintsholongwane kunokunciphisa iziganeko zokukhubazeka kokuzalwa kunye nokuphazamiseka komzimba. Kukwaziwa ngokubanzi ukuba abantwana abavela kwintsholongwane bangabalwa kakubi, bekhubazeke ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo . Ukusondela kweengxaki zegazi zabazali, iphakamileyo ithuba lokukhulelwa kwesisu, ukukhulelwa okuqhubekayo, okanye ukuzalwa komntwana ngobunobungakanani. Izifo zengqungquthela ze-Mutant ziyingozi kwizifo ezinzulu ezifana nalezi:
- isithulu;
- i-albinism;
- hemophilia;
- Isifo se-Thea-Sachs (idiocy yabantwana).
Iziphumo zentsholongwane
Ulwalamano olusenyongweni lwezihlobo eziseduze alisoloko lukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Kodwa isisongelo sezifo zentsapho kunye nezomzimba zanda ngokwenene. Ilungelo lokuhlangabeza iigulo ezigulane "ezigulayo" ezivela kubantu abangaziwayo azintle, ngokungafani nezihlobo eziseduze. Ngoko ke, ukutshatyalaliswa kwabantwana kungavunyelwa ngabagqirha.
Yintoni enxulumene nabantwana abaxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ngabazali babo? Ezi ziphumo:
- ukuxhomekeka kotywala kunye nezinye izinto eziguqula ingqalelo;
- ukuthambekela kokuzibulala;
- ukuphuhliswa kwama-phobias kunye nokudandatheka ekudala;
- ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo;
Kuthekani ukuba intsholongwane yenzeke?
Naluphi na ulwalamano olusenyongweni luyiphumo lobazali okanye umama ongenakunyamekela kumntwana wabo, isiphumo sokutshintsha kwiingcamango kunye nokuzihlukanisa. Ukungenwa kwemali kakubi, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kubundlobongela, kwaye zonke iingxaki ezibangela ukuba kunzima ukuzixazulula ngokwabo. Isiphumo sinobuqu bomntu siqu kunye neengxaki zokuzimisela emphakathini. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, uncedo lwe-psychotherapist lucetyiswa.
Ukungeniswa kweBhayibhile
Ngokwemiyalelo yobuKristu, nayiphi na into yokukrexeza kuyisono, kwaye isondo esithandanayo sisono sesithandane. Nangona ngokutsho kweBhayibhile, inzala yokuqala yokuqala emhlabeni yenziwa ngabantwana baka- Adam noEva . Kodwa ekubeni wayephoqelelwe, wayeyingcwele. Kukho elinye ibali elivela kwiZibhalo ezingcwele malunga nokuzalwa. Emva kokutshatyalaliswa kukaThixo kwisixeko esinesono saseSodom, uLote kunye neentombi zakhe ezimbini bahlangulwa. Bacinga ukuba bonke abantu bafa. Emva kokusela iwayini leyise, amantombazana adibana naye ngokuqhubeka kwentsapho.
Iifilimu malunga ne-incest
Ukungeniswa kweefilimu kuqhelekileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kuguqulwa, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - kungenangqondo nangokwemvakalelo. Ezinye iifilimu ezichaphazela isihloko sobudlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwezihlobo zegazi ngenye indlela:
- Iyeza livela kwimpilo . Ifilimu ivela kumlawuli wePirates of the Caribbean, iNtaba iVerbinsky. Waya kwikhenketho yehlabathi ngo-2017. Intshwankathelo ye-Mystic, ezenzeke kwi-sanatorium yaseSwitzerland phakathi kweendawo ezihle kakhulu, zihlala zidibanisa zonke iiyure ezimbini neziqingatha.
- Indlu apho bathi Ewe . Umqondisi waseMerika uMark Waters ucocekisile i-movie malunga nendawo apho kungcolileyo ukuba "cha." Igama libonisa ...
- Bliss . I-melodrama ye-Sensual evela eLance Young ixelela umdlalo wesondo othakazelisayo wabalinganiswa abakhulu.
- Oldboy . Umfanekiso oqhelekileyo waseMzantsi Korea ovela kwi-Pak Chang-po engekho ngaphantsi kweempawu kunye nomdlali womcuphi, umdlalo kunye nomculo othabisayo awuyi kushiya nabani na ongathandangayo.
- 2:37 . Idrama yomlawuli wase-Australia uMnuz K. Tallouri malunga nabaselula abathathu, iingxaki kunye nobudlelwane babo.