Isidima somntu - esaziwayo kummandla wasemthethweni kunye nencazelo engacacileyo yabantu abaqhelekileyo.
Siyakwazi ukuyiqonda njengexabiso eliqhelekileyo kwanoma yimuphi umntu. Ixabiso layo nazo zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu zalo, ukuqala kwizinto eziphilayo kuthi, njengezilwanyana zezinto eziphilayo kunye nokuphela kwayo yonke into efunyanwa ngabantu kuphela. Ngamaxesha adlulileyo, amabinzana afana "Alahlekile (kunye) nesidima saso sabantu", "ukuhlaziswa kwesidima sabantu" kuye kwavakala ngokubanzi kuluntu. Ewe, eneneni, kukho izinto ezingonakalisa isidima somntu - ulwalamlo, ukucalulwa kunye nokucinezelwa komntu ngenxa yeemeko zabo zentlalo, umbala, isini, okanye nayiphi na into enomdla kunye nombono wehlabathi.
Sithini isithunzi somntu?
Inkululeko engaphakathi kuyo yonke into evela ekuzalweni. Inkululeko yokukhetha nokubonakaliswa kwehlabathi langaphakathi, umntu ngaphakathi. Ukuthotywa kunye nokulahlekelwa kwesigwebo somntu siqu kuthetha ukulahlekelwa kwamanani angaphakathi ngaphakathi, ukungabi nhlonipho kubo. Isidima somntu luxabisekileyo lwangaphakathi. Amalungelo okuhlonipha nokuzithemba. Emva kokuba sele izimisele ngokuzalwa. Kodwa uluntu oluphucukileyo luphuhlisiwe, ukuzama ngokukhawuleza ukulingana kwabo bonke, kwaye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isigqibo sokuba isithunzi somntu asiyi kuthathwa ngumthombo, ubutyebi, imfundo okanye isimo sezenhlalakahle.
Isidima sabantu sisoloko sichazwa njengempawu ezintle. Ezi ziimpawu umntu azifumene ebomini. Yayiphi na into eyayithambekele ekuzalweni kwayo, abagonyelwe ngabazali kwinkqubo yemfundo, okanye iveliswe yendalo. Imizekelo ephambili yesithunzi sabantu:
- nya niseka;
- nesibindi / ukwesaba;
- nya niseka;
- xanduva;
- qeqesho;
- ngenjongo;
- bubele;
- ukuzola;
- msebenzi;
- nomonde;
- nya mezela;
- ukuzimela;
- mbulelo;
- intando e namandla;
- nziswano;
- yokumodareyitha;
- ukunyamekela;
- ukuhluka / ukulungelelaniswa.
Ngokwahlukileyo kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba ezi ziyimpawu ezisetyenziswayo nawuphi na umqeshi oya kuwuqwalasela xa ehamba nawe emsebenzini. Kule minyaka, izazi zeengqondo ziye zaza zaza zavelisa inani elikhulu leemvavanyo ezahlukileyo ukucacisa ukufaneleka komntu ngamnye. Bonke bacebisa, bazi abantu, emsebenzini nakwekhaya, banokugxininisa ngamandla akho, iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo. Ukuphuhlisa, bazi kwaye baxabise ngokwabo.
Nangona kunjalo, akusiyo yonke into enhle kwabanye eya kuba yinto enhle kwabanye. Umsebenzi, ukuzinikezela, ukwesaba - ngokuqinisekileyo, isidima somntu. Kodwa ngaba baya kuba luxabiseke kakhulu kumfazi? Sinokuthetha oko
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