Uthando lubi kwaye, ngelishwa, i-psychopaths isebenzisa. Kubalulekile ukugqiba ngexesha lokuba kukho into engafanelekanga kumntu, kwaye ubaleke kwiimeko ezinjalo "ezigulayo".
Khawucinge nje, kwihlabathi malunga ne-4% yabantu abahluphekileyo ngengqondo, oku kuthetha ukuba umntu onama-25 unobungozi kwintlalo. Iimpawu zesimo sengqondo ziquka uthando olwenyukayo, ubuxoki bentliziyo, ukungabi nesazela novelwano. Ngaba ufumene iimpawu ezifanayo kwiqabane lakho? Ndikholelwe, oku akunjalo.
Ulwalamano oluhle, njengengxelo yefestile.
Umlingani wakujikelezile ngothando, ubonisa ububele, uzalisekisa zonke i-whims, ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho ukuvakalelwa ukuba apha uyinduna elide elindelweyo, kwaye ubomi buye baba yinto yamagama. Ngokudabukisayo, amaqhinga akhe aphumelele, kuba kunzima ukuxhathisa, ukunyamekela nokunyamekela. Ukuba akusiyo ixesha elide, kwaye sele esethetha ngothando oluqinileyo, cingisisa ngalo, kuba libukeka ngeso lengxaki.
2. Yeka, nqama, into enokukhawuleza.
Ii-Psychopath zilukhuni, kwaye azinqweneli ukumbathisa isiskithi se "nkosana efanelekileyo" ixesha elide, ngoko ukhetha umdlalo ngokubhekiselele kwimeko esheshayo. Uthetha ngothando olungunaphakade, abantwana, umtshato kwaye ubiza "isiqingatha sesibini" phantse ukususela ngexesha lokwaziyo? I-Brake, kuba ukukhawuleza okunjalo kunokukhokelela ekupheleni kokudabukisayo.
3. Nguye inkwenkwezi enkulu.
Xa eqonda ukuba ixhoba "kwi-hook," ubuntu be-psychopath buya kuqala ukuzibonakalisa ngokuncinane. Uyakuthanda ukuba phakathi kwenkxalabo, ukuba wonke umntu uyamhlonela okanye mhlawumbi wazisola. Ukwenza oku, uya kudibanisa ingcamango yakhe engapheliyo kwaye axele indlela athathe ngayo umntwana ngaphandle kwendlu eshushu, indlela awayeyisa ngayo isifo esibi kunye nokunye. Ngamaxesha onke amabali aya kuba nzima kwaye kuya kubonakala ukuba uSuperman ulandelayo.
4. andizange ndenze oku kwaye ndingatsho nto!
Ukuba i-psychopath ethandekayo, ngokukhawuleza uza kuba nomntu othembekileyo "umhlobo" othembekileyo wokungabikho kokunyaniseka kunye nokuba netyala. Yonke le nto - icebo elihle kakhulu lezenzo, kuba umfana angaphumelela kuyo nayiphi na imeko, njengomlingo onobuchule. Cinga ngantoni na ukuba ibinzana elithi "uyazikhupha" lomsindo? Kwaye okudabukisayo kukuba emva kwexesha uya kuvuma nale nto.
5. Ubomi bunjenge-coaster coaster.
Kuze kube kutshanje, ube nguye isalathiso sesithunywa, esona sihle kakhulu kwaye siyingqayizivele, kwaye namhlanje akacingi njalo, kwaye kaninzi unokuva iintetho ezihlazo. Ihlazo, akunjalo? Nangona ukulahleka kwexeshana kwenzalo kukubonisa ukuba akuyi kuba ngcono, kwaye isiphelo asikude.
6. Yibani nomona, memeze, nimemeze ...
Ingqondo yengqondo yindoda engumntu othanda ukondla kwiimvakalelo zabanye abantu. Ubonakala edlala umdlalo, injongo yayo kukugubungela phantsi phantsi kweenyawo zakhe. Kuyadabukisayo, kodwa zonke iimeko ezibuhlungu kunye nokuhlaziywa kuya kufuneka zifumaneke zodwa, kuba imfesane iyimfama kuye.
7. Injongo yalo kukuba yenze intlungu kakhulu.
Umfana we-psychopathic ufuna ukunyamekela ixhoba lakhe ukufumanisa ubuthathaka ekusebenziseni ngokuphumelelayo. Uthanda ukuqhuba "uphando", ukufumana zonke iinkcukacha, ukumakisha amabali ebalulekileyo. Kukho nawuphi na umbambano, ucofa kwiindawo ezibuhlungu kakhulu. Umzekelo, ukuba uhlala kwintsapho engaphelelanga, kholwani mna, uya kufaka ingcinezelo kuyo.
8. Ubomi bujikelele?
Yiya kwisibuko uze ukhangela ukucinga kwakho. Uyekile ukuziqonda wena, uyaqonda ukuba ubomi buwela entlango, kwaye ungakhumbuli xa usandul 'uva nje uvuyo? Esi sibonakaliso esinzulu sokuba ulwalamano lwakho luya kwindlela apho, kwaye kufuneka uguqule into ngokukhawuleza.