Ukuvavanya ukugqiba iminyaka yobuchopho
1. Uthanda umzimba wakho?
A. Ukunyaniseka, ndinento enokuyenza nento (ndinokungafezeki ezininzi).
B. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuninzi.
V. Ewe, ndixolelanise nokusilela kwam.
2. Uthanda umsebenzi wakho?
A. Ndiyathanda into endiyenzayo.
B. Andiyithandi ukusebenza.
V. Akusoloko ikhona, kodwa kukho amaxesha apho uyithandayo (kwenzeka ngokungaqhelekanga).
3. Ukuba kukho okuthile kuvela kuwe :
A. Unesidima esiphezulu.
B. Uyamangaliswa kwaye uyonwabile.
V. Kule nto yinto ebonakalayo.
4. Ukuba ufuna ukucombulula ngokukhawuleza imbambano ebalulekileyo yoshishino, wena:
A. Uzama ukuzinyulula ngokwakho kwishedyuli eqinile.
B. Cela uncedo kwabanye okanye utshintshe uxanduva kwabanye abantu.
Umbuzo: Usibeka ngokukhawuleza isigqibo sakhe ukufikelela kwizigqibo ezichanekileyo kwaye uhlakulele amaqhinga athile ekuqhubekeni kwimeko.
5. Ufumana iindaba ezilungileyo kakhulu. Ngomzuzu wokuqala u:
A. Yenza ifom leyo kuwe akunandaba.
B. Awukwazi ukukholelwa.
B. Uvakalelwa kukuba uvuyo lukhulu.
6 . Ngaba usoloko uzibeka kakubi ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kokuphila?
A. Ngokuqhelekileyo.
B. Kwiimeko zonke zam iingxaki, imeko zezobomi, ngamanye amaxesha zijikeleze, zimele zigwebe, kodwa kungekhona mna.
V. Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka.
7. Xa ufumana umvuzo, wena:
A. Hamba ukuthenga.
B. Ukuphatha ngamatyala.
I-postpone kanye nxalenye yemali kwi-akhawunti, oyizalisa rhoqo ngenyanga.
8. Ukuba nesifo esingapheliyo, wena:
A. USami uzama ukwenza yonke into yokubuyiselwa.
B. Akukukhathazeki kakhulu, shiya yonke into.
B. Yiya koogqirha kunye nee-pharmacy.
9. Liliphi ibinzana elisondele kuwe?
A. Kuhle ukuba iphelile kakuhle.
B. Yamukela yonke into efana nayo.
B. Yonke into eyenziwe, ukuze ibe ngcono.
10. Ngaba unalo iphupha?
A. Ndikhetha ukwenza izicwangciso zobomi, kungabi ngendwendwe emafini.
B. Ewe, ndiyathanda ukuphupha.
† Akukho. Yonke into endiyiphuphayo sele isifikile.
Bala, yiziphi iimpendulo ozifumene ngaphezulu - A, B okanye B.
Iimpendulo ezingaphezulu A
Wena "usemtsha". Iingxaki kunye nokuzithemba, kunye nobukhulu bakho, akuvumeli ukuba ukhule kwaye ube ngumntu ozimeleyo. Xa ungasakhathazeki malunga noko abanye bacinga ngako ngawe, uya kukhululeka ngakumbi malunga nento eyenzekayo kuwe. Awuyi kukhishwa kwihlombe xa ufuna ukwenza isigqibo esibalulekileyo, kwaye ulahle umkhwa wokugxeka wonke umntu ojikeleze kuwe ngenxa yengxaki yakho.
Iimpendulo ezingaphezulu B
Wena "ungumntwana". Abantwana banzima kwihlabathi labantu abadala. Qonda izinto ezibalulekileyo, uthathe uxanduva, ufumane kwaye uhlawule iindleko-ezi zenzo ziya kuba ngumqondiso wobuntu abadala.
Iimpendulo ezingakumbi
Unomntu ozimeleyo, oqolileyo. Umntu omdala onako, ngexesha elifanelekileyo, "uquka" umntwana osemva okanye umntwana. Uyazi ukuba uphendule imibuzo ebalulekileyo, ujonge ubomi kwaye udale.
