Ukuchongwa komntu womntu kwindlela yokujonga isingqo sengqondo kuyinkqubo ekhethekileyo ye-psychophysical, kwikhosi kunye nesiphumo salo sifundo okanye sidibene nabanye. Izenzo ezinjalo zingashukunyiswa yimfuneko yokukhuselwa kwengqondo .
Kutheni oku kwenzekayo?
Ekuqaleni, ukuqikelela okungazi kakuhle kufakwe ngumntu kwizame zokulinganisa nokufana, oku kuyindlela ebalulekileyo yengqondo yentlalo yophuhliso oluqhelekileyo ukususela ebuntwaneni. Oko kukuthi, ukuzibonela ngokwabo kunye nomnye (okanye abanye) kugcizelela ukufana nokuzaliswa kweempawu zento yokuxelisa.
Oku kwenzeka ntoni?
Ukuchonga ubuntu kwenzeka ngokuxhomekeka kokungazi.
Ukuchonga kukukhetha ukuphuhliswa okulula, kuthatha uxanduva olulodwa nje (incamango kukuba: "Ndenza ngale ndlela, kwaye oku kuchanekileyo kuba izibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo kum"). Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ithuba lokwenene lokuzikhethela ezizimeleyo (ngaphandle kokuhamba kunye nokuqhelaniswa) kwendlela yokuphuhliswa kubonakala, ukuchongwa komntu (ngokuchanekileyo, ukuzikhethela) kuqala ukuphazamisa ukuphuhliswa kobuntu.
Abaninzi bazama ukungena ekuzimele ngenxa yobomi babo bonke - bahlala bekhululekile, akufuneki bacinge kwaye bathathe isigqibo. Iimeko xa ukuzikhethela kukuchasene nophuhliso kuthiwa ukuxhatshazwa kobuntu, ngamanye amazwi, yintlukwano enzulu, yangaphakathi . Ingxaki enjalo inokubangela ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
Ubuntu, njengoko bekwahlukana ngamacandelo amabini, aphikisana nomnye.
Ngexesha elihle
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu akaqatshelwa ngabanye abantu, kodwa nangayiphi na iminyango okanye amabhizinisi aququzelelwe ngokwemigaqo-nkqubo, yokomoya okanye yemveliso (iinkonzo ezahlukeneyo, amaqela, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yamashishini shishini). Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ubuntu buya kuhlengahlengiswa okhethekileyo, kodwa umntu onyanzelekileyo unyanzelekile ukuba angazi. Ngaloo ndlela, kunokukho utshintsho ekubonakalisweni kolwazi lomntu (umzekelo, abazali bayinjini, kunye nonyana okanye intombi ngabagqirha okanye oogqirha bezobugcisa). Enyanisweni, le yinkqubo eqhelekileyo yomntu ngamnye. Ubuntu bubonakaliso bomntu ophuhlisiwe, into eyona nto kukuba umntu ngamnye akafumani mlingana onomgca.