Umntu uyinto ekhethekileyo kunye neemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Bancedisa ukubonisa isimo sengqondo ngomnye umntu okanye ukusabela kwisiganeko, kuba kubi okanye ukuvuya. Yingakho kufuneka uqonde ukuba zeziphi iimvakalelo kunye noko bathethayo.
Ziziphi iimvakalelo ezikhoyo kumntu?
Iimvakalelo ziphendulela kwiimeko ezihlala ixesha elifutshane. Kulula ukubona, balala phezu komhlaba. Unokuhlala uqonda ngokuphandle okanye ngokudabukisayo umntu.
Kukho amaqela amathathu emvakalelo:
- Ezintle.
- Ukungalungi.
- Ukungathathi hlangothi.
Iqela ngalinye lihlulwe kwiimvakalelo ezininzi umntu angakwazi ukuzifumana. Iqela elikhulu kunazo zonke iimvakalelo ezimbi, kwindawo yesibini zilungile. Kodwa zimbalwa kakhulu ezingathathi hlangothi.
Ziziphi iimvakalelo ezikhoyo?
Ukongeza kwiqela leemvakalelo ezichazwe ngasentla, kukho ezinye iindidi ezimbini, kuxhomekeka kwimisebenzi yabantu - i-stenic ne-asthenic. Uhlobo lokuqala luqhubelela umntu kwisenzo esithile, okwesibini - ngokuchaseneyo, kwenza umntu angaboni kwaye ahlasele. Wonke umntu uhlukile, yintoni imvakalelo ithintela wonke umntu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kwaye kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ziphi iimvakalelo ezintle, ezimbi kunye nezingathathi hlangothi ezikhoyo.Umntu ubona isiganeko kwaye ubonisa iimvakalelo, kwaye kwenzeka ngokungaqhelekanga. Kodwa emva komzuzwana umntu unokuzimela aze azifihle iimvakalelo zakhe. Oku kuphakamisa ukuba unokulawula iimvakalelo, kufuneka nje ufunde indlela yokwenza ngayo.
Ngaba ndifanele ndivimbele iimvakalelo?
Iimvakalelo zinikezelwa ukuze zibe ngabantu. Ziyamchaphazela kakhulu umntu. Siyabulela kwimvakalelo eyenziwa ngumntu kwiyona nqanaba liphezulu lezilwanyana.
Okwangoku, abantu bathanda ukufihla iimvakalelo zabo,
Ewe, kuba abantu abasondelene nawe bayazi ngaphantsi, oku kuthetha ukuba baya kwenza ingozi embi, oko kukuthi, umntu uya kuba nzima kakhulu. Kwaye kukubi kuba ukufihla imizwa, umntu uyaba nexhala, uyagxotha, kwaye emva kwexesha ngokuqhelekileyo uyalilibala ukuba uluphi uvakalelo neemvakalelo. Ngenxa yoko, ukuxinezeleka okuqhubekayo kunokwenzeka. Yingakho kungcono ukuba ungagcini imizwa yakho, kodwa ukuyichitha. Enyanisweni, ukuba ngaba zibi, kungcono ukuziphosa kwindawo ethile eyimfihlo, ukuze kungabikho mntu ongayibona.