Ukuchazwa kweziphumo
"Umntwana othandekayo"
IMINYAKA YEZEMPILO - IMINYAKA-7-12
Ukuba umntu uyayigatya iimfuno kunye nemigangatho yomntwana osemtsha kunye nomntu omdala, ngoko intsingiselo yomntwana iya kuqalisa ngaphezu kweminye emibini. Kwizengqondo zabantu abanjalo kukho ixesha: abaphathi bePeter Pen syndrome. Umntwana ongaxhaswanga uPeter uPen akafuni ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimpilo yabantu abadala abadala. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uyinto ekhangayo "yintsana", kwelinye - i-monster egocentric, okholelwa ukuba ihlabathi kufuneka lijikeleze ngokuzithandayo. Umsebenzi, uxanduva, imfuneko yokufumana imali kunye nokulawula uqoqosho-konke oku kwenza uPeter Foam ukuba athwale, ukwesaba. Ubomi bamele bamlethele kuphela. "Intsana enomdla" ithanda imidlalo yekhompyutheni, ijoyina amaqela asePotterian aququzelela amaqela athathekayo, aya kwimibhiyozo yabalandeli befilimu ethi "INkosi yeeRings" kwaye izingela intambo kunye nabo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba lo mntwana omkhulu akahambisani ngokupheleleyo nomntu-umntu oneminyaka engama-30 okanye 40 ubudala unokuphazanyiswa yimbuyekezo eyingozi, ungenayo intsapho kwaye uphile ubomi kwi-nightclub okanye kwi-sofa phambi kweTV.
Umsebenzi
Uninzi lwePieters Peña lucinga ukufundisisa nokusebenza njengemisebenzi ebangelisayo. Ngoko ke, ngokuqhelekileyo ukuya ekolishi, ukufumana umsebenzi. "Lapha banzima - kwaye abaphathi abaqondi, kwaye oogxa baxhamla, ngoko batshintsha imisebenzi ngokuqhelekileyo," kusho isazi sezengqondo uSVETLANA DUBININ. Laba "bantwana" abanakuxanduva, banokuyithintela iphrojekthi, kuba "akukho phefumlelwe". Ekuqaleni komsebenzi womhla, abanalo ixesha lokusebenza, basebenza ngaphantsi komkhwa, bazame, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuba bahlale kwikhefu lokugula. Ekupheleni, akukho ndawo yokuhlala ixesha elide. Yonke loo mivuzo ikulungele ukuba abo bantu baqalise kwizixhobo ezintsha okanye imidlalo yevidiyo (ekungcoliseni iibhidi zesevisi).
Ubudlelwane nabathandekayo
"Abantwana abakhulu" baqonda abantu ngokubhekiselele ekuncedeni nasekufuneka. Omnye unokukwazi ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza imoto yakhe - ithetha ukuba ungumhlobo olungileyo, omnye ulungele nanoma yimuphi umzuzu ukwenza inkampani ukuya kwiklabhu - umhlobo omhle. Ubuhlobo bubandakanya uxanduva olulodwa, oluphi na uPeter Pan alukwazi ukumbona - ngenxa yoko, akanalo abahlobo bokwenene, kodwa kukhona abaqhelana nabo. Ubudlelwane kunye nabazali balo "mntwana omkhulu" badibanisa umsindo ngenxa yokuziphatha kunye nomnqweno wokulila kwisitya sakhe. Abazali, ngendlela, "uPeter Pen" ngesibindi ufumana imali ebomini bakhe. Akuncedi ngokubuyisela.
Indlela yokuthetha nabo?
Ubudlelwane "nomntwana omkhulu" bahlala bephelile. Yena, njengabo bonke abantwana, uhlala ecaphukisa, uzibiza ngokwakhe kwaye ufuna ukuba ihlabathi lijikeleze.
1. Ngomphathi . Abantu abanjalo, njengomthetho, abahlali kwizithuba eziphezulu. Kodwa, nokuba nomxholo ongenqanaba, banako ukuphazamisa amaqabane oogxa bakho. Ngokomzekelo, yizona zintle zengqungquthela kubaphathi babo, ngokusondelene "nomntwana" ofuna ukugcina amehlo akho evulekile. Ukuba akayithandi, unokuqokelela iqumrhu labasebenzi malunga nawe.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Kungcono ukuhlala kude nale "yindoda encane engcolileyo". Kuye kufuneka uxoxe ngomnene, laphula okanye uzenze ukumphulaphula. Kungcono ukuba ungathethi ngawe, okanye ngolunye usuku ungasetyenziswa ngokuchasene nawe.
