E-ewe, ubomi bomntu ngakwesinye icala bude, emva koko, abanye abantu baphila ukuya kuma-90 ukuya kwi-100 iminyaka. Kwaye kwelinye - ngokubanzi, elifutshane, umzekelo, i-crow and turtles kwaye ihlala iminyaka engama-300. Kwaye kunjalo into efana noBathathu Emnye. Kuyo, iziganeko ezintathu ezibalulekileyo - ukuzalwa, umtshato nokufa. Kwaye, ukuba umzekelo weempawu ezimbini zokuqala ezivuyayo ziyaziwa wonke umntu, ngoko zingaphi ukuziphatha emngcwabeni akaziwa abaninzi. Masikele ingqalelo namhlanje kwesi siganeko esibuhlungu kwaye sithethe ngemithetho yokuziphatha emngcwabeni.
Njani kunye kunye nomoya onjani ukuya emngcwabeni?
Ukuqala, abantu abaninzi ngokubanzi, kunye nabafazi ngokukhethekileyo, banomdla kakhulu ngokufa kwezihlobo, abahlobo kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga. Kwaye kwangexesha elifanayo kumacandelo ethu amabhinqa ukuba yonke imisebenzi eyintloko isenziwa ukulungiselela umntu ofileyo ukuba angcwatywe, avuke, aqaphele ebhokisini, inkxaso kubantu abathandekayo kunye nokunye okunjalo. Ngoko ke, ukuya emngcwabeni, kubalulekile ukulungelelanisa nokuziphatha okuchanekileyo, kunye nokubeka impahla kwiehokerchiefs, validol, valerian kunye ne-ammonia, ngoko uya kuba nezona zinto ziyimfuneko kwiimeko ezingxamisekileyo. Ewe, kuba obaluleke kakhulu ekuziphatheni kumngcwabo kufuneka ube ngumonde wesigulane, kungakhathaliseki ukuba zeziphi iziganeko. Ngoko wena kunye namaseli akho omzimba uya kugcinwa, kwaye, mhlawumbi, uya kukwazi ukuxhasa nokuqinisekisa lowo uza kuyidinga.
Indlela yokugqoka ngayo umngcwabo?
I-code yokugqoka yinye umzuzu obalulekileyo wesiganeko esibuhlungu. Ewe, ukuba, uThixo akwenzanga, umntu osweleyo kwintsapho yakho yafa, ngoko umbuzo wokuba ugqoke umngcwabo uza kuba yinto yeshumi kuwe. Kwaye wonke umntu ojikelezile uya kuqonda, inkxaso kwaye akayi kugweba. Kodwa ukuba uya kumngcwabo kumntu, ngoko kuvela kufuneka kuhambelane nendawo kunye nesiganeko. Umfazi ogqoke esi siganeko esibuhlungu kufuneka ayenxibe njani? Okokuqala, umbala wengubo ulungele ukukhetha umnyama. Akungabi ngumnyama, kodwa ubuncinci ukuva. Ubunqabileyo obufanelekileyo, i-cherry, umbala we-asphalt emanzi, umnyama obomvu okanye obomvu. Okwesibini, intombazana emngcwabeni kufuneka ithunyelwe kwengubo okanye ingubo. Futhi ungakulibali ukuthabatha i-headcarf okanye inqaba ebanzi kwiitoni kunye nayo. Mhlawumbi umntu oshonile uya kungcwaba okanye enze nayiphi na enye imingcwabo ehambelana nokholo lwakhe. Ngoko, i-trousers ayikho indawo apha. Okwesithathu, ukunciphisa i-makeup kunye neendandatho, kwaye kungcono ukuwashiya ngokupheleleyo. Zigwebe wena, abantu banesizi, kodwa uhle kakhulu, kukuhlekisa ngaphandle kwamazwi. Ewe, ekugqibeleni, amazwi ambalwa malunga nezicathulo. Musa ukugqoka izicathulo eziphezulu zokungcwaba. Mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka uhlale kwiinyawo zakho ixesha elide, uze uye emangcwabeni, uvuke kwaye, kwaye ixesha elide ukuba ufike endlwini yakho. Kungcono ukhethe izicathulo ezilula kwiindawo ezinqabileyo zentsholongwane zehlobo okanye iibhothi ezifanayo okanye i-bots ngexesha lokubanda. Kwaye enye inqaku-eya kumngcwabo, ugqoke kungekhona nje imozulu, kodwa ucinga ngokuya kwindawo yamangcwaba. Kukho njalo kunzima ngaphezu kwesixeko. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ebusika.
Indlela yokuziphatha emngcwabeni ngexesha lokungcwaba okanye omnye umngcwabo?
Kwintlalo yanamhlanje, ukuba umntu oshonile wayengumOthodoki okanye umKatolika, emva kokungcwaba. Kwenzeka nokuba ekhaya okanye ecaweni. Ukuba umntu ofileyo wayengomnye ukholo, ngoko-ke umkhosi ofanelekileyo wenziwa kuye, imithandazo yomngcwabo ifundwa kwaye izenzo zenzelwe. Ngokomzekelo, kwinkonzo yomngcwabo yobuKristu, kufuneka uhlale ujikeleze ibhokisi, ubambe ikhandlela ezandleni zakho. Ukuba unokholo olufanayo njengomntu ofileyo, nxaxheba kwinxaxheba kunye nabo bonke. Kwaye ukuba uthe wazixelela enye inkolo okanye ungakholelwa kuThixo nonke, unokwazi ukuma ucebile ukukhupha ingqalelo yomntu. Kwimeko nayiphi na, zama ukungafani kakhulu nokuziphatha kwakho kubakho.
Imithetho yokuziphatha emngcwabeni, ukuya okanye ukungayi emangcwabeni
Yonke into ixhomekeke ekubeni usondele kangakanani kumntu ofileyo. Ukuba lo ngumhlobo wakho okanye ungumhlobo omhle kakhulu, uye waya emangcwabeni, eshiya kunye nazo zonke izibonda zomhlaba engcwabeni, uvele kumphefumlo uzukise imemori yakhe ecacileyo. Ewe, ukuba wawusemngcwabeni, kwaye awufuni ukuya emangcwabeni, akukho mntu unelungelo lokukunyanzela ukuba wenze. Zama nje ukusabalalisa ngandlela-thile imbongo.
Indlela yokuziphatha emva komngcwabo?
Emva komngcwabo, ngokuqhelekileyo kukho imikhosi yokumisa. Imithetho yabo eyintloko, ukutya, ukukhumbula isihlobo esingcwatywe okanye umhlobo onobubele, ukukhumbula iziganeko ebomini bakhe, okanye mhlawumbi ukuthandazela ukuphumla komphefumlo wakhe. Ekuvukeni, akufuneki kubekho utshwala, amazwi ahlambalazayo, isandi kunye namahlaya. Emva koko, oku akusiyo into, kunye nemingcwabo kunye nokuzonwabisa akumelanga apha. Emva komngcwabo, wonke umntu unokuya ekhaya.
Apha, mhlawumbi, nazo zonke iingongoma eziphambili, indlela yokuziphatha emngcwabeni. Khumbula, kwaye uvumele ubomi bakho kunye nabathandekayo bakho bude.