Ummeli ngamnye wesini esifanelekileyo ufuna ukudibana nesi sihloko, kodwa kungekhona wonke umntu onokuziqhayisa izinto ezifanelekileyo. Okuphakamisa umbuzo, "Kuthekani ukuba ndixelelwe ukuba ndiyingozi?". Ngokuqhelekileyo iimeko ezinjalo zivakashele ebusheni, xa kubonakala ngathi ukubonakala okubonakalayo kukubalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni. Emva kwakho konke, ukuqonda ukuba abafazi abalungileyo kunye nomsebenzi benza umsebenzi obalaseleyo, kwaye ulonwabo lwentsapho luyifumana, luza emva koko.
Kuthekani ukuba ndibi?
Umi phambi kwesibuko uze uthi: "Kuthekani ukuba ndibubi, ndibubi nje, njani ukwenza yonke into ukuyilungisa?" Ewe, iziqhumiso zinokwenza izinto ezimangalisayo, kodwa ngubani owakutshilo ukuba uyingozi? Amantombazana, umfana okanye awuzange wenze into enje nje nje, umzekelo, ukuthandwa phakathi koontanga alanele? Ngoko, khumbula, intombi zihlala zikhohlakele, mhlawumbi zixelela ukuba zibi, ngenxa yokuba zifuna ukunciphisa ukuzithemba, zifuna ukuphelisa umdla okhangeleka kakhulu kulona ndlela? Ngaba wayitshilo ukuba ungumfana wakho oyingozi? Ngako-ke, naye unako ukuphinda ulandele iinjongo zakhe, umzekelo, uloyiko lokuba uya kumshiya, ngoko uthi: "Ubani ofuna isidalwa esibi ngaphandle kwam." Ngaba uyayiqonda ukuba unokuthembela ngokwakho kwimeko yokukhangela kwakho? Ngoko uye kwisibuko uze ujonge kakuhle. Ngaba ubona intombazana eyoyikisayo apho, ofuna ukubaleka kuyo esihogweni? Masizifundele ngokucacileyo, ngaphandle kokuzibamba "Ndineempumlo ekhaleni lam, ndiyingozi" okanye "Ndicinga ukuba ndiyingozi, ngokuba amehlo am awanzima njengomhlobo wam." Ewe, awuboni nantoni na? Ewe, konke okuseleyo kukukhumbuza oku kwaye ungakholelwa kukho nabani na oya kuthetha ukuba awunhle.
Kuthekani ukuba ndibi?
Ukuma phambi kwesibuko, uthi: "Kubonakala ngathi ndiyingozi"? Makhe sibone oko akuthandi ngokuthe ngqo-umntu, umfanekiso? Ngomfanekiso, mhlawumbi, ukuqonda okulula. Okokuqala, iimpazamo zingaguquleka ngengubo, kwaye okwesibini, kunokwenzeka ukulungisa into ngokwenza imidlalo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awuthandeki ngenxa yobunzima obunzima, ke ungenzi impazamo yamantombazana amaninzi "Ndiyatyebile, ndiza kubeka i-hoodie, okanye iimeko ezintathu, ukuvala yonke into." Khangela, ngokuqinisekileyo, uthanda into ethile kumfanekiso wakho. Yilokho esikufuneka sikhombise, kwaye sivale iimpazamo. Musa nje ukwenza ngokuncedisa izinto ezingenamsebenzi - inqeni enkulu kunye nesisu singenakucelwa nje kuphela nge-sweatshirt enkulu, kodwa kunye nento into edibeneyo. Kwaye ukuba kunxamnye nokunciphisa, yenze iinqununu zeempahla, zithwale izinto ezinqamlekileyo. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo iimpazamo ezikulo mzobo ziza kunceda ukulungisa umsebenzi ngokwawo ekuzivocavoca nasekhitshini - inkcubeko yesondlo ayisayi kucinywa.
Kuthekani ukuba ubuso obubi? Kunzima kancinci apha. Ubunzima ukufunda ukupenda ngokufanelekileyo, ukufihla le mposiso. Ukuba ulusu luyingxaki, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngonyango lwayo kwaye ukhethe i-concealer efanelekileyo. Ukuba akukho ziingxaki ezicacileyo, nje ufuna ukulungisa into ethile, izimonyo zokuzicoca ziya kunceda. Umzekelo, imilomo epheleleyo engapheliyo iya kunika i-gloff yolwazi efunekayo, kwaye ukulungelelanisa izihlathi ziza kunceda ukuphelisa umthunzi omnyama. Ukuzama, konke kuya kwenzeka.
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