Ngomfana oselula . Uyathandeka kwaye uyamthakazelisa, kodwa ukuba uyavuma ukuba ulindele ukuba wenze izinto ezinqwenelekayo kuye, unokwesaba. "Uphuhliso lwakhe lwengqondo lwahlala kwinqanaba lokuqala - kunzima ukuba aqonde oko umfazi efuna kuye. Uthando lwakhe uthando lomfana oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala. Kuye unokuzonwabisa, kwaye ungakheli ubuhlobo obude, "- uthi uSvetlana Dubinina. Ukuba ufuna ukudala intsapho kunye naye, gcinani engqondweni: uya kuba ngumntwana wesibini, emva koko ufuna amehlo kunye namehlo. Ngabantwana bakhe, "uPetros" unenkohlakalo, kuba ufika ukhuphiswano lo "Mama". Ubomi basemakhaya abukhiphi - kwaye awukwazi ukuphawula isikhonkwane.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Kubasetyhini, ufuna uthando lomama kunye nokunyamekela. Kodwa imfundo ngokukhawuleza ayenzi buhlungu - yena pokapriznichaet, kodwa uyathobela. Ngaphantsi kwefuthe le "mama" oqinileyo, unokufikelela kwiindawo eziphakamileyo.
Nomama . Umama-umntwana ubonakala engumntu ongenamacala, kodwa ngokwenene unokuphazamisa kakhulu inkambo yobomi bakho. Uya kuhlala efuna unonophelo. Ukususela kumzuzwana ukuya emsebenzini, uxanduva lwakho lwemali luya kuba ngumthwalo wakho ngokuthe ngqo. Ukuba wena nomyeni wakho bahlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo njengomama wakho, uya kunikwa umtshato. Emva koko, umama ukholelwa ukuba awukwazi ukuba ngowomntu ngaphandle kwakhe.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Okokuqala, qala ukuhlala ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye okwesibini, xa ekuphinda acele kwakhona imali, inkunkuma! Kwaye kungenasifo sazela! Ukuba unina akagula kwaye akakhubazekanga, uneminyaka ubudala xa usenokufumana umsebenzi, kufuneka azinikezele. Kwaye ulungele ukuxhasa nokunceda, kodwa ungayithathi yonke loo nto.
"Intsha engunaphakade"
IMINYAKA YEZEMPILO - IMINYAKA 16-18
Ukuba ukukhula komntu ngenxa yesizathu esithile akupheli, ngoko ngengqondo akayiyo umntwana ongakhathazekiyo, kodwa akakho umntu omdala-apha sijongana "nomntwana oselula". Unentlonelo efanayo yehlabathi elikhohlakeleyo, kodwa ezinyaweni zakhe uyazimelela kwaye uzama ukumelana nazo zonke iintlanga, ezibonisa i-nhilism kunye ne-maximimalism. Umntwana osemncinci unesitori somnxeba kunye nomnqweno omkhulu wokwenzeka ebomini. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukuzithoba, okuzama ukunyusa kwiindleko zomntu.
Umsebenzi
"Abaselula bayona bantu bahamba phambili: bakulungele" ukuhamba nezidumbu "ngaphandle kokujonga emva. Abazihlaziyiyo izenzo zabo, bazinqumla emagxeni abo. Abanomdla kwiimvakalelo zabanye, kuba abantu abanjalo abanalo uvelwano (ukukwazi ukuvakalelwa). La magama amathathu: umngcipheko, ukunganakwa abanye kunye ne talente yokuxhaphaza kubavumela ukuba baqhube phambili ngokuphumelelayo kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, "- utsho uLiza DOGODINA, isazi sezengqondo, i-yoga therapist kwi-Open World Centre.
Ubudlelwane nabathandekayo
Ngenxa yokungabi nangovelwano, umntwana uselula ubudlelwane obunzima kunye nezihlobo zakhe, kwaye akukhathaleli kuphela ngabazali, kodwa nabahlobo, ezinye iinqunithi. Umntwana okhulayo ukholelwa ukuba unokuhlazisa izihlobo zakho, zibaxhaphaze, kuba ziyakuthanda - ngokuqinisekileyo aziyi kuphinda zihluthe. Ngenxa yoko - iingxabano rhoqo kwiintsapho kunye nentanda. Kwiingane, abantwana abaselula bayakhetha umntu ukuba alandele, alungele ukunyamezela ukuthotywa.
Indlela yokuthetha nabo?
Kunye nomphathi . Awukwazi ukuphikisana naye, uchaze ukungapheleli komsebenzi.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Mdumise ukuba kunokwenzeka. Ukuba unemibono, zicinge ngendlela efanelekileyo: wazakhela yonke into, kwaye uyayenza.
Ngomfana oselula . Unako ukufumana intsapho, umlungiselele, kodwa akayi kuthembeka kumfazi wakhe kwaye ahlangane nabantwana.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Ukuba ufuna "intombazana" ukuba yinxalenye yendlu yentsapho, kufuneka uguquke kubafazi abaliqela kwaye ubeke umxhwele kuye yonke imihla.
Nomama . Ihluke ngokuba ayilungiselelanga kwaye ayihlolisise indlu. Xa ufuna into ethile, unokuzenza ngathi uneshishini; kodwa ukuba ufuna uncedo ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka ubaleke kwisixeko kwaye ube ngecala lakho.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Musa ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza kuye ukhala malunga nokuba ufuna into ngoku. Ukuba unemiba yakho, uwagqibe. Xa ukhululekile, uncede unina. Ekuqaleni, akayi kuvuyela imeko. Kodwa ngomsebenzi omde unokuvusa umntu omdala kuyo.
Superstar
IMINYAKA YEZEMPILO - IMinyaka 60-70
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuthetha ukuba umntu omdala osemakhaya nguye ofunekayo ukuze iminyaka yethu yengqondo ibe yanele? Hayi! Kubonakala ukuba ukuba umntwana wangaphakathi kunye nentombazana "ilele" kumntu, uba njengendoda endala.
Ubudlelwane nabathandekayo
Aba bantu abayithandi ukuzizonwabisa, bahlala begxeka bonke abantu kunye nabo, baceba ukwenza iminyaka, bezama ukuhambelana ngqo kwisicwangciso.
Umsebenzi
Lo mntu akayithandi utshintsho - bayamthusa, ngoko usebenza ixesha elide endaweni enye. Njengomthetho, abantu abanjalo bakhetha imisebenzi "eyiyo" - yonke into efuna ukubala ngokulandelelana kunye nokulungelelaniswa kwezenzo. Banoxanduva, ngokunyanisekileyo benze yonke into ngexesha ngexesha okanye kungekho mpazamo. Kwaye bafuna isimo sengqondo esifanayo ukuba basebenze kubasebenzi basebenzisana nabo: abayinyamezeli xa oogxa beqhawula ixesha lokuyeka, behluleka okanye benze konke ngomzuzu wokugqibela.
Indlela yokuthetha nabo?
Le ngxaki yengqondo ephikisayo, ekufuneka ifune indlela yayo.
Kunye nomphathi . "I-Superstar" kunye nezakhono zakhe zinokuthi zibe kwisihlalo sintloko. Emva koko abaphantsi kwabo kuya kuba nexesha lemfazwe elinomyalelo "wokuvalwa kwexesha" kunye neenqabileyo "zokuxoshwa". Ngeke kwenzeke ukuphambukela kwiKhowudi yeMisebenzi. Kufuneka ufunde isivumelwano. Ukuba into ethile, ngokucinga kwayo, ayiphumelelanga, uya kukhishwa ngokukhawuleza kwinqaku.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Musa ukumemeza kuye kwaye ungaphazamisi. Zama ukungabi sekwephuzile emsebenzini, ungaphuli ixesha lokuyeka kwaye ungashiyi umsebenzi ngaphambili.
Ngomfana oselula . Ngalo mgca, awukwazi ukulindela ukuthandana.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Leli ngxondorha elingenakufikeleleka linokutshatyalaliswa yi-caress, ukunakekelwa kunye novelwano. Ungaze uxoxe naye ngomsebenzi wakhe kunye nezakhono zoshishino.
Nomama . Ukuba unina "uyinqaba", ngoko uyabathanda kwaye uyabakhathalela abantwana, kodwa umlingani awuvumeli ukuba abonise iimvakalelo.
Amaqhinga okuchaneka . Mamela onke ama-tirades kunye nemiyalelo kamama. Zibophezele ukuzalisekisa konke oku, kodwa ngendlela enokuthula yenza njengoko ubona kufanelekile.